A bit different story: my sister and I both grew up "only children." I was 16 when she was born and moved off to college shortly thereafter. No other siblings, same parents. We have a close relationship now as adults and have similar personalities, despite being from totally different generations. Another interesting thing, we each had two kids, all boys, and mine are teens while hers are still little. It's almost like she's a younger, smarter me, having my lived experiences and mistakes to learn from.