Anonymous
12/07/2022 13:50
Subject: A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Widowed man and I'm looking for her now. Have been on about 15 dates. Didn't want any second dates so far. It's a lot of effort.
Fit, financially secure, likes to stay in and let me cook us a meal then watch a movie as much as dress up and go out dancing, or maybe a hike in the woods. No ex baggage at all-none. Grown kids who don't live with her. Not allergic to cats. Adventurous and expects the same in me. Willing to try new things. Bonus if she has a nice a$$.
Fit, financially secure, likes to stay in and let me cook us a meal then watch a movie as much as dress up and go out dancing, or maybe a hike in the woods. No ex baggage at all-none. Grown kids who don't live with her. Not allergic to cats. Adventurous and expects the same in me. Willing to try new things. Bonus if she has a nice a$$.
Anonymous
12/07/2022 12:29
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Boob jobs did change the market, imo.
Yeah, my friend says “t*tty privilege” is real. Lol.
I don't understand how this is a turn on. It's not real. Like, how is it sexy to touch something when all you can think is "there's a literal foreign bag of water in my hand". It's not an actual breast. I'm a guy and I have never touched one, but I have seen them and I don't understand the appeal at all.
How rational is the appreciation of breasts in the first place? "I'm holding a lump of fatty, fibrous, and glandular tissue! So much sexier than saline!"
This is a stupid argument. One is the human body, the other is not.
This is not a persuasive response. Lots of human bodies are repulsive.
Anonymous
12/07/2022 12:19
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Boob jobs did change the market, imo.
Yeah, my friend says “t*tty privilege” is real. Lol.
I don't understand how this is a turn on. It's not real. Like, how is it sexy to touch something when all you can think is "there's a literal foreign bag of water in my hand". It's not an actual breast. I'm a guy and I have never touched one, but I have seen them and I don't understand the appeal at all.
You don't have to understand beyond it not turning YOU on.
Anonymous
12/07/2022 12:18
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Of the guys who posted here ... is such a woman hard to find? Seems like it shouldn't be
As you have noticed, a lot of guys put "fit" in their description of what they want in a woman. Most America women (and men) are not fit, especially in middle age. So that removes about 70% of the population right there.
What's interesting is that a lot of the "she must be fit!" men are nowhere near fit themselves, plus dress poorly and don't groom at all. But sure, that fit fun lady is absolutely checking for them.
Anonymous
12/07/2022 12:17
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Boob jobs did change the market, imo.
Yeah, my friend says “t*tty privilege” is real. Lol.
I don't understand how this is a turn on. It's not real. Like, how is it sexy to touch something when all you can think is "there's a literal foreign bag of water in my hand". It's not an actual breast. I'm a guy and I have never touched one, but I have seen them and I don't understand the appeal at all.
How rational is the appreciation of breasts in the first place? "I'm holding a lump of fatty, fibrous, and glandular tissue! So much sexier than saline!"
This is a stupid argument. One is the human body, the other is not.
Anonymous
12/07/2022 12:15
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Boob jobs did change the market, imo.
Yeah, my friend says “t*tty privilege” is real. Lol.
I don't understand how this is a turn on. It's not real. Like, how is it sexy to touch something when all you can think is "there's a literal foreign bag of water in my hand". It's not an actual breast. I'm a guy and I have never touched one, but I have seen them and I don't understand the appeal at all.
How rational is the appreciation of breasts in the first place? "I'm holding a lump of fatty, fibrous, and glandular tissue! So much sexier than saline!"
Anonymous
12/07/2022 12:07
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Anonymous wrote:This is why if I ever get divorced I think I’ll prefer to be single. Embrace my “witch” era, live in a cabin at the edge of the woods, do crafts and gardening. Those ladies were on to something good. That’s why they burned them.
lol
Anonymous
12/07/2022 12:03
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Boob jobs did change the market, imo.
Yeah, my friend says “t*tty privilege” is real. Lol.
I don't understand how this is a turn on. It's not real. Like, how is it sexy to touch something when all you can think is "there's a literal foreign bag of water in my hand". It's not an actual breast. I'm a guy and I have never touched one, but I have seen them and I don't understand the appeal at all.
Anonymous
12/07/2022 11:59
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Must have Colombian DNA.
Anonymous
12/07/2022 11:55
Subject: A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Drinks Dos Equis. only.
Anonymous
12/07/2022 10:48
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
The recent cosmetic surgery trend is now to remove implants. I was married to a super wealthy man, and none of the wives of his friends or colleagues had fake titties. They were all super thin though. The huge boobs is more of a old school local developer GF etc.
I opted to increase my breast from A to small C with fat graft. They feel abs are basically your new natural tits.
I opted to increase my breast from A to small C with fat graft. They feel abs are basically your new natural tits.
Anonymous
12/07/2022 10:39
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Boob jobs did change the market, imo.
And now a lot of these women have cancer from them
Can confirm. Or even more likely, a package of autoimmune diseases in mid life.
-- Primary care NP who does follow up with the former-implant women post-surgery
Anonymous
12/07/2022 10:25
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Boob jobs did change the market, imo.
Yeah, my friend says “t*tty privilege” is real. Lol.
Gross. -natural 32DD
Anonymous
12/07/2022 10:25
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Of the guys who posted here ... is such a woman hard to find? Seems like it shouldn't be
As you have noticed, a lot of guys put "fit" in their description of what they want in a woman. Most America women (and men) are not fit, especially in middle age. So that removes about 70% of the population right there.
Kind of like women who want a man who is over 6 feet tall, makes at least $500k/year, etc.
Over 5’ 10” and over $300K would suffice : )
Okay the heightening surgery we need some breakthroughs on that. I can't be down for a whole year. I'm just saying everything physical you ladies can change with about 20 grand and a pretty short recovery. For us a lot of times it's not even feasible. Sure we can get you 300K some of us but the height requirements feel very exclusionary. It's not like getting a BBL, lipo or tit job. The height surgery means breaking bones for a couple of inches and you'll never be able to play sports again.
I'm just saying I know there are some fine medical minds amongst you ladies, give me some help please. Let's make 6 ft a standard achievable by all men for a price equivalent to a boob job because it's the fair thing to do.
Honestly it’s a preference not a requirement. I’ve been super attracted to men my height (5’9”) and shorter. Kind winning honest open trustworthy personality and solid stable secure responsible financials are much more important than height. Height just adds something to the sex life that is really nice to have (and actually contributes to the security feeling).
Does height really add to the sex life? Is it just in attraction or isnit something else?
If you had asked me before last year I would have said height was unimportant. I am still very attracted to men my height and shorter. However, last year I started dating a man who is 6’2” for the first time in my life and the spark is intense. Also this is embarrassing to say but I did not realize that the endowment is proportional and although I would never previously have said that it matters now that I am aware of the difference, it matters. I still would not pass over a great shorter guy on this factor alone, nor would I stay with a talk jerk because of it. However it is a really nice “nice to have.”
Anonymous
12/07/2022 10:24
Subject: Re:A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities
Anonymous wrote:Boob jobs did change the market, imo.
Yeah, my friend says “t*tty privilege” is real. Lol.