Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Usually the people that think they aren’t being cheated on or my parents have always been faithful are the ones being cheated on, as well. I think most people cheat but like someone said, that the cheaters that don’t get caught, tell no one.

Yes. I was one of them in a very happy, hot sex marriage. I even was on this board saying my spouse would never cheat. Friends and families saw us as that rare couple that were best friends, chemistry, and both good looking. He came off as a doting husband and family man. An honest person.

Well- damn. Blindsided. He fooled a lot of people. Devastated many as well. Some who still won’t talk to him.

How'd you catch him? Short version

He confessed because he’s still amaze just like her, and then she lost her shit here and accused everyone on the forum of being his Ashley Madison whore, who is trashy, naturellement, with a dumb husband unlike her big winner husband who she couldn’t help but forgive….

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Trashy" is a stupid, meaningless word, and anyone who uses it automatically lowers themselves in my eyes. They also likely use the word "classy," which has the same effect. I don't think of people in these terms.

Very untrue. Society labels people based on their behavior. Do you call a bank robber an aggressive withdrawer? Or an undocumented banker?

Someone who is showing a lack of morals can certainly be called trashy, a scumbag, or other words to call them out. As a society there is a moral code, and when one breaks it there are often repercussions. Cheat with a married person, and both will be appropriately be labeled for their behavior.

I simply disagree, don’t use that word, and stand by everything I wrote.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Usually the people that think they aren’t being cheated on or my parents have always been faithful are the ones being cheated on, as well. I think most people cheat but like someone said, that the cheaters that don’t get caught, tell no one.

Yes. I was one of them in a very happy, hot sex marriage. I even was on this board saying my spouse would never cheat. Friends and families saw us as that rare couple that were best friends, chemistry, and both good looking. He came off as a doting husband and family man. An honest person.

Well- damn. Blindsided. He fooled a lot of people. Devastated many as well. Some who still won’t talk to him.

How'd you catch him? Short version

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Trashy" is a stupid, meaningless word, and anyone who uses it automatically lowers themselves in my eyes. They also likely use the word "classy," which has the same effect. I don't think of people in these terms.

Very untrue. Society labels people based on their behavior. Do you call a bank robber an aggressive withdrawer? Or an undocumented banker?

Someone who is showing a lack of morals can certainly be called trashy, a scumbag, or other words to call them out. As a society there is a moral code, and when one breaks it there are often repercussions. Cheat with a married person, and both will be appropriately be labeled for their behavior.

I simply disagree, don’t use that word, and stand by everything I wrote.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Trashy" is a stupid, meaningless word, and anyone who uses it automatically lowers themselves in my eyes. They also likely use the word "classy," which has the same effect. I don't think of people in these terms.

Very untrue. Society labels people based on their behavior. Do you call a bank robber an aggressive withdrawer? Or an undocumented banker?

Someone who is showing a lack of morals can certainly be called trashy, a scumbag, or other words to call them out. As a society there is a moral code, and when one breaks it there are often repercussions. Cheat with a married person, and both will be appropriately be labeled for their behavior.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Usually the people that think they aren’t being cheated on or my parents have always been faithful are the ones being cheated on, as well. I think most people cheat but like someone said, that the cheaters that don’t get caught, tell no one.

Yes. I was one of them in a very happy, hot sex marriage. I even was on this board saying my spouse would never cheat. Friends and families saw us as that rare couple that were best friends, chemistry, and both good looking. He came off as a doting husband and family man. An honest person.

Well- damn. Blindsided. He fooled a lot of people. Devastated many as well. Some who still won’t talk to him.

Anonymous wrote:Did you think JFK was trashy? And Clinton? And General Petraeus? Lots and lot of people have cheat- from every socioeconomic level and background. From WASP to trailer park. From car salesman to President.

Anonymous wrote:I'm sure people used to get away with cheating. Like everything else our lives are becoming more and more public.

Anonymous wrote:Usually the people that think they aren’t being cheated on or my parents have always been faithful are the ones being cheated on, as well. I think most people cheat but like someone said, that the cheaters that don’t get caught, tell no one.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Trashy" is a stupid, meaningless word, and anyone who uses it automatically lowers themselves in my eyes. They also likely use the word "classy," which has the same effect. I don't think of people in these terms.

Very untrue. Society labels people based on their behavior. Do you call a bank robber an aggressive withdrawer? Or an undocumented banker?

Someone who is showing a lack of morals can certainly be called trashy, a scumbag, or other words to call them out. As a society there is a moral code, and when one breaks it there are often repercussions. Cheat with a married person, and both will be appropriately be labeled for their behavior.

Anonymous wrote:Did you think JFK was trashy? And Clinton? And General Petraeus? Lots and lot of people have cheat- from every socioeconomic level and background. From WASP to trailer park. From car salesman to President.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sure people used to get away with cheating. Like everything else our lives are becoming more and more public.

I don't think so. Back in the old day when there were pagers you could buy an identical pager and switch them. So essentially you would have your cheating spouses pager, and promptly put the numbers through...however you would get those numbers first. Then after a few days switch them back. Or we simply would have a friend follow the cheater, or leave a voice activated recorder around the house, or under their car seat.

At some point cheaters are usually caught, or the other suspects which is just as bad and the relationship is doomed. Cheaters end up very lonely in most cases from what I've seen.

There's never a reason to cheat.