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Anonymous wrote:Just imagine him having sex with his wife. Legs over her head, doggy style snd the two of them falling asleep cradled in each other’s arms while he tells her how much he loves her and she’s the best thing that ever happened to him, stroking her cheek gently..

Imagine them at dinner earlier tonight, dressed to the nines, both turning heads as they walked in, feeding each other bites of their Michelin star plates. They look like movie stars together. You were so far below his level.

He gets up the next morning make her a latte and brings it to her in bed as he crawls back under the covers and puts his mouth between her legs.

Yeah you were a midlife bang that he hates himself for, almost losing everything he truly cared about. She never betrayed him and is too classy to ever be somebody’s side piece, a dirty nasty liar he could never trust. He has too much respect for her and never felt he was good enough.

You are delusional and aren’t close to the woman she is. You don’t know his mother’s name, his first love or what he is truly afraid of. Do you know the name of his best friend and how he died at 29? His deepest fears? The name of his childhood pet or the failure he felt when he couldn’t help his dad get off the bottle?

He didn’t confess any truths to you. You were somebody he needed to escape himself when he felt like sh@t and thought he wasn’t worthy. Thankfully he woke up, ended it and is making up for it every single day.

You are still delusional, living a lie and insecure.

Damn, this is a crazy imagination.

I cheated on my wife, and while I wasn't completely miserable in my marriage, it was nothing like this. I suspect if men had this reality with their wives, the infidelity rate would be very low. Men cheat mostly because they are sexually neglected.

Try again. Men cheat mostly because...

Use research to answer this time.

Research says....men cheat because they are not feeling loved or appreciated at home.

Although to be fair, men's love language is overwhelmingly sex. So it's a bit disingenuous to say men cheating has nothing to do with sex, because men feel loved when having sex with their wives.

Huh yet you cite zero sources and add your subjective opinion. According to Scientific American journal, “An analysis revealed eight key reasons: anger, self-esteem, lack of love, low commitment, need for variety, neglect, sexual desire, and situation or circumstance.”

Truth is -there is a variety of reasons and plenty of men cheat who also fulfilled sexually at home because they are cake eaters and need the validation because they have low self esteem. Take note that PP did not say it had nothing to do with sex, rather research backs up that’s not the sole reason for cheating.

Their decision to cheat comes from the desire to experience the love and affection they expect to receive from their wife, but has faded over time. After years of enduring those unmet needs, infidelity became a way for them to be doted on while not having to give up a partnership that still means the world to them.
https://www.marieclaire.com.au/why-do-men-cheat

A lot of guys are just entitled players. Period. They get long in the tooth in middle age and need to feel like they are the sh@t again. Their wives are often hot and sexy and what they bang leaves many scratching their heads.

Anonymous wrote:With Orsoyla Gaal’s cheating murder in Queens dominating the news, I’m surprised anyone isn’t seriously questioning their lifestyle and the risks the put their family in.

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Anonymous wrote:Just imagine him having sex with his wife. Legs over her head, doggy style snd the two of them falling asleep cradled in each other’s arms while he tells her how much he loves her and she’s the best thing that ever happened to him, stroking her cheek gently..

Imagine them at dinner earlier tonight, dressed to the nines, both turning heads as they walked in, feeding each other bites of their Michelin star plates. They look like movie stars together. You were so far below his level.

He gets up the next morning make her a latte and brings it to her in bed as he crawls back under the covers and puts his mouth between her legs.

Yeah you were a midlife bang that he hates himself for, almost losing everything he truly cared about. She never betrayed him and is too classy to ever be somebody’s side piece, a dirty nasty liar he could never trust. He has too much respect for her and never felt he was good enough.

You are delusional and aren’t close to the woman she is. You don’t know his mother’s name, his first love or what he is truly afraid of. Do you know the name of his best friend and how he died at 29? His deepest fears? The name of his childhood pet or the failure he felt when he couldn’t help his dad get off the bottle?

He didn’t confess any truths to you. You were somebody he needed to escape himself when he felt like sh@t and thought he wasn’t worthy. Thankfully he woke up, ended it and is making up for it every single day.

You are still delusional, living a lie and insecure.

Damn, this is a crazy imagination.

I cheated on my wife, and while I wasn't completely miserable in my marriage, it was nothing like this. I suspect if men had this reality with their wives, the infidelity rate would be very low. Men cheat mostly because they are sexually neglected.

Try again. Men cheat mostly because...

Use research to answer this time.

Research says....men cheat because they are not feeling loved or appreciated at home.

Although to be fair, men's love language is overwhelmingly sex. So it's a bit disingenuous to say men cheating has nothing to do with sex, because men feel loved when having sex with their wives.

Huh yet you cite zero sources and add your subjective opinion. According to Scientific American journal, “An analysis revealed eight key reasons: anger, self-esteem, lack of love, low commitment, need for variety, neglect, sexual desire, and situation or circumstance.”

Truth is -there is a variety of reasons and plenty of men cheat who also fulfilled sexually at home because they are cake eaters and need the validation because they have low self esteem. Take note that PP did not say it had nothing to do with sex, rather research backs up that’s not the sole reason for cheating.

Their decision to cheat comes from the desire to experience the love and affection they expect to receive from their wife, but has faded over time. After years of enduring those unmet needs, infidelity became a way for them to be doted on while not having to give up a partnership that still means the world to them.
https://www.marieclaire.com.au/why-do-men-cheat

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Anonymous wrote:Just imagine him having sex with his wife. Legs over her head, doggy style snd the two of them falling asleep cradled in each other’s arms while he tells her how much he loves her and she’s the best thing that ever happened to him, stroking her cheek gently..

Imagine them at dinner earlier tonight, dressed to the nines, both turning heads as they walked in, feeding each other bites of their Michelin star plates. They look like movie stars together. You were so far below his level.

He gets up the next morning make her a latte and brings it to her in bed as he crawls back under the covers and puts his mouth between her legs.

Yeah you were a midlife bang that he hates himself for, almost losing everything he truly cared about. She never betrayed him and is too classy to ever be somebody’s side piece, a dirty nasty liar he could never trust. He has too much respect for her and never felt he was good enough.

You are delusional and aren’t close to the woman she is. You don’t know his mother’s name, his first love or what he is truly afraid of. Do you know the name of his best friend and how he died at 29? His deepest fears? The name of his childhood pet or the failure he felt when he couldn’t help his dad get off the bottle?

He didn’t confess any truths to you. You were somebody he needed to escape himself when he felt like sh@t and thought he wasn’t worthy. Thankfully he woke up, ended it and is making up for it every single day.

You are still delusional, living a lie and insecure.

Damn, this is a crazy imagination.

I cheated on my wife, and while I wasn't completely miserable in my marriage, it was nothing like this. I suspect if men had this reality with their wives, the infidelity rate would be very low. Men cheat mostly because they are sexually neglected.

Try again. Men cheat mostly because...

Use research to answer this time.

Research says....men cheat because they are not feeling loved or appreciated at home.

Although to be fair, men's love language is overwhelmingly sex. So it's a bit disingenuous to say men cheating has nothing to do with sex, because men feel loved when having sex with their wives.

Huh yet you cite zero sources and add your subjective opinion. According to Scientific American journal, “An analysis revealed eight key reasons: anger, self-esteem, lack of love, low commitment, need for variety, neglect, sexual desire, and situation or circumstance.”

Truth is -there is a variety of reasons and plenty of men cheat who also fulfilled sexually at home because they are cake eaters and need the validation because they have low self esteem. Take note that PP did not say it had nothing to do with sex, rather research backs up that’s not the sole reason for cheating.

Their decision to cheat comes from the desire to experience the love and affection they expect to receive from their wife, but has faded over time. After years of enduring those unmet needs, infidelity became a way for them to be doted on while not having to give up a partnership that still means the world to them.
https://www.marieclaire.com.au/why-do-men-cheat

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Anonymous wrote:Just imagine him having sex with his wife. Legs over her head, doggy style snd the two of them falling asleep cradled in each other’s arms while he tells her how much he loves her and she’s the best thing that ever happened to him, stroking her cheek gently..

Imagine them at dinner earlier tonight, dressed to the nines, both turning heads as they walked in, feeding each other bites of their Michelin star plates. They look like movie stars together. You were so far below his level.

He gets up the next morning make her a latte and brings it to her in bed as he crawls back under the covers and puts his mouth between her legs.

Yeah you were a midlife bang that he hates himself for, almost losing everything he truly cared about. She never betrayed him and is too classy to ever be somebody’s side piece, a dirty nasty liar he could never trust. He has too much respect for her and never felt he was good enough.

You are delusional and aren’t close to the woman she is. You don’t know his mother’s name, his first love or what he is truly afraid of. Do you know the name of his best friend and how he died at 29? His deepest fears? The name of his childhood pet or the failure he felt when he couldn’t help his dad get off the bottle?

He didn’t confess any truths to you. You were somebody he needed to escape himself when he felt like sh@t and thought he wasn’t worthy. Thankfully he woke up, ended it and is making up for it every single day.

You are still delusional, living a lie and insecure.

Damn, this is a crazy imagination.

I cheated on my wife, and while I wasn't completely miserable in my marriage, it was nothing like this. I suspect if men had this reality with their wives, the infidelity rate would be very low. Men cheat mostly because they are sexually neglected.

Try again. Men cheat mostly because...

Use research to answer this time.

Research says....men cheat because they are not feeling loved or appreciated at home.

Although to be fair, men's love language is overwhelmingly sex. So it's a bit disingenuous to say men cheating has nothing to do with sex, because men feel loved when having sex with their wives.

Huh yet you cite zero sources and add your subjective opinion. According to Scientific American journal, “An analysis revealed eight key reasons: anger, self-esteem, lack of love, low commitment, need for variety, neglect, sexual desire, and situation or circumstance.”

Truth is -there is a variety of reasons and plenty of men cheat who also fulfilled sexually at home because they are cake eaters and need the validation because they have low self esteem. Take note that PP did not say it had nothing to do with sex, rather research backs up that’s not the sole reason for cheating.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't understand all the hate people with APs get on this forum. Look, clearly, they are looking for advice, why jump on them and start saying narcissist?

That being said, OP, are you now willing to leave your marriage? If you are, then divorce, and see what the AP is up to. Otherwise, don't, because you know it will spiral out of control...

Absolutely horrible advice. Stay out of his marriage. If he cut her off then she needs to respect that. There is a reason he hasn't contacted and since he's a dude it's because he used it and is done with it. The thrill is gone.

Yeah she is a really great person :

"I love my spouse and our relationship is better than ever. There are kids involved on both sides."

Yet I want to harm my spouse, some other spouse and two sets of kids, blow up two households. You know, because I love my spouse and our relationship is better than ever.

Such a troll post.

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Anonymous wrote:Just imagine him having sex with his wife. Legs over her head, doggy style snd the two of them falling asleep cradled in each other’s arms while he tells her how much he loves her and she’s the best thing that ever happened to him, stroking her cheek gently..

Imagine them at dinner earlier tonight, dressed to the nines, both turning heads as they walked in, feeding each other bites of their Michelin star plates. They look like movie stars together. You were so far below his level.

He gets up the next morning make her a latte and brings it to her in bed as he crawls back under the covers and puts his mouth between her legs.

Yeah you were a midlife bang that he hates himself for, almost losing everything he truly cared about. She never betrayed him and is too classy to ever be somebody’s side piece, a dirty nasty liar he could never trust. He has too much respect for her and never felt he was good enough.

You are delusional and aren’t close to the woman she is. You don’t know his mother’s name, his first love or what he is truly afraid of. Do you know the name of his best friend and how he died at 29? His deepest fears? The name of his childhood pet or the failure he felt when he couldn’t help his dad get off the bottle?

He didn’t confess any truths to you. You were somebody he needed to escape himself when he felt like sh@t and thought he wasn’t worthy. Thankfully he woke up, ended it and is making up for it every single day.

You are still delusional, living a lie and insecure.

Damn, this is a crazy imagination.

I cheated on my wife, and while I wasn't completely miserable in my marriage, it was nothing like this. I suspect if men had this reality with their wives, the infidelity rate would be very low. Men cheat mostly because they are sexually neglected.

Try again. Men cheat mostly because...

Use research to answer this time.

Research says....men cheat because they are not feeling loved or appreciated at home.

Although to be fair, men's love language is overwhelmingly sex. So it's a bit disingenuous to say men cheating has nothing to do with sex, because men feel loved when having sex with their wives.

Huh yet you cite zero sources and add your subjective opinion. According to Scientific American journal, “An analysis revealed eight key reasons: anger, self-esteem, lack of love, low commitment, need for variety, neglect, sexual desire, and situation or circumstance.”

Truth is -there is a variety of reasons and plenty of men cheat who also fulfilled sexually at home because they are cake eaters and need the validation because they have low self esteem. Take note that PP did not say it had nothing to do with sex, rather research backs up that’s not the sole reason for cheating.

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Anonymous wrote:Just imagine him having sex with his wife. Legs over her head, doggy style snd the two of them falling asleep cradled in each other’s arms while he tells her how much he loves her and she’s the best thing that ever happened to him, stroking her cheek gently..

Imagine them at dinner earlier tonight, dressed to the nines, both turning heads as they walked in, feeding each other bites of their Michelin star plates. They look like movie stars together. You were so far below his level.

He gets up the next morning make her a latte and brings it to her in bed as he crawls back under the covers and puts his mouth between her legs.

Yeah you were a midlife bang that he hates himself for, almost losing everything he truly cared about. She never betrayed him and is too classy to ever be somebody’s side piece, a dirty nasty liar he could never trust. He has too much respect for her and never felt he was good enough.

You are delusional and aren’t close to the woman she is. You don’t know his mother’s name, his first love or what he is truly afraid of. Do you know the name of his best friend and how he died at 29? His deepest fears? The name of his childhood pet or the failure he felt when he couldn’t help his dad get off the bottle?

He didn’t confess any truths to you. You were somebody he needed to escape himself when he felt like sh@t and thought he wasn’t worthy. Thankfully he woke up, ended it and is making up for it every single day.

You are still delusional, living a lie and insecure.

Damn, this is a crazy imagination.

I cheated on my wife, and while I wasn't completely miserable in my marriage, it was nothing like this. I suspect if men had this reality with their wives, the infidelity rate would be very low. Men cheat mostly because they are sexually neglected.

Try again. Men cheat mostly because...

Use research to answer this time.

Research says....men cheat because they are not feeling loved or appreciated at home.

Although to be fair, men's love language is overwhelmingly sex. So it's a bit disingenuous to say men cheating has nothing to do with sex, because men feel loved when having sex with their wives.

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Anonymous wrote:Just imagine him having sex with his wife. Legs over her head, doggy style snd the two of them falling asleep cradled in each other’s arms while he tells her how much he loves her and she’s the best thing that ever happened to him, stroking her cheek gently..

Imagine them at dinner earlier tonight, dressed to the nines, both turning heads as they walked in, feeding each other bites of their Michelin star plates. They look like movie stars together. You were so far below his level.

He gets up the next morning make her a latte and brings it to her in bed as he crawls back under the covers and puts his mouth between her legs.

Yeah you were a midlife bang that he hates himself for, almost losing everything he truly cared about. She never betrayed him and is too classy to ever be somebody’s side piece, a dirty nasty liar he could never trust. He has too much respect for her and never felt he was good enough.

You are delusional and aren’t close to the woman she is. You don’t know his mother’s name, his first love or what he is truly afraid of. Do you know the name of his best friend and how he died at 29? His deepest fears? The name of his childhood pet or the failure he felt when he couldn’t help his dad get off the bottle?

He didn’t confess any truths to you. You were somebody he needed to escape himself when he felt like sh@t and thought he wasn’t worthy. Thankfully he woke up, ended it and is making up for it every single day.

You are still delusional, living a lie and insecure.

Damn, this is a crazy imagination.

I cheated on my wife, and while I wasn't completely miserable in my marriage, it was nothing like this. I suspect if men had this reality with their wives, the infidelity rate would be very low. Men cheat mostly because they are sexually neglected.

Try again. Men cheat mostly because...

Use research to answer this time.

Research says....men cheat because they are not feeling loved or appreciated at home.

Although to be fair, men's love language is overwhelmingly sex. So it's a bit disingenuous to say men cheating has nothing to do with sex, because men feel loved when having sex with their wives.

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Anonymous wrote:Just imagine him having sex with his wife. Legs over her head, doggy style snd the two of them falling asleep cradled in each other’s arms while he tells her how much he loves her and she’s the best thing that ever happened to him, stroking her cheek gently..

Imagine them at dinner earlier tonight, dressed to the nines, both turning heads as they walked in, feeding each other bites of their Michelin star plates. They look like movie stars together. You were so far below his level.

He gets up the next morning make her a latte and brings it to her in bed as he crawls back under the covers and puts his mouth between her legs.

Yeah you were a midlife bang that he hates himself for, almost losing everything he truly cared about. She never betrayed him and is too classy to ever be somebody’s side piece, a dirty nasty liar he could never trust. He has too much respect for her and never felt he was good enough.

You are delusional and aren’t close to the woman she is. You don’t know his mother’s name, his first love or what he is truly afraid of. Do you know the name of his best friend and how he died at 29? His deepest fears? The name of his childhood pet or the failure he felt when he couldn’t help his dad get off the bottle?

He didn’t confess any truths to you. You were somebody he needed to escape himself when he felt like sh@t and thought he wasn’t worthy. Thankfully he woke up, ended it and is making up for it every single day.

You are still delusional, living a lie and insecure.

Damn, this is a crazy imagination.

I cheated on my wife, and while I wasn't completely miserable in my marriage, it was nothing like this. I suspect if men had this reality with their wives, the infidelity rate would be very low. Men cheat mostly because they are sexually neglected.

Try again. Men cheat mostly because...

Use research to answer this time.

And before you say "then you should've divorced if you didn't feel loved and respected", I didn't see why I should upend either of our lives when everyone was getting what they wanted. During my affair was probably the happiest time in my marriage for both of us because I wasn't harassing him to love me and he was free to immerse himself in golf and computer games. Until several years passed and I realized my initial lust for my AP hadn't subsided...

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Anonymous wrote:Just imagine him having sex with his wife. Legs over her head, doggy style snd the two of them falling asleep cradled in each other’s arms while he tells her how much he loves her and she’s the best thing that ever happened to him, stroking her cheek gently..

Imagine them at dinner earlier tonight, dressed to the nines, both turning heads as they walked in, feeding each other bites of their Michelin star plates. They look like movie stars together. You were so far below his level.

He gets up the next morning make her a latte and brings it to her in bed as he crawls back under the covers and puts his mouth between her legs.

Yeah you were a midlife bang that he hates himself for, almost losing everything he truly cared about. She never betrayed him and is too classy to ever be somebody’s side piece, a dirty nasty liar he could never trust. He has too much respect for her and never felt he was good enough.

You are delusional and aren’t close to the woman she is. You don’t know his mother’s name, his first love or what he is truly afraid of. Do you know the name of his best friend and how he died at 29? His deepest fears? The name of his childhood pet or the failure he felt when he couldn’t help his dad get off the bottle?

He didn’t confess any truths to you. You were somebody he needed to escape himself when he felt like sh@t and thought he wasn’t worthy. Thankfully he woke up, ended it and is making up for it every single day.

You are still delusional, living a lie and insecure.

Damn, this is a crazy imagination.

I cheated on my wife, and while I wasn't completely miserable in my marriage, it was nothing like this. I suspect if men had this reality with their wives, the infidelity rate would be very low. Men cheat mostly because they are sexually neglected.

Anonymous wrote:Just imagine him having sex with his wife. Legs over her head, doggy style snd the two of them falling asleep cradled in each other’s arms while he tells her how much he loves her and she’s the best thing that ever happened to him, stroking her cheek gently..

Imagine them at dinner earlier tonight, dressed to the nines, both turning heads as they walked in, feeding each other bites of their Michelin star plates. They look like movie stars together. You were so far below his level.

He gets up the next morning make her a latte and brings it to her in bed as he crawls back under the covers and puts his mouth between her legs.

Yeah you were a midlife bang that he hates himself for, almost losing everything he truly cared about. She never betrayed him and is too classy to ever be somebody’s side piece, a dirty nasty liar he could never trust. He has too much respect for her and never felt he was good enough.

You are delusional and aren’t close to the woman she is. You don’t know his mother’s name, his first love or what he is truly afraid of. Do you know the name of his best friend and how he died at 29? His deepest fears? The name of his childhood pet or the failure he felt when he couldn’t help his dad get off the bottle?

He didn’t confess any truths to you. You were somebody he needed to escape himself when he felt like sh@t and thought he wasn’t worthy. Thankfully he woke up, ended it and is making up for it every single day.

You are still delusional, living a lie and insecure.