Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My kids are so fine with sharing pullouts. Is this a you issue?

Next time you need to book the accommodations. This wouldn’t work in my house either. My shortest kid is my night now and I come up to the shoulders of my oldest.

No no no no no no no

We should not expect women to bear the load of everything so that men can keep getting it wrong in peace

Op does not have a miserable attitude. Op has been ground down by years of having to do everything all the time - like most women - and we are the f over it

OP here with an update - husband ended up sleeping on the pullout both nights and kids tooks turns in the king with me. It was delightful. The younger of the two even told him - "Dad, we aren't 6 anymore."

Today he remarked how uncomfortable the pullout couch was and I simply said, wow, yeah. We should always make sure we have two actual beds going forward.

But let me know if you want to chip in for the divorce lawyer. I have Venmo.

Anonymous wrote:I have 2 6 footers and they can sleep on a pull out together no problem.

My 5 ft 10 yr old wildly flails and kicks in her sleep. No one is safe sleeping with her and her little brother, a light sleeper, would certainly not get enough sleep if he got any. It’s not about size.