Anonymous
05/22/2023 12:17
Subject: Re:Grad's GF - Fam Pics
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sounds like White people.
True because in traditional POC families non spouses aren't invited to these things so it's not an issue.
It’s not up to the parents to decide whether or not their child invites their significant other to “these things.”
If parents are paying, it certainly is.
Paying for the kid to graduate from grad school?
Land the helicopter.
Anonymous
05/22/2023 12:15
Subject: Re:Grad's GF - Fam Pics
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sounds like White people.
True because in traditional POC families non spouses aren't invited to these things so it's not an issue.
It’s not up to the parents to decide whether or not their child invites their significant other to “these things.”
If parents are paying, it certainly is.
What?!
The kid just graduated from college and is going to be heading off to hopefully be an independent money-earning adult. And you are going to refuse them the chance to invite someone they care about?
Is this really the bridge you want to die on, when they no longer need you and don't have to remain in contact with you?
I can see some knuckle-headed parents doing this in high school graduation when you have a lot of control still. But college grad.? Way to shoot yourself in the foot
Anonymous
05/22/2023 12:14
Subject: Re:Grad's GF - Fam Pics
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sounds like White people.
True because in traditional POC families non spouses aren't invited to these things so it's not an issue.
It’s not up to the parents to decide whether or not their child invites their significant other to “these things.”
If parents are paying, it certainly is.
What?!
The kid just graduated from college and is going to be heading off to hopefully be an independent money-earning adult. And you are going to refuse them the chance to invite someone they care about?
Is this really the bridge you want to die on, when they no longer need you and don't have to remain in contact with you?
I can see some knuckle-headed parents doing this in high school graduation when you have a lot of control still. But college grad.? Way to shoot yourself in the foot.
Anonymous
05/22/2023 12:04
Subject: Re:Grad's GF - Fam Pics
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sounds like White people.
True because in traditional POC families non spouses aren't invited to these things so it's not an issue.
It’s not up to the parents to decide whether or not their child invites their significant other to “these things.”
If parents are paying, it certainly is.
Anonymous
05/20/2023 22:39
Subject: Re:Grad's GF - Fam Pics
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sounds like White people.
True because in traditional POC families non spouses aren't invited to these things so it's not an issue.
It’s not up to the parents to decide whether or not their child invites their significant other to “these things.”
Anonymous
05/20/2023 22:37
Subject: Grad's GF - Fam Pics
Anonymous wrote:They aren't married and it's not unreasonable to have some family pictures. She didn't graduate early if he delayed college by a year. She graduated on time. He didn't
Can you read? She graduated from
grad school. There is no such thing as “on-time” or “gap years” for that.
Anonymous
05/20/2023 22:36
Subject: Re:Grad's GF - Fam Pics
Anonymous wrote:We have a bunch of photos from my niece’s wedding that we all think would have been better without my brother’s long-term girlfriend (they were in their 50s). They broke up a year after the wedding and none of talk to her. We should have at least taken some without her.
Am I your niece?? This happened to us. The photographer actually asked non spouses to step out of the photo and she ignored! She was loony toons.
Anonymous
05/20/2023 21:02
Subject: Re:Grad's GF - Fam Pics
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sounds like White people.
True because in traditional POC families non spouses aren't invited to these things so it's not an issue.
It really is okay to say “Indian” families.
Anonymous
05/20/2023 20:27
Subject: Grad's GF - Fam Pics
They aren't married and it's not unreasonable to have some family pictures. She didn't graduate early if he delayed college by a year. She graduated on time. He didn't