I haven’t read the responses but does your kid want to walk around a museum alone? I would say every kid is different but about tween age and the kid’s interest in doing that would indicate readiness. I have a 14 yr old son without any street smarts and he walked around a museum with a friend and had trouble navigating everything. Wanted me to “pick them up” for lunch. Literally thought I was sitting in the car at his beck and call and couldn’t navigate lunch on his own with a friend (even though I gave him money) and then could barely find me at a museum next door without getting lost. You don’t want that. The earlier you can foster independence the better.

Is say 11 or 12

Depends on the type of museum. At the Natural history museum in DC, it is ok to let your 12 year old roam around...BUT, they might get lost. You know how big that museum is.

Some places like the National Gallery of Art, will watch the kids very closely. May even ask them where their parents are. I have witnessed this.

Museums are not baby sitting places. Kids behaviors can get out of control easily when they are allow to roam freely. So it depends on your kid.

Can you do something else like go outside and let them roam and you do your work outside? Like the Adventure Park or something like that. Or to the movies or Dave & Busters with some friends while you work. To the library?

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Anonymous wrote:What’s with the Karen’s on scum who think they have a fundamental right or a say on how random people parent. Who cares, why are you so bothered and so nosy? You know damn well you don’t tell people how to parent and I wish you would to see you get the sh!t beat out of you.

I mean, the thread is soliciting opinions. Of course people are going to comment, isn’t that the point of a message board?

I think 12/13 is helicopter city but if no one is asking for my opinion I wouldn’t be telling a parent I thought that

No one asked what they thought about how others parent.

Agree, I think it depends on the maturity of the kid. When my daughter was 9yo she was very mature however my 9yo son may not have been able to figure out what to do in an emergency.

I've done this with my kids - take my laptop to an atrium or cafe while they explore. They are 11 and 9, girls, and are really observant. You know your kids...in an emergency, how have they handled it? Mine have lived overseas and are unafraid to ask questions - that's the biggest part of this - the ability to get help when needed.

Anonymous wrote:What’s with the Karen’s on scum who think they have a fundamental right or a say on how random people parent. Who cares, why are you so bothered and so nosy? You know damn well you don’t tell people how to parent and I wish you would to see you get the sh!t beat out of you.

I mean, the thread is soliciting opinions. Of course people are going to comment, isn’t that the point of a message board?

I think 12/13 is helicopter city but if no one is asking for my opinion I wouldn’t be telling a parent I thought that

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Anonymous wrote:8 or 9 is fine. It never ceases to amaze me how much Americans infantilize their kids.

The problem I have with this isn’t that they are not mature enough at that point. Mine definitely were. It’s that until they are clearly teens in this area adults don’t like unattended children in public and harass them.

Another reason why they shouldn’t be left alone to roam.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:National Gallery's policy is officially 12 (https://www.nga.gov/visit/visitor-policies.html) to visit alone. However, I once sent my 12 year old there - we live within walking distance - and the guards wouldn't let him in, saying incorrectly that he had to be 13. But if you're actually in the building, I can't imagine that a well-behaved 10 or 11 year old would have any problems. At the worst, if a staffer asked, he'd just walk back and find you.

I don't know if the Smithsonian has an official policy, but I think similar ages should apply.

Thanks for this information. Very helpful. Also a good reminder when we dealing with the usual boring free range/tighter rope discussions, that often the age limitations come from the organization itself and not parents.

The guards at the National Gallery are horrible. They don’t like children and it’s very clear.

They are not your babysitter.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:National Gallery's policy is officially 12 (https://www.nga.gov/visit/visitor-policies.html) to visit alone. However, I once sent my 12 year old there - we live within walking distance - and the guards wouldn't let him in, saying incorrectly that he had to be 13. But if you're actually in the building, I can't imagine that a well-behaved 10 or 11 year old would have any problems. At the worst, if a staffer asked, he'd just walk back and find you.

I don't know if the Smithsonian has an official policy, but I think similar ages should apply.

Thanks for this information. Very helpful. Also a good reminder when we dealing with the usual boring free range/tighter rope discussions, that often the age limitations come from the organization itself and not parents.

The guards at the National Gallery are horrible. They don’t like children and it’s very clear.

Anonymous wrote:8 or 9 is fine. It never ceases to amaze me how much Americans infantilize their kids.

The problem I have with this isn’t that they are not mature enough at that point. Mine definitely were. It’s that until they are clearly teens in this area adults don’t like unattended children in public and harass them.

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Anonymous wrote:Wow. The parents who think their 14 year olds are too precious to visit a museum alone seem REALLY sensitive. LOL!

+1
Crazy people have crazy rules

Pot calling kettle.
Normal people let others parent their own children.

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Anonymous wrote:Wow. The parents who think their 14 year olds are too precious to visit a museum alone seem REALLY sensitive. LOL!

+1
Crazy people have crazy rules

Okay sock puppet.

If I'm in the building too and the kids are just visiting the exhibits at their own pace, somewhere between 8 and 10 all 3 of my kids were able to do this. That sounds like what OP is proposing.

Going alone with no adult, I allowed in middle school with a friend & entirely alone after 3 successful trips with just kid and friend. So, closer to 11-12 for this.