Anonymous
10/18/2022 15:16
Subject: Re:Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Coated or vegan leather jeans or trousers in a cut that is flattering for you. A slim, and well fitting, top -- e.g., a lightweight cashmere sweater. High quality simple boots and high quality crossbody bag. Simple, dainty gold jewelry.
I think monochromatic outfits look sophisticated and effortlessly cool -- maybe the above all in creams, or blacks, or even chocolate browns.
Could add a blazer too.
Vegan leather is not a thing. It's just pleather. Calling it vegan leather allows people to feel ethical, and the company to charge 30% more, but it is all marketing.
+1 Plastic jeans.
Anonymous
10/18/2022 15:16
Subject: Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Straight leg jeans, Chelsea boots, a lightweight v-neck sweater, and simple gold jewelry. Also, good hair and killer lipstick.
Anonymous
10/18/2022 14:54
Subject: Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Anonymous
10/18/2022 14:52
Subject: Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Anonymous wrote:A flared dress, high heels (probably boots) and an it girl handbag.
Good God, no.
Anonymous
10/18/2022 14:49
Subject: Re:Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Anonymous wrote:People: nobody GAF what purse you are carrying.
If you like it, go for it, but otherwise it’s a waste of money.
This might be true for you, but plenty of people do care and enjoy designer handbags. Easy way to show you are doing well.
Anonymous
10/18/2022 14:46
Subject: Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Anonymous wrote:The key will be your hair. Get your hair done. They’ll be looking at your face, more than your clothes. Especially if you get there first.
Exactly what I was thinking! Great hair always wins.
I’m more j crew/classic so I think that I’d do a long sleeve plain tee with a cashmere sweater over it, then jeans, and great shoes/bag. Maybe a wrap if cold. And a neutral manicure. I always feel more confident with a manicure.
Anonymous
10/18/2022 14:45
Subject: Re:Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Anonymous wrote:Coated or vegan leather jeans or trousers in a cut that is flattering for you. A slim, and well fitting, top -- e.g., a lightweight cashmere sweater. High quality simple boots and high quality crossbody bag. Simple, dainty gold jewelry.
I think monochromatic outfits look sophisticated and effortlessly cool -- maybe the above all in creams, or blacks, or even chocolate browns.
Could add a blazer too.
Vegan leather is not a thing. It's just pleather. Calling it vegan leather allows people to feel ethical, and the company to charge 30% more, but it is all marketing.
Anonymous
10/18/2022 14:43
Subject: Re:Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
People: nobody GAF what purse you are carrying.
If you like it, go for it, but otherwise it’s a waste of money.
If you like it, go for it, but otherwise it’s a waste of money.
Anonymous
10/18/2022 13:19
Subject: Re:Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
I agree focus on hair and face. I love getting my hair blown out and I’d do that. You could get a facial the day before so your skin looks great. I think great skin and hair with mascara and chapstick is a great nice casual look.
What is your nicest/favorite purse? I’d wear jeans and pick a flattering top and boots to complement my best purse. Don’t buy something new for them unless it’s fun for you. I personally think jewel tones are super flattering so depending on your accessories a rich blue, purple or green simple top could look great. I look severe (not relaxed) in black or white but YMMV.
What is your nicest/favorite purse? I’d wear jeans and pick a flattering top and boots to complement my best purse. Don’t buy something new for them unless it’s fun for you. I personally think jewel tones are super flattering so depending on your accessories a rich blue, purple or green simple top could look great. I look severe (not relaxed) in black or white but YMMV.
Anonymous
10/18/2022 13:19
Subject: Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Anonymous wrote:I’d probably wear straight leg jeans, boots with a small heel or Chelsea boots, and a sweater I can tuck in on the front, and great lipstick. Like this -
https://www.everlane.com/products/womens-day-boot-ecru?collection=womens-boots
https://www.onequince.com/women/100-organic-fisherman-crew-sweater
Wow, the 1980's Forenza sweater from the Limited making the rounds!
Anonymous
10/18/2022 13:15
Subject: Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Ladies, OP has an hourglass figure and some extra pounds, she’s not wearing a button-down shirt.
Anonymous
10/18/2022 13:13
Subject: Re:Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Schedule a styling consult with a stylist from Nordstrom. Tell her/him the occasion and they'll give you lots of options.
Anonymous
10/18/2022 13:08
Subject: Re:Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Designer straight leg jeans (AG, mother), trendy sneakers, top from Reformation
This is what I’d wear. Just make sure the sneaks aren’t golden goose because then you look try hard (and like a trend whore with no financial sense) not effortless.
Oh hell no! No sneakers on a Saturday night. If it were a day thing- fine.
Sneakers after dark fur drinks on a woman are not cool, definitely not sexy. Wtf?!
Agree - def no sneakers. Boots or heels.
Anonymous
10/18/2022 12:39
Subject: Re:Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Anonymous wrote:Coated or vegan leather jeans or trousers in a cut that is flattering for you. A slim, and well fitting, top -- e.g., a lightweight cashmere sweater. High quality simple boots and high quality crossbody bag. Simple, dainty gold jewelry.
I think monochromatic outfits look sophisticated and effortlessly cool -- maybe the above all in creams, or blacks, or even chocolate browns.
Could add a blazer too.
Yup this. Although I like a few of the places the PP’s suggestions too (jeans & white button down & coded luxury bag, lol)
Anonymous
10/18/2022 12:35
Subject: Effortlessly cool "I just threw this on but look like a million bucks" outfit to go out for drinks
Anonymous wrote:Ok hear me out I know that these are Abercrombie but they are amazing and come in like 20 different washes https://www.abercrombie.com/shop/us/p/90s-ultra-high-rise-straight-jeans-47017866?seq=18&source=googleshopping&cmp=PLA:EVG:20:A:USCA:X:GGL:X:SHOP:X:X:X:X
:A%26F+Adults_Google_Shopping_SSC_US_Zombie_All+products_PRODUCT_GROUP&gclid=Cj0KCQjwnbmaBhD-ARIsAGTPcfVZrZKpROj_HsBi2JO_FAZGo3LWhVWqaQcbdP4QpemadEBs3FXhlIIaAri_EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds
Options to go with:
1. https://www.abercrombie.com/shop/us/p/90s-ultra-high-rise-straight-jeans-47017866?seq=18&source=googleshopping&cmp=PLA:EVG:20:A
2. https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=746496032&vid=1&tid=brpl000047&kwid=1&ap=7&gclid=Cj0KCQjwnbmaBhD-ARIsAGTPcfXREKOJeyVnXxHvT8VptGG4BnCHcaD3sYdqwnmyNMFKkdJk0cMs3ekaAv-kEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds#pdp-page-content with hoop earrings as shown
Or dress like this https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=745471072&vid=1&tid=brpl000047&kwid=1&ap=7&gclid=Cj0KCQjwnbmaBhD-ARIsAGTPcfWUbrWgjTyZWn-v4-I-7CdAvFAkNlRU0Uoqri7oLNB2e3QU2L9YtngaArdZEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds#pdp-page-content
Or jumpsuit (can also be paired with above Moto jacket)
https://www.lulus.com/products/in-the-city-black-surplice-sleeveless-jumpsuit/875282.html
I like your ideas. I think the dress is too much for this occasion, but overall, all good!