Anonymous wrote:I hate how every thread where someone asks for information to support a birth choice they’re making freely (not being coerced uninformed into) gets derailed by one extremely anti-vaginal birth poster. The OP is entitled to the information she asks for even if you think vaginal birth is the devil and we should all have mandatory c-sections.
Anonymous wrote:People who choose home birth are making the a selfish choice, they are putting their own desire and fantasies above the health of their babies. There is zero reason in America in 2022 for you to risk your life and your child's life by delivering at home.
https://people.com/parents/kara-keough-bosworth-son-died-final-moments-daughter-gma-interview/
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a question for the group that feels c-sections are being unfairly maligned. I’m willing to accept it is possible, but who benefits? Like, ACOG recommends bringing the number down, not just the WHO. What is their agenda if not better maternal outcomes? I can see the agenda for more c-sections (insurance pays twice as much) but who is “big vaginal birth” that has an incentive here?
I don't think there's a giant conspiracy ("Big Vaginal Birth"), I think it's a vague "the more natural the better" philosophy that at its worst is very misogynistic and moralizing and judgmental, and at its best is pro-woman and maybe kind of idealistic. But sure, there's money in this philosophy too. Birthing centers and midwifery groups drive patients to specific hospitals, uncomplicated vaginal deliveries may not bill as much to insurance but they're significantly cheaper for the hospital too, doulas are 100% just money that would have been in mom's pocket (no shade; I had one), and all the pre-childbirth classes and books and mom's groups and online womanhood togetherness circles (I don't know if this was a thing pre-Covid, but a friend joined one to prepare for childbirth last year) all cost money. The interesting thing about this side of the scale is that the people who get paid get paid whether mom has a vaginal birth or not. "Big C-Section" isn't keeping deposits on C's if mom gives birth in the car on the way to the hospital, but Ina May didn't refund me my book money when I ended up with a c-section after a four day induction, ya know?
Just to add on: I'm not Team C-Section or anything. I think the pendulum is usually swinging between two camps (We've found a safer way through technology / This is what our bodies are supposed to do, just get out of the way and let them do it) and in DC the pendulum is wedged to one side. This is why on this board people don't just tell you they want a vaginal birth, they tell you why a c-section is bad or dangerous or will result in an inferior child. In other parts of the country and world the pendulum might be in other places on its swing (like Brazil, mentioned earlier, and my high school friends in Texas experienced genuine "your baby will die if you don't get a c 8 hours after your water breaks" bullying that would send Ricki Lake into a killing rage).
That’s an interesting and well considered perspective, thank you!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a question for the group that feels c-sections are being unfairly maligned. I’m willing to accept it is possible, but who benefits? Like, ACOG recommends bringing the number down, not just the WHO. What is their agenda if not better maternal outcomes? I can see the agenda for more c-sections (insurance pays twice as much) but who is “big vaginal birth” that has an incentive here?
I don't think there's a giant conspiracy ("Big Vaginal Birth"), I think it's a vague "the more natural the better" philosophy that at its worst is very misogynistic and moralizing and judgmental, and at its best is pro-woman and maybe kind of idealistic. But sure, there's money in this philosophy too. Birthing centers and midwifery groups drive patients to specific hospitals, uncomplicated vaginal deliveries may not bill as much to insurance but they're significantly cheaper for the hospital too, doulas are 100% just money that would have been in mom's pocket (no shade; I had one), and all the pre-childbirth classes and books and mom's groups and online womanhood togetherness circles (I don't know if this was a thing pre-Covid, but a friend joined one to prepare for childbirth last year) all cost money. The interesting thing about this side of the scale is that the people who get paid get paid whether mom has a vaginal birth or not. "Big C-Section" isn't keeping deposits on C's if mom gives birth in the car on the way to the hospital, but Ina May didn't refund me my book money when I ended up with a c-section after a four day induction, ya know?
Just to add on: I'm not Team C-Section or anything. I think the pendulum is usually swinging between two camps (We've found a safer way through technology / This is what our bodies are supposed to do, just get out of the way and let them do it) and in DC the pendulum is wedged to one side. This is why on this board people don't just tell you they want a vaginal birth, they tell you why a c-section is bad or dangerous or will result in an inferior child. In other parts of the country and world the pendulum might be in other places on its swing (like Brazil, mentioned earlier, and my high school friends in Texas experienced genuine "your baby will die if you don't get a c 8 hours after your water breaks" bullying that would send Ricki Lake into a killing rage).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a question for the group that feels c-sections are being unfairly maligned. I’m willing to accept it is possible, but who benefits? Like, ACOG recommends bringing the number down, not just the WHO. What is their agenda if not better maternal outcomes? I can see the agenda for more c-sections (insurance pays twice as much) but who is “big vaginal birth” that has an incentive here?
I don't think there's a giant conspiracy ("Big Vaginal Birth"), I think it's a vague "the more natural the better" philosophy that at its worst is very misogynistic and moralizing and judgmental, and at its best is pro-woman and maybe kind of idealistic. But sure, there's money in this philosophy too. Birthing centers and midwifery groups drive patients to specific hospitals, uncomplicated vaginal deliveries may not bill as much to insurance but they're significantly cheaper for the hospital too, doulas are 100% just money that would have been in mom's pocket (no shade; I had one), and all the pre-childbirth classes and books and mom's groups and online womanhood togetherness circles (I don't know if this was a thing pre-Covid, but a friend joined one to prepare for childbirth last year) all cost money. The interesting thing about this side of the scale is that the people who get paid get paid whether mom has a vaginal birth or not. "Big C-Section" isn't keeping deposits on C's if mom gives birth in the car on the way to the hospital, but Ina May didn't refund me my book money when I ended up with a c-section after a four day induction, ya know?
Anonymous wrote:I have a question for the group that feels c-sections are being unfairly maligned. I’m willing to accept it is possible, but who benefits? Like, ACOG recommends bringing the number down, not just the WHO. What is their agenda if not better maternal outcomes? I can see the agenda for more c-sections (insurance pays twice as much) but who is “big vaginal birth” that has an incentive here?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The WHO target rate of 15 percent is made up. It is not evidence based. And it has been debunked thoroughly. Countries who have this rate have high levels of maternal and infant mortality. Please stop furthering this tired, incorrect, and outdated statistic like gospel. It’s damaging and irresponsible.
What is your evidence for this assertion?
https://www.skepticalob.com/2018/05/the-whos-
Marsden Wagner made the number up in 1985. Gawande and the insufferable Neel Shah who is a midwife wannabe and total vaginal birth nut determined an optimal rate is 19 percent or higher. Doh.
Interesting, but it has a fatal design error: what about taking into account complications to future pregnancies? It is safer for that particular baby to be born via c section, not safer for baby #2 and certainly not safer for mom to be collecting multiple c sections.
Yeah but having two planned C sections is pretty reasonable and low risk. If women want more kids than sure, risks go up but for one or two deliveries to
be C section risks are pretty low.
But many women want more than two, or don’t know for sure how many they will want. Which is why the recommendation to avoid primary cesarean.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The WHO target rate of 15 percent is made up. It is not evidence based. And it has been debunked thoroughly. Countries who have this rate have high levels of maternal and infant mortality. Please stop furthering this tired, incorrect, and outdated statistic like gospel. It’s damaging and irresponsible.
What is your evidence for this assertion?
https://www.skepticalob.com/2018/05/the-whos-
Marsden Wagner made the number up in 1985. Gawande and the insufferable Neel Shah who is a midwife wannabe and total vaginal birth nut determined an optimal rate is 19 percent or higher. Doh.
Interesting, but it has a fatal design error: what about taking into account complications to future pregnancies? It is safer for that particular baby to be born via c section, not safer for baby #2 and certainly not safer for mom to be collecting multiple c sections.
Yeah but having two planned C sections is pretty reasonable and low risk. If women want more kids than sure, risks go up but for one or two deliveries to
be C section risks are pretty low.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I hate how every thread where someone asks for information to support a birth choice they’re making freely (not being coerced uninformed into) gets derailed by one extremely anti-vaginal birth poster. The OP is entitled to the information she asks for even if you think vaginal birth is the devil and we should all have mandatory c-sections.
Wanting people to be informed of the risks of vaginal birth instead of just hearing about the risks of C sections is not anti vaginal birth. It’s pro consumer, pro woman, and pro choice. Hiding the realities of vaginal delivery and promoting it to women as the best way to birth (a practice that has origins in the belief that women need to experience the pains of birth due to original sin) is masochistic, and Antiwoman. It’s also what, ironically, underpins a lot of the ideology of midwifery, which is a profession that badly needs to embrace evidence and science instead of having large contingents of its practitioners be largely unqualified (CPMs, CMs) with little more than HS education and a bit of training.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The WHO target rate of 15 percent is made up. It is not evidence based. And it has been debunked thoroughly. Countries who have this rate have high levels of maternal and infant mortality. Please stop furthering this tired, incorrect, and outdated statistic like gospel. It’s damaging and irresponsible.
What is your evidence for this assertion?
https://www.skepticalob.com/2018/05/the-whos-
Marsden Wagner made the number up in 1985. Gawande and the insufferable Neel Shah who is a midwife wannabe and total vaginal birth nut determined an optimal rate is 19 percent or higher. Doh.
Interesting, but it has a fatal design error: what about taking into account complications to future pregnancies? It is safer for that particular baby to be born via c section, not safer for baby #2 and certainly not safer for mom to be collecting multiple c sections.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I hate how every thread where someone asks for information to support a birth choice they’re making freely (not being coerced uninformed into) gets derailed by one extremely anti-vaginal birth poster. The OP is entitled to the information she asks for even if you think vaginal birth is the devil and we should all have mandatory c-sections.
Wanting people to be informed of the risks of vaginal birth instead of just hearing about the risks of C sections is not anti vaginal birth. It’s pro consumer, pro woman, and pro choice. Hiding the realities of vaginal delivery and promoting it to women as the best way to birth (a practice that has origins in the belief that women need to experience the pains of birth due to original sin) is masochistic, and Antiwoman. It’s also what, ironically, underpins a lot of the ideology of midwifery, which is a profession that badly needs to embrace evidence and science instead of having large contingents of its practitioners be largely unqualified (CPMs, CMs) with little more than HS education and a bit of training.