Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 18:23     Subject: Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
+1 to the abortion suggestion.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 16:46     Subject: Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:Congratulations?! What are your plans?


+1

I'm astonished by all the people who are all in on making this decision for their adult children. Unless they're asking for advice or not financially independent it's really not the parents' place to decide what happens next.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 16:29     Subject: Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:The yes to abortion posts keep getting taken down.


Good. You don’t have that kind of say in whether your ADULT child chooses to have the child or not.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 16:15     Subject: Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
The yes to abortion posts keep getting taken down.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 08:24     Subject: Re:Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The lord provides.


LOL ding dumbest post on the internet.

Bible thumper with no clue, red states love you.


I would agree with you but then you drag politics into it and your post loses all credence.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 08:20     Subject: Re:Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:The lord provides.


LOL ding dumbest post on the internet.

Bible thumper with no clue, red states love you.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 08:16     Subject: Re:Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
No.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 08:14     Subject: Re:Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Kind of, but the reality is accidents happen, and birth control doesn't work 100% of the time. I've been telling my kids since they were young they are not to become parents until at least age 30, so they have time both for their brains to fully develop AND have a few years with those fully formed brains to experience adult life. So they know to get an abortion.


You know that you don't have that kind of control over your adult children's decisions?

Signed, mom at 29


You know that parent’s have influence over their adult children and instill values in their decisions?

Signed, a mom at 35


Well, it sounds more like control, conditioning and enmeshment.


Sounds like you are looney.


Fair enough. It may sound like that to you. Now reevaluate how your comments sound to others.


NP. Taking your own advice would serve you well.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 08:13     Subject: Re:Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Kind of, but the reality is accidents happen, and birth control doesn't work 100% of the time. I've been telling my kids since they were young they are not to become parents until at least age 30, so they have time both for their brains to fully develop AND have a few years with those fully formed brains to experience adult life. So they know to get an abortion.


You know that you don't have that kind of control over your adult children's decisions?

Signed, mom at 29


You know that parent’s have influence over their adult children and instill values in their decisions?

Signed, a mom at 35


Well, it sounds more like control, conditioning and enmeshment.


Sounds like you are looney.


Sounds like you never raised your kids to be independent


Sounds like your kids cannot go to you for advice and guidance.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 08:13     Subject: Re:Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Kind of, but the reality is accidents happen, and birth control doesn't work 100% of the time. I've been telling my kids since they were young they are not to become parents until at least age 30, so they have time both for their brains to fully develop AND have a few years with those fully formed brains to experience adult life. So they know to get an abortion.


You know that you don't have that kind of control over your adult children's decisions?

Signed, mom at 29


You know that parent’s have influence over their adult children and instill values in their decisions?

Signed, a mom at 35


Well, it sounds more like control, conditioning and enmeshment.


Sounds like you are looney.


Fair enough. It may sound like that to you. Now reevaluate how your comments sound to others.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 08:11     Subject: Re:Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The lord provides.


Hmm. In my recent experience with a young (24) single Mom it has actually been family and her parents ' friends who have provided. Thousands of dollars worth. Sad circumstances, though. The father passed away before the baby was born.

At any rate, people have provided.


Well, in that case may be god provided through them but he doesn't provide providing people to everyone one.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 08:05     Subject: Re:Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:The lord provides.


Hmm. In my recent experience with a young (24) single Mom it has actually been family and her parents ' friends who have provided. Thousands of dollars worth. Sad circumstances, though. The father passed away before the baby was born.

At any rate, people have provided.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 07:54     Subject: Re:Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The lord provides.


The lord can't run Child protection services well enough for children already in the system so you better have a better plan.


How many people with children who end up needing the attention of CPS had children, specifically, out of wedlock?


Not the pp but that doesn’t help.


Having kids out of wedlock doesn’t help, you are correct there.
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 07:33     Subject: Re:Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Kind of, but the reality is accidents happen, and birth control doesn't work 100% of the time. I've been telling my kids since they were young they are not to become parents until at least age 30, so they have time both for their brains to fully develop AND have a few years with those fully formed brains to experience adult life. So they know to get an abortion.


You know that you don't have that kind of control over your adult children's decisions?

Signed, mom at 29


You know that parent’s have influence over their adult children and instill values in their decisions?

Signed, a mom at 35


Well, it sounds more like control, conditioning and enmeshment.


Sounds like you are looney.


Sounds like you never raised your kids to be independent
Anonymous
Post 01/12/2023 07:32     Subject: Re:Would you be mad if your DC got someone/was pregnant?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The lord provides.


The lord can't run Child protection services well enough for children already in the system so you better have a better plan.


How many people with children who end up needing the attention of CPS had children, specifically, out of wedlock?


Not the pp but that doesn’t help.