Anonymous wrote:If they does not want to hear your voice, they sure does not want to see you.

You can send a gift or card with your sentiments.

Don't force them to interact with you before they want to.

Stew in the consequences of your actions.

theysound healthy to me.
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FIFY. Op is a woman.

FTFY. Because ... whatever.

Anonymous wrote:If he does not want to hear your voice, he sure does not want to see you.

You can send a gift or card with your sentiments.

Don't force him to interact with you before he wants to.

Stew in the consequences of your actions.

He sounds healthy to me.

FIFY. Op is a woman.

This might have been the last straw for him.

Probably not the first thing you have done to raise doubts in his mind.

Sorry, but you need to think it throw. Share any insights you have gained (about yourself) in writing, IF you want to try more with this person.

Or accept the end and move on.

But don't show up at his door with a bribe.

If she does not want to hear your voice, she sure does not want to see you.

You can send a gift or card with your sentiments.

Don't force her to interact with you before she wants to.

Stew in the consequences of your actions.

She sounds healthy to me.

Anonymous wrote:It would depend upon your SO. They say they don't want to see you and aren't taking your calls, well, I'd cool it and not show up announced. Your SO it treating this as a break up, so you are no longer together.

What made you say you wanted to break it off in the first place, and how did you say it?

Could be testing it as payback. Doesn’t hurt to let someone apologize.

Send a short email saying you’d like to apologize, you’re not sure what came over you. While it might not change your mind, I’d like to apologize. Happy to meet in public at the XYZ coffee shop or bar.

If he ignores that or starts picking at you, walk away. No playing dumb games like that. You both can make amends or move on. There is no gray area of fighting or nitpicking or power trips on picking up the phone or not. That’s for immature idiots.

OP, you broke up with him, why would he take your calls? He has set a boundary and you need to respect it.

You can text and hope he doesn't have you blocked but that is it.

Anonymous wrote:If you had a bad fight with SO. Is it creepy to show up at their place unannounced with a gift and apology?

My husband and I had a big fight while we were dating and didn't speak for a week. I went over to his house with a mix tape. It was 1995. It worked.

If they are not taking your calls then you have your answer, no need to show up.