We now bring a twin air mattress on most trips, even overseas ones (we typically just pack in a separate checked bag. It is only a mild pain compared to listening to my teens complain about not having enough space.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Girl sleeps in a bed with mom.
Boy sleeps in a bed with dad.

DA F?

Way more acceptable than the PPs who think it’s perfectly fine to make a 13 year old girl sleep in the same bed with her 16 year old brother (who will likely wake up with a morning erection).

PP and I would allow that either.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Girl sleeps in a bed with mom.
Boy sleeps in a bed with dad.

DA F?

Way more acceptable than the PPs who think it’s perfectly fine to make a 13 year old girl sleep in the same bed with her 16 year old brother (who will likely wake up with a morning erection).

Yup-- too much incest in the world. Dugger wannabes?

If you think your son might molest your daughter, this is a bigger situation than sleeping arrangements during vacation.

Older boy, younger girl (now 19 and 21). Now, we try to do VRBO or Air BnB with 3 rooms, so everyone can have their own. If we can't find that, or super expensive location, 2 rooms, one with 2 twin beds. They can share a room, but not a bed.

We did all the things others have mentioned, son with dad and daughter with mom, roll away beds, 2 beds plus a pull out. I cannot remember a time when they shared a bed. And as teens, NEVER

I would respect the wishes of the teens. Give them all the options and ask what they would pick.