Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^ You don't need to offer him any explanations. Just stop contact with him and taking him on as an occasional appointment.

I have already backed way off and I mentioned on the phone that I am not sure about the situation anymore and he wants to meet in person because he is convinced there’s more to this than there is.

Well, there sort of is, by your own admission. But again, you are under no obligation to tell him that or spend time with him so he can quiz you about it.