Anonymous
07/12/2025 13:59
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Agree. Unf many dads don’t talk about anything meaningful with their sons or daughters. Maybe some sports stuff here or there or cliches like Get good grades. But never feelings, life, goals, friend groups, life stories or real advice, etc.
Perhaps in your circles.
Anonymous
07/12/2025 12:20
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:When it comes to relationships, well-educated men tend to prefer well-educated women. And vice versa. But in 2025, it can be difficult to find a partner outside college and grad school. Work is a no-go zone these days. The professional risks are far too high to consider flirting or asking a colleague out. And bars and online dating are lame. I can see with my own kids at elite schools that they are locking things down far earlier than my generation. I think there is a general recognition - even among college students - that dating with the intent of a relationship after 26/27 sucks. Everything is about serendipity at that point. With work out of the picture, there's no natural milieu where men and women can meet each other without the "dating" thing hanging over everything. It's difficult in this era for men and women to meet and get to know each other organically.
Thank god for Business School!
I agree. Where else could I have met so many high quality women in a relatively sane environment?
high quality women = boss bit**es. Who would want that at home.
…many men. Please try to keep up.
Anonymous
07/12/2025 09:47
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:When it comes to relationships, well-educated men tend to prefer well-educated women. And vice versa. But in 2025, it can be difficult to find a partner outside college and grad school. Work is a no-go zone these days. The professional risks are far too high to consider flirting or asking a colleague out. And bars and online dating are lame. I can see with my own kids at elite schools that they are locking things down far earlier than my generation. I think there is a general recognition - even among college students - that dating with the intent of a relationship after 26/27 sucks. Everything is about serendipity at that point. With work out of the picture, there's no natural milieu where men and women can meet each other without the "dating" thing hanging over everything. It's difficult in this era for men and women to meet and get to know each other organically.
Thank god for Business School!
I agree. Where else could I have met so many high quality women in a relatively sane environment?
high quality women = boss bit**es. Who would want that at home.
Anonymous
07/12/2025 09:43
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:When it comes to relationships, well-educated men tend to prefer well-educated women. And vice versa. But in 2025, it can be difficult to find a partner outside college and grad school. Work is a no-go zone these days. The professional risks are far too high to consider flirting or asking a colleague out. And bars and online dating are lame. I can see with my own kids at elite schools that they are locking things down far earlier than my generation. I think there is a general recognition - even among college students - that dating with the intent of a relationship after 26/27 sucks. Everything is about serendipity at that point. With work out of the picture, there's no natural milieu where men and women can meet each other without the "dating" thing hanging over everything. It's difficult in this era for men and women to meet and get to know each other organically.
Thank god for Business School!
I agree. Where else could I have met so many high quality women in a relatively sane environment?
Anonymous
07/11/2025 17:36
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.
The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.
Correlation does not equal causation. It might be a matter of convenience. Men will date whoever is around. College educated men are surrounded by college educated women so that's who they date.
But yeah, good luck to Passport Bros. They will enjoy the women worshipping them for about 3 years. That's how long the fairy tale lasts.
Intelligence of children and success in school is directly correlated to the educational level of the mother, not the father. (Probably because it's mostly the moms signing kids up for tutoring, reading at night, planning educational stuff). So yeah, good luck to passport bros.
This is why Asian tiger moms are the best. With the kids, with the cooking, with the house, in the bed. All about the end game.
And the discipline and parenting.
Anonymous
07/11/2025 17:35
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Agree. Unf many dads don’t talk about anything meaningful with their sons or daughters. Maybe some sports stuff here or there or cliches like Get good grades. But never feelings, life, goals, friend groups, life stories or real advice, etc.
Anonymous
07/11/2025 17:33
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.
The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.
Correlation does not equal causation. It might be a matter of convenience. Men will date whoever is around. College educated men are surrounded by college educated women so that's who they date.
But yeah, good luck to Passport Bros. They will enjoy the women worshipping them for about 3 years. That's how long the fairy tale lasts.
Intelligence of children and success in school is directly correlated to the educational level of the mother, not the father. (Probably because it's mostly the moms signing kids up for tutoring, reading at night, planning educational stuff). So yeah, good luck to passport bros.
This is why Asian tiger moms are the best. With the kids, with the cooking, with the house, in the bed. All about the end game.
some research also found that it's the moms who talk to the kids about their future, college, etc.. rather than the dads. So, yea, pick your woman wisely if you want your kids to be smart.
Anonymous
07/11/2025 17:29
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:When it comes to relationships, well-educated men tend to prefer well-educated women. And vice versa. But in 2025, it can be difficult to find a partner outside college and grad school. Work is a no-go zone these days. The professional risks are far too high to consider flirting or asking a colleague out. And bars and online dating are lame. I can see with my own kids at elite schools that they are locking things down far earlier than my generation. I think there is a general recognition - even among college students - that dating with the intent of a relationship after 26/27 sucks. Everything is about serendipity at that point. With work out of the picture, there's no natural milieu where men and women can meet each other without the "dating" thing hanging over everything. It's difficult in this era for men and women to meet and get to know each other organically.
Thank god for Business School!
Anonymous
07/11/2025 17:28
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.
The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.
Correlation does not equal causation. It might be a matter of convenience. Men will date whoever is around. College educated men are surrounded by college educated women so that's who they date.
But yeah, good luck to Passport Bros. They will enjoy the women worshipping them for about 3 years. That's how long the fairy tale lasts.
Intelligence of children and success in school is directly correlated to the educational level of the mother, not the father. (Probably because it's mostly the moms signing kids up for tutoring, reading at night, planning educational stuff). So yeah, good luck to passport bros.
This is why Asian tiger moms are the best. With the kids, with the cooking, with the house, in the bed. All about the end game.
Anonymous
07/11/2025 17:26
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.
The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.
An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.
+1
It's hilarious that women here are dictating to men that we must like them. And if we don't, then they insult us. Who would put up with this nonsense?
Educated women don’t worry about whether or not me n like you like them. They wouldn’t even consider you as a partner.
What are you even talking about? Most guys don't care about where you went to college or your job. It's a guy thing and has nothing to do with education level. Income can be a factor if you're a broke ass guy though.
Lol - men do care that a woman graduated a decent college and has a stable job though
lol - sorry but no “broke ass guy” has a master plan to go marry a high income Ivy grad woman.
Anonymous
07/11/2025 17:06
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your fellow educated men who are marrying educated women apparently put up with it.
If it's not for you, you are in the minority. Or perhaps educated women do not bring their resumes to dates and you and the other PP are just entitled incels who have special hatred for women who think they can be proud of anything other than getting a man.
Those guys are "simp" losers. There are many educated men who are losers living in my Georgetown neighborhood.
So these " losers" like women you don't like. That's great news for you! Less competition for the kind of women you like. 😀
Great news for these educated women too: guys they like are labeled "simps" are thus may lower their standards for women.
Everyone is winning!
Anonymous
07/11/2025 16:14
Subject: Re:NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
She wrote:
“I remember when part of heterosexual male culture involved showing up with a woman to signal something — status, success, desirability. Women were once signifiers of value, even to other men. It wasn’t always healthy, but it meant that men had to show up and put in some effort.
That dynamic has quietly collapsed. We have moved into an era where many men no longer seek women to impress other men or to connect across difference. They perform elsewhere. Alone. They’ve filtered us out.”
Sorry she lost me. A single dad cancelled on a date to go to his son’s game? Men used to treat women like prized possessions, and don’t anymore? Aren’t those both good things?
She’s on Raya, which is an exclusive dating app, used by the rich or famous, and she’s complaining?
“I remember when part of heterosexual male culture involved showing up with a woman to signal something — status, success, desirability. Women were once signifiers of value, even to other men. It wasn’t always healthy, but it meant that men had to show up and put in some effort.
That dynamic has quietly collapsed. We have moved into an era where many men no longer seek women to impress other men or to connect across difference. They perform elsewhere. Alone. They’ve filtered us out.”
Sorry she lost me. A single dad cancelled on a date to go to his son’s game? Men used to treat women like prized possessions, and don’t anymore? Aren’t those both good things?
She’s on Raya, which is an exclusive dating app, used by the rich or famous, and she’s complaining?
Anonymous
07/11/2025 16:06
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.
The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.
An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.
+1
It's hilarious that women here are dictating to men that we must like them. And if we don't, then they insult us. Who would put up with this nonsense?
Educated women don’t worry about whether or not me n like you like them. They wouldn’t even consider you as a partner.
What are you even talking about? Most guys don't care about where you went to college or your job. It's a guy thing and has nothing to do with education level. Income can be a factor if you're a broke ass guy though.
Anonymous
07/11/2025 15:41
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.
The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.
An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.
+1
It's hilarious that women here are dictating to men that we must like them. And if we don't, then they insult us. Who would put up with this nonsense?
Educated women don’t worry about whether or not me n like you like them. They wouldn’t even consider you as a partner.
Anonymous
07/11/2025 15:30
Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Your fellow educated men who are marrying educated women apparently put up with it.
If it's not for you, you are in the minority. Or perhaps educated women do not bring their resumes to dates and you and the other PP are just entitled incels who have special hatred for women who think they can be proud of anything other than getting a man.
Those guys are "simp" losers. There are many educated men who are losers living in my Georgetown neighborhood.