Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd like to hear from the actual people and not guess. Please tell PP's who do this stuff. Is your spouse on board with it?

I'm a bi male who's wife begrudgingly accepts me (meaning she says she would prefer I were straight) as a bi male as long as I never, ever have sex with anyone else. I wish I had just kept my secret to myself.

And do you agree to not have other partners?

Anonymous wrote:Use your eyes, people. See the T in the forum title?
That means that, no matter how right you are and how wrong everyone else is, in this specific forum, transgender is real. Take your debate somewhere else
.

Um…what?

Use your eyes, people. See the T in the forum title?
That means that, no matter how right you are and how wrong everyone else is, in this specific forum, transgender is real. Take your debate somewhere else.

Anonymous wrote:I'm desperate to find a way to meet someone where I can explore some fantasies, without paying for a site and bypassing the "weirdos". I'm a 40/M, my fantasies are with either male or female.

You'll need a definition for "weirdos" that creates a useful boundary.

Anonymous wrote:Yes and maybe. I love my husband but wish I was more open about my sexuality before I married him.

And to the poster above me… what???

Don't write like this.

When Jeff deletea a post, the post "above you" changes.

Quote what you reply to.

Anonymous wrote:I'd like to hear from the actual people and not guess. Please tell PP's who do this stuff. Is your spouse on board with it?

I'm a bi male who's wife begrudgingly accepts me (meaning she says she would prefer I were straight) as a bi male as long as I never, ever have sex with anyone else. I wish I had just kept my secret to myself.

I'd like to hear from the actual people and not guess. Please tell PP's who do this stuff. Is your spouse on board with it?

Anonymous wrote:All of you have spouses who are in agreement with these other partners?

Just a guess, but men are much more likely for their female partner to have a girlfriend on the side than women are for their male partner to have a boyfriend on the side.

All of you have spouses who are in agreement with these other partners?

Anonymous wrote:I'm bi and married my husband. Husband has been very supportive of my need for 'girl time', and girls trips with my 'friends'.

Just recently DH revealed his curiosity with exploring bisexuality and I'm elated that he's open minded to explore this part of him.

Last weekend we met a couple where both spouses were bisexual, and we enjoyed their company and conversation. We learned a few things about our dynamic from them and look forward to getting together with them again.

Hubby and I look forward to this new stage of our lives together, whereas I had previously enjoyed this 'side' of myself on my own.

Similar situation on vacation met a bi husband and his bi wife. We enjoyed their company and much of our vacation fun we included them in our plans.

After a few days of getting to know Bob&Barb, hubby and I decided to invite them to join us in our suite for drinks and games. They knew we were both curios and wanted to ‘explore’. It was fun and very sensuous. They respected our boundaries and we stepped outside our comfort zones.

We are very happy we had that opportunity to explore our fluidity. It was nothing weird, four adults enjoying each other intimately. I’m more curious about a relationship with a woman than hubby is with a bi buddy for him.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:/\ I’m u/Novasup on Reddit (that’s an alt, don’t expect a post history). Please add me to your sub!

Adding now! Others please post your Reddit names and I’ll add!

Yes, others please join us! I would love to have a community to continue this conversation with!

Anonymous wrote:/\ I’m u/Novasup on Reddit (that’s an alt, don’t expect a post history). Please add me to your sub!

Adding now! Others please post your Reddit names and I’ll add!

/\ I’m u/Novasup on Reddit (that’s an alt, don’t expect a post history). Please add me to your sub!

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is there some kind of meetup or group for bi women married to men? I've googled a bit but haven't seen one. I think there are a lot of us out there. [/quote]

I would be interested in this as well. Like a Reddit sub or Discord group even. It gets hard being the lonely only in your social group.[/quote]

+2. Would be cool to have a community like this. [/quote]

+3 Happily married to a man, but I enjoy occasional physical connections with women. Like most on this site, my days are filled with kids and my job, so investing in long term relationships and dating is a time consuming luxury I don't have. Dating apps are also not a great option because a lot of us prefer to keep our bi-sexuality private and the facade of straightness intact. A meet-up group for like-minded professional working moms is long overdue. [/quote]

Too bad this was written so long ago. PP, are you me? I wish we could meet up! :)[/quote]

I’m still here! At least one of the PPs who responded earlier, that is. I always get wistful around Pride about paths not taken, roads not walked. It is lonely for us this time of year. Are you on Reddit or Discord? I’m sure we could find a way to find each other if your all are really interested. [/quote]

Another one still here![/quote]

Ditto! I’m the PP above that wrote “I wish we could meet up”. I’m in MoCo, where are you? I wish we could find a way…[/quote]

Dc. Reddit? Or whatever people use to chat?[/quote]

Hi fellow PPs! I created a private sub reddit group (to ensure random people don’t join). It’s called explorer mom meetup. If you can post your reddit username here I will add you!

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is there some kind of meetup or group for bi women married to men? I've googled a bit but haven't seen one. I think there are a lot of us out there. [/quote]

I would be interested in this as well. Like a Reddit sub or Discord group even. It gets hard being the lonely only in your social group.[/quote]

+2. Would be cool to have a community like this. [/quote]

+3 Happily married to a man, but I enjoy occasional physical connections with women. Like most on this site, my days are filled with kids and my job, so investing in long term relationships and dating is a time consuming luxury I don't have. Dating apps are also not a great option because a lot of us prefer to keep our bi-sexuality private and the facade of straightness intact. A meet-up group for like-minded professional working moms is long overdue. [/quote]

Too bad this was written so long ago. PP, are you me? I wish we could meet up! :)[/quote]

I’m still here! At least one of the PPs who responded earlier, that is. I always get wistful around Pride about paths not taken, roads not walked. It is lonely for us this time of year. Are you on Reddit or Discord? I’m sure we could find a way to find each other if your all are really interested. [/quote]

Another one still here![/quote]

Ditto! I’m the PP above that wrote “I wish we could meet up”. I’m in MoCo, where are you? I wish we could find a way…[/quote]

Dc. Reddit? Or whatever people use to chat?[/quote]

That sounds good! How do we find each other on Reddit?