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Anonymous wrote:There's a reason for the old idiom that at a certain age, you have to choose between your face and your ass.

I would agree because I've heard this for years, but no, I chose my face AND my ass thank you. Both skinny. Both beautiful.

A skinny ass isn’t beautiful, sorry.

Anonymous wrote:OP must have a friend who lost weight and looks better. This is her passive aggressive way to put her down.

Love how DCUM always assumes the worst.

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Anonymous wrote:Slowing down and pausing during weight loss gives skin chance to tighten (and also helps promote weight maintenance). So lose 10 lbs, pause and maintain for a month, lose 10 more. Or lose for 6 months, pause and maintain for 3 months, go back to losing.

Also setting a target weight that is slightly overweight or at the upper end of BMI rather than the weight you looked best at when you were in your 20s/30s. Older people are often more attractive/look younger at a higher BMI than younger people. Post 50 being slightly overweight (e.g. BMI of 26) is also associated with the lowest all-cause mortality.

My grandma used to say that fat people get sick, and skinny people die. There really is something to having a little extra reserves as you get older, which can help carry you through an illness.

Does Grandma realize we ALL are going to die?

I’d rather die from what ails me than stay alive on live support or
Hospice while my body lives off of my accumulated fat, frankly.

It's not about life support/hospice--it's the likelihood of whether you will die from something simple like pneumonia or another infection. Being slightly overweight is generally protective in old age. Just good to know for older dieters.

please provide a medical citation for your statement. We will all wait. Oh, the CDC reports that being fat was the #1 comorbidity to death from Covid. “Protective” ??? Keep lying to yourself.

I did earlier--it's a large scale study and there have been meta-analyses This is actually an area I research:

My quote from an earlier post :Obesity levels 2 and 3 are associated with early mortality compared to normal weight. Obesity level 1 has the same mortality rate as normal weight, and overweight has a lower association with with all-cause mortality.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC48555...wer%20all%2Dcause%20mortality. "

The link didn't copy properly when I cut and pasted from earlier message--here it is:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4855514/#:~:text=Conclusions%20and%20Relevance,significantly%20lower%20all%2Dcause%20mortality

The conclusion of this report states what we all know - if you are in any stage of obesity your mortality is at risk: Please stop with your characterization of this article to support of your own issues on weight less or wrinkles or whatever your deal is. We get it - you are fat and hoping for justification. You do you.
The next Covid is going to happen - do your research on how fat impacts the organs - in the case of Covid - the lungs. See your doctor and ask for a medical interpretation of the article you provided.

I know how to read the report--I do this for a living. And my interpretation isn't about me (I'm not yet of later middle-aged where the report would even pertain to me, and I'm here just trying to lose the 10 lbs I gained over the pandemic). I just thought my knowledge was relevant to the thread. You can ignore it if you don't want to believe it. Feel free to ask your doctor about the report if you're curious.

The report states that being overweight has the lowest mortality compared to being normal weight AND that there is no difference in mortality between obesity 1 (BMI 30-34.9) and normal weight in terms of all cause mortality. There is higher mortality in being in Obesity 2 and 3 which is a BMI above 35. Health researchers know this pattern but we don't totally know what causes it. We don't advocate people to be overweight especially at younger ages because there are of course other health impacts besides dying that are associated with obesity--and if you on a trend of gaining weight when you are younger you might end up in Obesity 2 and 3 which are really bad for your health. But if you're losing weight when you're older, it's fine to have a target weight at the higher end of normal BMI or even overweight. And if you've gained a little weight--not to obesity level--in later middle age, you might live longer if you focus on maintaining weight and fitness/strength training rather than losing weight through calorie restriction.

As for Covid, though the data is still really in flux, obesity is clearly a risk factor. It's unclear whether being overweight is--it may be at the younger ages, it doesn't seem to be for middle-aged/older, but no one has a fully clear picture at this point. But covid-19 has been unusual in the level of negative impact of obesity compared to other infectious diseases, so we don't really know if the 'next covid' would have the same effect.

This thread is weird. Just get filler and some lasers.

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Anonymous wrote:Slowing down and pausing during weight loss gives skin chance to tighten (and also helps promote weight maintenance). So lose 10 lbs, pause and maintain for a month, lose 10 more. Or lose for 6 months, pause and maintain for 3 months, go back to losing.

Also setting a target weight that is slightly overweight or at the upper end of BMI rather than the weight you looked best at when you were in your 20s/30s. Older people are often more attractive/look younger at a higher BMI than younger people. Post 50 being slightly overweight (e.g. BMI of 26) is also associated with the lowest all-cause mortality.

My grandma used to say that fat people get sick, and skinny people die. There really is something to having a little extra reserves as you get older, which can help carry you through an illness.

Does Grandma realize we ALL are going to die?

I’d rather die from what ails me than stay alive on live support or
Hospice while my body lives off of my accumulated fat, frankly.

It's not about life support/hospice--it's the likelihood of whether you will die from something simple like pneumonia or another infection. Being slightly overweight is generally protective in old age. Just good to know for older dieters.

please provide a medical citation for your statement. We will all wait. Oh, the CDC reports that being fat was the #1 comorbidity to death from Covid. “Protective” ??? Keep lying to yourself.

I did earlier--it's a large scale study and there have been meta-analyses This is actually an area I research:

My quote from an earlier post :Obesity levels 2 and 3 are associated with early mortality compared to normal weight. Obesity level 1 has the same mortality rate as normal weight, and overweight has a lower association with with all-cause mortality.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC48555...wer%20all%2Dcause%20mortality. "

The link didn't copy properly when I cut and pasted from earlier message--here it is:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4855514/#:~:text=Conclusions%20and%20Relevance,significantly%20lower%20all%2Dcause%20mortality

The conclusion of this report states what we all know - if you are in any stage of obesity your mortality is at risk: Please stop with your characterization of this article to support of your own issues on weight less or wrinkles or whatever your deal is. We get it - you are fat and hoping for justification. You do you.
The next Covid is going to happen - do your research on how fat impacts the organs - in the case of Covid - the lungs. See your doctor and ask for a medical interpretation of the article you provided.

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Anonymous wrote:Slowing down and pausing during weight loss gives skin chance to tighten (and also helps promote weight maintenance). So lose 10 lbs, pause and maintain for a month, lose 10 more. Or lose for 6 months, pause and maintain for 3 months, go back to losing.

Also setting a target weight that is slightly overweight or at the upper end of BMI rather than the weight you looked best at when you were in your 20s/30s. Older people are often more attractive/look younger at a higher BMI than younger people. Post 50 being slightly overweight (e.g. BMI of 26) is also associated with the lowest all-cause mortality.

My grandma used to say that fat people get sick, and skinny people die. There really is something to having a little extra reserves as you get older, which can help carry you through an illness.

Does Grandma realize we ALL are going to die?

I’d rather die from what ails me than stay alive on live support or
Hospice while my body lives off of my accumulated fat, frankly.

It's not about life support/hospice--it's the likelihood of whether you will die from something simple like pneumonia or another infection. Being slightly overweight is generally protective in old age. Just good to know for older dieters.

please provide a medical citation for your statement. We will all wait. Oh, the CDC reports that being fat was the #1 comorbidity to death from Covid. “Protective” ??? Keep lying to yourself.

I did earlier--it's a large scale study and there have been meta-analyses This is actually an area I research:

My quote from an earlier post :Obesity levels 2 and 3 are associated with early mortality compared to normal weight. Obesity level 1 has the same mortality rate as normal weight, and overweight has a lower association with with all-cause mortality.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC48555...wer%20all%2Dcause%20mortality. "

The link didn't copy properly when I cut and pasted from earlier message--here it is:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4855514/#:~:text=Conclusions%20and%20Relevance,significantly%20lower%20all%2Dcause%20mortality

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Anonymous wrote:Slowing down and pausing during weight loss gives skin chance to tighten (and also helps promote weight maintenance). So lose 10 lbs, pause and maintain for a month, lose 10 more. Or lose for 6 months, pause and maintain for 3 months, go back to losing.

Also setting a target weight that is slightly overweight or at the upper end of BMI rather than the weight you looked best at when you were in your 20s/30s. Older people are often more attractive/look younger at a higher BMI than younger people. Post 50 being slightly overweight (e.g. BMI of 26) is also associated with the lowest all-cause mortality.

My grandma used to say that fat people get sick, and skinny people die. There really is something to having a little extra reserves as you get older, which can help carry you through an illness.

Does Grandma realize we ALL are going to die?

I’d rather die from what ails me than stay alive on live support or
Hospice while my body lives off of my accumulated fat, frankly.

It's not about life support/hospice--it's the likelihood of whether you will die from something simple like pneumonia or another infection. Being slightly overweight is generally protective in old age. Just good to know for older dieters.

please provide a medical citation for your statement. We will all wait. Oh, the CDC reports that being fat was the #1 comorbidity to death from Covid. “Protective” ??? Keep lying to yourself.

I did earlier--it's a large scale study and there have been meta-analyses This is actually an area I research:

My quote from an earlier post :Obesity levels 2 and 3 are associated with early mortality compared to normal weight. Obesity level 1 has the same mortality rate as normal weight, and overweight has a lower association with with all-cause mortality.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC48555...wer%20all%2Dcause%20mortality. "

Anonymous wrote:OP must have a friend who lost weight and looks better. This is her passive aggressive way to put her down.

Exactly.

OP must have a friend who lost weight and looks better. This is her passive aggressive way to put her down.

It is all about how fast you lose it. 2-5 lbs a month no big deal. 10 - 15 pounds a month your skin will look looser.

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Anonymous wrote:Slowing down and pausing during weight loss gives skin chance to tighten (and also helps promote weight maintenance). So lose 10 lbs, pause and maintain for a month, lose 10 more. Or lose for 6 months, pause and maintain for 3 months, go back to losing.

Also setting a target weight that is slightly overweight or at the upper end of BMI rather than the weight you looked best at when you were in your 20s/30s. Older people are often more attractive/look younger at a higher BMI than younger people. Post 50 being slightly overweight (e.g. BMI of 26) is also associated with the lowest all-cause mortality.

My grandma used to say that fat people get sick, and skinny people die. There really is something to having a little extra reserves as you get older, which can help carry you through an illness.

Does Grandma realize we ALL are going to die?

sick? as in diabetes? as in heart disease? fat people lose mobility in life and limits everything that means living. It is stunning how fat people look to justify their choices.

What is your point? Grandma seems to think being fat is better. I don't but, I do realize we are all going to die. Your point?

Opposite has been true for my sister. She’s 54, and everyone has been floored … she’s always been very heavy and defensive about it. Without all that extra weight, she is absolutely stunning with cheekbones and bone structure to die for. She’s not “skinny”; she’s 5’5” and size 12, so it’s not about being tiny…just a healthier weight. I think she lost over 60lbs.

It just depends on so many factors that depend on the individual that it’s downright silly to argue whether losing weight makes you look younger or older or better or worse (or healthier or unhealthier, for that matter). Age, starting weight, length of time spent at a higher weight, amount of weight lost, genetic skin elasticity, where and how accumulated fat is carried, bone structure, and yes how rapid the weight was lost (although I don’t think this matters nearly as much as the other factors).

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Anonymous wrote:Slowing down and pausing during weight loss gives skin chance to tighten (and also helps promote weight maintenance). So lose 10 lbs, pause and maintain for a month, lose 10 more. Or lose for 6 months, pause and maintain for 3 months, go back to losing.

Also setting a target weight that is slightly overweight or at the upper end of BMI rather than the weight you looked best at when you were in your 20s/30s. Older people are often more attractive/look younger at a higher BMI than younger people. Post 50 being slightly overweight (e.g. BMI of 26) is also associated with the lowest all-cause mortality.

My grandma used to say that fat people get sick, and skinny people die. There really is something to having a little extra reserves as you get older, which can help carry you through an illness.

Does Grandma realize we ALL are going to die?

I’d rather die from what ails me than stay alive on live support or
Hospice while my body lives off of my accumulated fat, frankly.

It's not about life support/hospice--it's the likelihood of whether you will die from something simple like pneumonia or another infection. Being slightly overweight is generally protective in old age. Just good to know for older dieters.

please provide a medical citation for your statement. We will all wait. Oh, the CDC reports that being fat was the #1 comorbidity to death from Covid. “Protective” ??? Keep lying to yourself.

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Anonymous wrote:Slowing down and pausing during weight loss gives skin chance to tighten (and also helps promote weight maintenance). So lose 10 lbs, pause and maintain for a month, lose 10 more. Or lose for 6 months, pause and maintain for 3 months, go back to losing.

Also setting a target weight that is slightly overweight or at the upper end of BMI rather than the weight you looked best at when you were in your 20s/30s. Older people are often more attractive/look younger at a higher BMI than younger people. Post 50 being slightly overweight (e.g. BMI of 26) is also associated with the lowest all-cause mortality.

My grandma used to say that fat people get sick, and skinny people die. There really is something to having a little extra reserves as you get older, which can help carry you through an illness.

Does Grandma realize we ALL are going to die?

sick? as in diabetes? as in heart disease? fat people lose mobility in life and limits everything that means living. It is stunning how fat people look to justify their choices.