Anonymous
Post 02/11/2022 22:41     Subject: MIL Manual

This^. Two people make a couple, three make a crowd.
Anonymous
Post 02/11/2022 22:40     Subject: MIL Manual

Anonymous wrote:Why do think someone's mother becomes irrelevant in their life because the are dating? By that logic you should have zero influence when your high schooler is dating then but doubtful anyone of you are going to remain completely silent about that.




High schoolers are under 18 so not legal adults. As far as for 18+, mother isn't irrelevant but a relationship is between two consenting legal adults and mother isn't relevant unless her child is mentally incompetent.
Anonymous
Post 02/11/2022 15:26     Subject: MIL Manual

Why do think someone's mother becomes irrelevant in their life because the are dating? By that logic you should have zero influence when your high schooler is dating then but doubtful anyone of you are going to remain completely silent about that.

Anonymous
Post 02/11/2022 14:34     Subject: MIL Manual

Anonymous wrote:Again, it's the MIL fault. Son should have postponed the conversation when GF wasn't around, no? And also not told her what was discussed if it would hurt her feelings?


Do you mean the conversation that the MIL had no business starting?