Anonymous wrote:Because being thin feels good and looks great. I like when my stomach is flat and my waist is small and tight. People treat me better: men flirt more and women say things like, "you're sooo thin!" with a mixture of envy, admiration and a touch of disgust in their voices. I feel powerful and confident when I am thin. It is worth the effort.
Damn I’ve been thin all my life and I haven’t had that interaction (oh wow you are so thin type crap) maybe since my 20s? Or maybe I just don’t notice? The good thing about getting older (I’m in my 40s) is not having to constantly seek validation from others. Bc that shite is fleeting.
OP-I work out and eat fairly healthy but don’t restrict or go overboard with exercise. I like working out bc it helps me cope with stress. I make healthy choices but don’t deprive myself. If you have to go hungry and are a slave to the gym, you are doing it wrong.