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Anonymous wrote:OP you are a free loader. Your husband is apparently fine with this, but he’s also apparently fine supporting his parents too. You can’t really complain since you are doing the exact same thing they are.

Troll is back.

Not a troll. She has no job and no children with this man, or any children in the home. She is his second wife. How can she complain that her parents want to live rent free in his house?

Literally nothing on your list is a requirement to be met to not be lied to by your spouse.

When did he lie?

He told her the agreement was they were purchasing the house and the in laws were vacating the house.

What if that was the agreement and then the in-laws health/situation changed? You make it like it was some sinister plot to deceive OP. There is absolutely no proof of that.

Well then her husband needs to tell his parents to a) at least move their stuff out, b) help them find a more suitable living arrangement. Just letting them live there w him and OP without OP’s prior approval is not ok.

And is deceptive of her husband.

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Anonymous wrote:OP you are a free loader. Your husband is apparently fine with this, but he’s also apparently fine supporting his parents too. You can’t really complain since you are doing the exact same thing they are.

Troll is back.

Not a troll. She has no job and no children with this man, or any children in the home. She is his second wife. How can she complain that her parents want to live rent free in his house?

Literally nothing on your list is a requirement to be met to not be lied to by your spouse.

When did he lie?

He told her the agreement was they were purchasing the house and the in laws were vacating the house.

What if that was the agreement and then the in-laws health/situation changed? You make it like it was some sinister plot to deceive OP. There is absolutely no proof of that.

Well then her husband needs to tell his parents to a) at least move their stuff out, b) help them find a more suitable living arrangement. Just letting them live there w him and OP without OP’s prior approval is not ok.

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Anonymous wrote:OP you are a free loader. Your husband is apparently fine with this, but he’s also apparently fine supporting his parents too. You can’t really complain since you are doing the exact same thing they are.

Troll is back.

Not a troll. She has no job and no children with this man, or any children in the home. She is his second wife. How can she complain that her parents want to live rent free in his house?

Literally nothing on your list is a requirement to be met to not be lied to by your spouse.

When did he lie?

He told her the agreement was they were purchasing the house and the in laws were vacating the house.

What if that was the agreement and then the in-laws health/situation changed? You make it like it was some sinister plot to deceive OP. There is absolutely no proof of that.

And this, my dear, is reason 1,284 of why I'd never remarry.

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Anonymous wrote:OP you are a free loader. Your husband is apparently fine with this, but he’s also apparently fine supporting his parents too. You can’t really complain since you are doing the exact same thing they are.

Troll is back.

Not a troll. She has no job and no children with this man, or any children in the home. She is his second wife. How can she complain that her parents want to live rent free in his house?

Literally nothing on your list is a requirement to be met to not be lied to by your spouse.

When did he lie?

He told her the agreement was they were purchasing the house and the in laws were vacating the house.

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Anonymous wrote:OP you are a free loader. Your husband is apparently fine with this, but he’s also apparently fine supporting his parents too. You can’t really complain since you are doing the exact same thing they are.

Troll is back.

Not a troll. She has no job and no children with this man, or any children in the home. She is his second wife. How can she complain that her parents want to live rent free in his house?

Literally nothing on your list is a requirement to be met to not be lied to by your spouse.

When did he lie?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP you are a free loader. Your husband is apparently fine with this, but he’s also apparently fine supporting his parents too. You can’t really complain since you are doing the exact same thing they are.

Troll is back.

Not a troll. She has no job and no children with this man, or any children in the home. She is his second wife. How can she complain that her parents want to live rent free in his house?

Literally nothing on your list is a requirement to be met to not be lied to by your spouse.

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Anonymous wrote:OP you are a free loader. Your husband is apparently fine with this, but he’s also apparently fine supporting his parents too. You can’t really complain since you are doing the exact same thing they are.

Troll is back.

Not a troll. She has no job and no children with this man, or any children in the home. She is his second wife. How can she complain that her parents want to live rent free in his house?

Agree with other pps that you should not move in even if your stuff can be crammed in with theirs. For a feminist, you are strangely passive.

Anonymous wrote:OP you are a free loader. Your husband is apparently fine with this, but he’s also apparently fine supporting his parents too. You can’t really complain since you are doing the exact same thing they are.

Troll is back.

OP you are a free loader. Your husband is apparently fine with this, but he’s also apparently fine supporting his parents too. You can’t really complain since you are doing the exact same thing they are.

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Anonymous wrote:So, don’t move in. Tell your husband that you will need to sell that house and buy another one. Need a marriage counselor or individual counselor to walk you through this. If you move in before they move out, it is not your house.

This is your only leverage OP. Get a rental if you have to since your current home is sold. I would absolutely not move in until they move out. If you do, you give up the only leverage you have.

This. If you move in, you’ve moved in with his parents. You have no leg to stand on. Get a nice apartment with good amenities, or a long-term hotel, put the rent on his credit card. Ignore the people saying you need to get a job, ten years of marriage you are entitled to spousal support. If he acts upset about it, simply be confused and say you never discussed living with his parents and why would you move in while they’re still there— are you supposed to live in your own guest room?

^ sounds like that is the plan. i have my mom in my home now, but she wants to go home as soon as she is able.

did the parents want him to buy the home to keep it in the family etc. or because they couldn't afford it.

are there other siblings in the picture? SIL? how are they helping?

Anonymous wrote:Look on the brightside: DH's parents can take care of kids during the day and you can go back to work and bring in some income.

Try reading. OP has an 18 year old from a prior relationship. They do not have kids.

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Anonymous wrote:OP wouldn't be singing this tune if it were her parents living there. Selfish wife, bad life.

I would be more upset to live w my parents than my in laws.

-not OP

Funny