Anonymous
10/10/2013 22:08
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Anonymous wrote:Adoption is big business. The kid is with the people who purchased her.Anonymous wrote:His statement made me cry. I really feel sick and desperately wish she was with her dad. So sad!
Ironic how our male dominated patriarchal society allows adoption without the fathers consent
Adoption is a business but not all biological parents benefit financially. Ours got no expenses nor asked for any. But, we paid the agencies, facilitator, and attorneys (most of whom did nothing to deserve the money) a small fortune, just trying to adopt. It is the only business that can charge huge sums of money without having to show any results. They can take large sums of money and no child. They should require a paternity test and both parents do a consent in front of a judge. This child belongs with her father.
Anonymous
10/10/2013 21:56
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Adoption is big business. The kid is with the people who purchased her.Anonymous wrote:His statement made me cry. I really feel sick and desperately wish she was with her dad. So sad!
Ironic how our male dominated patriarchal society allows adoption without the fathers consent
Anonymous
10/10/2013 21:05
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
His statement made me cry. I really feel sick and desperately wish she was with her dad. So sad!
Anonymous
10/10/2013 19:51
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Anonymous wrote:
This "connection" you speak of does not exist for everyone, and I'd venture it's actually pretty rare. I am not adopted, but I grew up without extended family. I've met cousins, aunts, uncles, for the first time in my life - it's awkward and strange, and aside from physical resemblances, you would not be able to tell we're related. Even after numerous meetings, they are still total strangers and there's zero connection.
Veronica's father was a stranger, despite being her biological dad. His custody was not deemed valid, whether or not you emotionally disagree. The Capobiancos are her parents.
Your experience is not typical. Just because you do not like or get along or feel a connection with your cousins, does not mean that others are the same.
It blows my mind how judgemental people are here. Maybe you are just adoption advocates or whatever.
A man is not just sperm lying around and therefore a non-existing third party in an adoption. Keep adoption voluntary
Anonymous
10/10/2013 15:00
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
A new article on this today. Father says he will stop fighting.
http://www.today.com/news/baby-veronicas-biological-dad-ends-fight-youll-always-be-my-8C11371013
http://www.today.com/news/baby-veronicas-biological-dad-ends-fight-youll-always-be-my-8C11371013
Anonymous
09/30/2013 16:20
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So what happens to all of Baby V's stuff that is at Dusten's house?
Does he just keep her room untouched until she is 18 and can come back.
Or does he bag it up and sell/donate it?
Dusten can ask the Capobiancos for advice. They have some experience, when he took Veronica away from them. I believe they kept her room largely untouched.
They were strangers who illegally took the child. Dustin is her biological parent. They took her from him, not the other way around. I hope no one on here ever goes though something like this with there family. It is very easy for this to happen to any one of us or our kids or other relatives.
Dustin was a stranger to Veronica when he took her, at age 2. Genes relate to genetic material, they have nothing to do with emotional and interpersonal relationships. As with all relationships, those things are build over time. Genes don't make people familiar.
Obviously you do not know much about adoption. We did not meet my daughter's grandparents till she was three years old. There was a clear instant connection with them and the grandparents have been a true blessing. He was not a stranger. He was her father. They had not adopted her and took her illegally. He had custody and they refused to return her.
This "connection" you speak of does not exist for everyone, and I'd venture it's actually pretty rare. I am not adopted, but I grew up without extended family. I've met cousins, aunts, uncles, for the first time in my life - it's awkward and strange, and aside from physical resemblances, you would not be able to tell we're related. Even after numerous meetings, they are still total strangers and there's zero connection.
Veronica's father was a stranger, despite being her biological dad. His custody was not deemed valid, whether or not you emotionally disagree. The Capobiancos are her parents.
Anonymous
09/30/2013 16:16
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So what happens to all of Baby V's stuff that is at Dusten's house?
Does he just keep her room untouched until she is 18 and can come back.
Or does he bag it up and sell/donate it?
Dusten can ask the Capobiancos for advice. They have some experience, when he took Veronica away from them. I believe they kept her room largely untouched.
They were strangers who illegally took the child. Dustin is her biological parent. They took her from him, not the other way around. I hope no one on here ever goes though something like this with there family. It is very easy for this to happen to any one of us or our kids or other relatives.
Dustin was a stranger to Veronica when he took her, at age 2. Genes relate to genetic material, they have nothing to do with emotional and interpersonal relationships. As with all relationships, those things are build over time. Genes don't make people familiar.
Obviously you do not know much about adoption. We did not meet my daughter's grandparents till she was three years old. There was a clear instant connection with them and the grandparents have been a true blessing. He was not a stranger. He was her father. They had not adopted her and took her illegally. He had custody and they refused to return her.
Anonymous
09/30/2013 16:08
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So what happens to all of Baby V's stuff that is at Dusten's house?
Does he just keep her room untouched until she is 18 and can come back.
Or does he bag it up and sell/donate it?
Dusten can ask the Capobiancos for advice. They have some experience, when he took Veronica away from them. I believe they kept her room largely untouched.
They were strangers who illegally took the child. Dustin is her biological parent. They took her from him, not the other way around. I hope no one on here ever goes though something like this with there family. It is very easy for this to happen to any one of us or our kids or other relatives.
Dustin was a stranger to Veronica when he took her, at age 2. Genes relate to genetic material, they have nothing to do with emotional and interpersonal relationships. As with all relationships, those things are build over time. Genes don't make people familiar.
He was a stranger because the "adoptive" family had been fighting Dusten in court for 2 years -DUH!
Yes, and Dusten's claims are without merit, so the girl is back with her family.
Anonymous
09/30/2013 16:07
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So what happens to all of Baby V's stuff that is at Dusten's house?
Does he just keep her room untouched until she is 18 and can come back.
Or does he bag it up and sell/donate it?
Dusten can ask the Capobiancos for advice. They have some experience, when he took Veronica away from them. I believe they kept her room largely untouched.
They were strangers who illegally took the child. Dustin is her biological parent. They took her from him, not the other way around. I hope no one on here ever goes though something like this with there family. It is very easy for this to happen to any one of us or our kids or other relatives.
Dustin was a stranger to Veronica when he took her, at age 2. Genes relate to genetic material, they have nothing to do with emotional and interpersonal relationships. As with all relationships, those things are build over time. Genes don't make people familiar.
He was a stranger because the "adoptive" family had been fighting Dusten in court for 2 years -DUH!
Anonymous
09/30/2013 16:04
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So what happens to all of Baby V's stuff that is at Dusten's house?
Does he just keep her room untouched until she is 18 and can come back.
Or does he bag it up and sell/donate it?
Dusten can ask the Capobiancos for advice. They have some experience, when he took Veronica away from them. I believe they kept her room largely untouched.
They were strangers who illegally took the child. Dustin is her biological parent. They took her from him, not the other way around. I hope no one on here ever goes though something like this with there family. It is very easy for this to happen to any one of us or our kids or other relatives.
Dustin was a stranger to Veronica when he took her, at age 2. Genes relate to genetic material, they have nothing to do with emotional and interpersonal relationships. As with all relationships, those things are build over time. Genes don't make people familiar.
Anonymous
09/30/2013 15:59
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:They need to improve adoption laws as far as making sure fathers are contacted. There have been quite a few cases of fathers having to rescue their kids from adoption.
There are other kids out here in desperate need of a home. Why don't the adoptive parents go find one of those kids.
IMHO, men need to make sure that they don't leave semen laying around in women they are not married to.
They need to wrap it up if they don't want to make a baby.
They need to wrap it up if they don't believe in abortion.
Or here's an idea, how about these poor victimized me be ABSTINENT if they are not married and not ready to deal with the consequences of pregnancy?
If they DO want to be a father, "put a ring on it".
actually this is funny because this si something both sides agreed happened Dusten wanted to marry her or "put a ring on it" as you say
Anonymous
09/30/2013 15:45
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:They need to improve adoption laws as far as making sure fathers are contacted. There have been quite a few cases of fathers having to rescue their kids from adoption.
There are other kids out here in desperate need of a home. Why don't the adoptive parents go find one of those kids.
IMHO, men need to make sure that they don't leave semen laying around in women they are not married to.
They need to wrap it up if they don't want to make a baby.
They need to wrap it up if they don't believe in abortion.
Or here's an idea, how about these poor victimized me be ABSTINENT if they are not married and not ready to deal with the consequences of pregnancy?
If they DO want to be a father, "put a ring on it".
I believe in abstinence as well, but it is not a matter of 'put a ring on it' -- if women are not being raped, they are as responsible for birth control and the ensuing parental responsibilities as well as women.
How bassackwards can you be?
Yes, it's interesting to hear the "just keep your legs closed" argument turned on its head and used against men instead of the usual "welfare queens", isn't it?
Anonymous
09/30/2013 15:32
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So what happens to all of Baby V's stuff that is at Dusten's house?
Does he just keep her room untouched until she is 18 and can come back.
Or does he bag it up and sell/donate it?
Dusten can ask the Capobiancos for advice. They have some experience, when he took Veronica away from them. I believe they kept her room largely untouched.
They were strangers who illegally took the child. Dustin is her biological parent. They took her from him, not the other way around. I hope no one on here ever goes though something like this with there family. It is very easy for this to happen to any one of us or our kids or other relatives.
Anonymous
09/30/2013 15:26
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So what happens to all of Baby V's stuff that is at Dusten's house?
Does he just keep her room untouched until she is 18 and can come back.
Or does he bag it up and sell/donate it?
Dusten can ask the Capobiancos for advice. They have some experience, when he took Veronica away from them. I believe they kept her room largely untouched.
if you're trying to make me a couple Bianco's look like the good guy here, that's not how to do it. Baby V would not have been taken from them if they had succeeded in finalizing the adoption.
Anonymous
09/30/2013 15:25
Subject: Baby stealing approved in South Carolina!
That poor girl is going to have immense grief and loss when she learns the truth. Those kidnappers are in for some serious attachment issues. Hope it's hell for them.