Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don’t know, I’m torn. Does it look good? Well, no. But I get people of all sizes don’t want to be hot and want to wear something cool and comfortable.
But the more flesh you have, the easier it is to look “inappropriate.” Im thin with an A cup. I could wear a plunging neck dress and still look acceptable in most settings since I have zero cleavage. Someone with a DD can’t. Well, they could... but others would judge them more harshly
If your boobs and cleavage are down by your legs where OP was asking about, that’s a really deep plunge and you probably don’t look acceptable in it.
I’m fat and I wear shorts. I hate being hot. I do love that the fat shamers keep showing their colors.
But the sentiment is the same. Someone wearing 3 inch inseam shorts with long, thin, toned legs is going to be perceived a lot differently than someone wearing 3 inch shorts with rolls of inner thigh fat hanging out and cellulite all over.
Not really. One is more about patriarchal beliefs regarding vulgarity and one is more about patriarchal beliefs about how women’s bodies “should” look, aka fat shaming. Vulgarity and fat shaming aren’t the same thing, except that women are the ones most likely to aggressively police other women’s appearances.
Anonymous wrote:I lean towards inappropriate. Not a fat shamer, I think fat people (like skinny people) look gorgeous in outfits that fit their bodies well. It's kind of like taking pictures of your home. If you had a wall that had a scrape or smt you would hide that with a well placed object.