Anonymous
12/28/2022 23:09
Subject: Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
Anonymous wrote:Ukrainian and Columbian women are the most beautiful.
Plastic surgery is truly industrialized in Columbia. Agree on Ukrainian but Russian, Polish and Serbian are just as attractive. Just different personalities (Russian assertive KGBs, Ukrainian optimistic energizers, Polish introvert and quiet, Serbian conjugate to men).
Anonymous
12/28/2022 23:03
Subject: Re:Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Haha the old hens sure are angry that American guys are bangin Brazilian and Thai hotties.
You mean prostitutes? Because the men I have known to travel to Thailand for “hotties,” uh…
Not every woman in Bangkok is a prostitute. I took a trip to a large Asian country, and my Bumble exploded with matches. Two women I chatted with on the app wanted money but none of my dates wanted money or a green card. I had about a dozen dates, and careers included: doctor, business owner, scientist, economist, grad student, professor, and single mom.
Every date turned out to be a nice woman and also unlike dating in DC, I actually had fun on my dates, and learned something on every date.
+1
This isn't surprising at all. Overall, much better personalities, more spontaneous, much less dysfunction, dates aren't interviews, etc. And no need to present an excel spreadsheet in advance for approval of date logistics.
Anonymous
12/28/2022 23:02
Subject: Re:Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Haha the old hens sure are angry that American guys are bangin Brazilian and Thai hotties.
No. There is always a price to be paid either way.
I posted earlier, more of my female friends are marrying Europeans and moving to their countries; that sweet health care, free or low cost University for their kids, and lots of vacation can't be beat. They aren't jealous of thai hotties.
Smarter American women are also broadening their options.
Where are American women going to broaden their options?
I spend a lot of time in South America and SE Asia and I just don't think they are interested in American women at all. And US ex-pats, forget about it.
What a weird thing to say. I am an American woman married into a SE Asian family, and it’s treated as a major prestigious accomplishment by my husband and his other cousins who managed to marry women of European descent. Now of course I think it’s creepy by the idea they aren’t interested in Americans?? Absurd.
Anonymous
12/28/2022 22:56
Subject: Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
Ukrainian and Columbian women are the most beautiful.
Anonymous
12/28/2022 22:46
Subject: Re:Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Haha the old hens sure are angry that American guys are bangin Brazilian and Thai hotties.
No. There is always a price to be paid either way.
I posted earlier, more of my female friends are marrying Europeans and moving to their countries; that sweet health care, free or low cost University for their kids, and lots of vacation can't be beat. They aren't jealous of thai hotties.
Smarter American women are also broadening their options.
Where are American women going to broaden their options?
I spend a lot of time in South America and SE Asia and I just don't think they are interested in American women at all. And US ex-pats, forget about it.
Anonymous
12/28/2022 22:29
Subject: Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
I would say other than the passport, the rest of the world considers dating most Americans to be settling
Anonymous
12/28/2022 22:25
Subject: Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
I’ve seen American couples like this too. Wife is hot, husband - meh but has money and vice versa husband- 9, wife - 4 but with a great career, has money, more stable. Average American dudes can offer a quick path to u.s. citizenship. That makes them more attractive to women in some countries who want to escape for some reason.
Anonymous
12/28/2022 22:18
Subject: Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You don’t just marry their looks, be ready to marry their culture and religion if different than yours.
Boy oh boy, could my DH write a book about this part ( I am not a "mail order bride", just a recent immigrant).
My DH has to deal with my culture's way of dealing with extended family. They are at my place all the time. They stop by unannounced, they spend the weekends with us, we invite relatives to live with us when they just get here and need a place to stay until they land on their feet etc. His family is much more hands off. It's a lot for an introvert like him.
OP, beware of the cultural differences!
It seems you need to adapt as well
I did some. But it's still a huge culture shock for him. We talk about my family's ins and outs and try to limit it some.
I have learned to accept and love his family and not judge them for being too distant.i find their relationships to be uncomfortable and awkward. But I love and respect them.
Anonymous
12/28/2022 22:09
Subject: Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
People jumped straight to extremes here. What I see more of is white guys who are probably 3s or 4s (nerdy, overweight, or otherwise awkward) ending up with Asians that are more like 6s or 7s.
Anonymous
12/28/2022 22:04
Subject: Re:Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Haha the old hens sure are angry that American guys are bangin Brazilian and Thai hotties.
You mean prostitutes? Because the men I have known to travel to Thailand for “hotties,” uh…
Not every woman in Bangkok is a prostitute. I took a trip to a large Asian country, and my Bumble exploded with matches. Two women I chatted with on the app wanted money but none of my dates wanted money or a green card. I had about a dozen dates, and careers included: doctor, business owner, scientist, economist, grad student, professor, and single mom.
Every date turned out to be a nice woman and also unlike dating in DC, I actually had fun on my dates, and learned something on every date.
Single mom is a career?
Anonymous
12/28/2022 22:02
Subject: Re:Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
Anonymous wrote:Haha the old hens sure are angry that American guys are bangin Brazilian and Thai hotties.
No. There is always a price to be paid either way.
I posted earlier, more of my female friends are marrying Europeans and moving to their countries; that sweet health care, free or low cost University for their kids, and lots of vacation can't be beat. They aren't jealous of thai hotties.
Smarter American women are also broadening their options.
Anonymous
12/28/2022 22:00
Subject: Re:Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Haha the old hens sure are angry that American guys are bangin Brazilian and Thai hotties.
You mean prostitutes? Because the men I have known to travel to Thailand for “hotties,” uh…
Not every woman in Bangkok is a prostitute. I took a trip to a large Asian country, and my Bumble exploded with matches. Two women I chatted with on the app wanted money but none of my dates wanted money or a green card. I had about a dozen dates, and careers included: doctor, business owner, scientist, economist, grad student, professor, and single mom.
Every date turned out to be a nice woman and also unlike dating in DC, I actually had fun on my dates, and learned something on every date.
Anonymous
12/28/2022 21:50
Subject: Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You don’t just marry their looks, be ready to marry their culture and religion if different than yours.
Boy oh boy, could my DH write a book about this part ( I am not a "mail order bride", just a recent immigrant).
My DH has to deal with my culture's way of dealing with extended family. They are at my place all the time. They stop by unannounced, they spend the weekends with us, we invite relatives to live with us when they just get here and need a place to stay until they land on their feet etc. His family is much more hands off. It's a lot for an introvert like him.
OP, beware of the cultural differences!
It seems you need to adapt as well
Anonymous
12/28/2022 21:49
Subject: Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
Anonymous wrote:You don’t just marry their looks, be ready to marry their culture and religion if different than yours.
Boy oh boy, could my DH write a book about this part ( I am not a "mail order bride", just a recent immigrant).
My DH has to deal with my culture's way of dealing with extended family. They are at my place all the time. They stop by unannounced, they spend the weekends with us, we invite relatives to live with us when they just get here and need a place to stay until they land on their feet etc. His family is much more hands off. It's a lot for an introvert like him.
OP, beware of the cultural differences!
Anonymous
12/28/2022 20:12
Subject: Unattractive American partner vs attractive foreign partner
You don’t just marry their looks, be ready to marry their culture and religion if different than yours.