Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Why all the judgement? It's such a BURDEN to fill out a good application complete with supplemental essays! More power to all these kids who are doing a ton more work!
My senior took an enormous amount of time to write thoughtful essays and burned out after the 6th application.
I wish he could have done more, but I saw his effort, and didn't say a word.
Unless you've ever filled out 30 applications for college, I really don't think you're in a position to criticize! It's not hitting a button 30 times, people.
Sure we can criticize. Because it is one of the reasons apps are up 10 percent every year.
Except you're criticizing the victims, instead of criticizing the perpetrators! The perpetrators are the colleges who built and encouraged this system. The victims are the students, who are either shut out because they didn't apply to many schools, or have to do a ton more work by applying to a lot more schools.
I really dislike how easy it is for some people to default to victim-blaming, whether it's for college admissions or any other situation (ex: "you were in a mini skirt - no wonder someone took an upskirt photo!"). It's like you guys just ignore millenia of evolution, bypass your prefrontal cortex entirely and stick to the lizard brain![]()
Here's the thing you are missing. By limiting the amount of applications to people serious about the school, you will see increases in acceptance rate for those that really want to go there and a higher yield. And isn't that the point?
You should be competing with people that have a desired interest in that school and aren't using for clout or because one of their friends went there or to satisfy some need to stockpile acceptances.
Perfect example. My DC is interested in a good OOS school and told several friends it was a top choice. A group of about 10 or more at the school then just applied there despite having no real interest, never visiting or having a realistic plan to attend. Now they're all competing with each other despite one truly wanting to attend. Maybe that shines through in the application but it's still changes the calculation with more applicates from the school.
One way you can limit this is to raise the application fees and then allow those fees to be applied to tuition if the person accepts the offer.
You'd streamline out a lot of people who are unserious. Yes, the drawback is that favors families that have more resources but I doubt you'd see 30 applications if the fee was like $250.
For those with financial constraints, there could be refund option if accepted or lesser expense. But you'd definitely see behavior change if you asking families to spend $5k on shotgun applications.
Anonymous wrote:Let's say you are strong contender for Dartmouth. You want to go there badly. No matter who you are, you might not get in.
With the way college admissions is now, you may not get into NYU, or USC either.
Let's say you don't get into any of the above schools... then you have to settle for... like, Indiana? If you could have applied to Brown, Cornell, and Penn-- one of them may have worked out. But no-- that's TOO MANY applications (when including all of the "safeties" that are needed).
So you just have to go that state school you're not that excited about? This is actually playing out for many students and it is sad.
Let them apply where they want.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Why all the judgement? It's such a BURDEN to fill out a good application complete with supplemental essays! More power to all these kids who are doing a ton more work!
My senior took an enormous amount of time to write thoughtful essays and burned out after the 6th application.
I wish he could have done more, but I saw his effort, and didn't say a word.
Unless you've ever filled out 30 applications for college, I really don't think you're in a position to criticize! It's not hitting a button 30 times, people.
Sure we can criticize. Because it is one of the reasons apps are up 10 percent every year.
Anonymous wrote:
Why all the judgement? It's such a BURDEN to fill out a good application complete with supplemental essays! More power to all these kids who are doing a ton more work!
My senior took an enormous amount of time to write thoughtful essays and burned out after the 6th application.
I wish he could have done more, but I saw his effort, and didn't say a word.
Unless you've ever filled out 30 applications for college, I really don't think you're in a position to criticize! It's not hitting a button 30 times, people.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Man some of your people care a lot about what other families choose to do.
Only because it affects other people, and perpetuates a cycle where kids have no choice to apply to more schools each year to get the same number of offers.
I disagree. There are roughly the same number of seats for roughly the same number of applicants as there have been for some time. The only people it affects are the colleges who have to read the apps, and they all want as many apps as possible to pick from. It doesn't affect you at all. I know you think it does, but it doesn't.
Regardless, criticizing a kid who does the work necessary to apply to that many schools is distasteful at best, and likely a sign of bitterness.
Sounds like you let your kid apply to 30 schools.
Anonymous wrote:Let's say you are strong contender for Dartmouth. You want to go there badly. No matter who you are, you might not get in.
With the way college admissions is now, you may not get into NYU, or USC either.
Let's say you don't get into any of the above schools... then you have to settle for... like, Indiana? If you could have applied to Brown, Cornell, and Penn-- one of them may have worked out. But no-- that's TOO MANY applications (when including all of the "safeties" that are needed).
So you just have to go that state school you're not that excited about? This is actually playing out for many students and it is sad.
Let them apply where they want.
no such thing as a donut hole familyAnonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes. Last year, when my kid was applying, some parent had twins, and they were maxing out Common and Coalition Apps to apply to 30+ schools each fishing for max merit aid.
To me, this is where it makes sense. If you're a donut hole family, it's not clear where the merit scholarship might come from, so you cast a wide net.