Anonymous wrote:So depressing and true. These guys are all pretty good looking and in good shape and appear to be successful . They don’t want a 60 year old.

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Anonymous wrote:Chock’s ex-Fiancee was very pretty and natural looking. He can do better and meet someone younger than Joan. Pascal can also get someone much better than Joan. He’s very handsome and in great shape. Assuming they are both financially stable they can both attract someone much younger and prettier than Joan.

This is the elephant in the room. No attractive, well-off 60 year old man like Chock truly wants a 61 year old woman. Pascal is significantly older at 69, so I could see him being ok with Joan's age. Maybe. But yeah -- I thought of this issue the moment they decided to do a Golden Bachelorette. No way would they find a mansion full of senior citizen men who are attractive enough for this show who are all going to be truly interested in a 61 year old woman.

The men all stated that they were there for Joan specifically because they liked her on The Golden Bachelor.

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Anonymous wrote:Chock’s ex-Fiancee was very pretty and natural looking. He can do better and meet someone younger than Joan. Pascal can also get someone much better than Joan. He’s very handsome and in great shape. Assuming they are both financially stable they can both attract someone much younger and prettier than Joan.

This is the elephant in the room. No attractive, well-off 60 year old man like Chock truly wants a 61 year old woman. Pascal is significantly older at 69, so I could see him being ok with Joan's age. Maybe. But yeah -- I thought of this issue the moment they decided to do a Golden Bachelorette. No way would they find a mansion full of senior citizen men who are attractive enough for this show who are all going to be truly interested in a 61 year old woman.

Anonymous wrote:Chock is toxically competitive, arrogant, and a control freak. He’s also an insurance salesman from Wichita, and insurance salesmen depend on their network. Unless he’s ready to retire he needs to stay where he is. The lifestyle available in Wichita compared to Rockville is very different. Does Joan really want to live in Wichita?

Guy is an arrogant man baby with a restraining order in his past. He can wield a scalpel but not a spatula? Come on.

Pascal continues to grow on me. The tighty whities were distracting, but did you see what he was doing? Steaming his own clothes. Pascal can do laundry, he’d just rather pay someone else to do it. I hate laundry myself. I also think for Pascal there is an element of having the means to outsource when he grew up in poverty. He seems popular with the other guys and I suspect he’s getting a lot of encouragement to ham it up and quite the edit. Pascal would never make a life with Joan. She’s too basic for him.

Jordan seems very grounded and kind. I hope he sees what a shallow and self centered person Joan seems to be.

Jonathon never had a chance. Joan does not strike me as wanting minor step children, and I’d be surprised if she would date an AA man.

Keith was a great guy, but he’s not super fit. Joan was never going to choose him.

Mark is quiet and projects an older vibe. I’m not saying he’s decrepit at all, but I suspect Joan perceives him as less desirable. He also didn’t send her a message that she’s the moon and the stars. And I think she really wants that.

I think Joan has plenty of money left, because her husband was never sentenced. Criminal liability ceases with death, so no fines were ever paid. I’ve decided I really don’t like Joan. Her comments in the podcast were too much. If she has a silent belief that her husband was innocent, fine. But don’t bring up money and how hard you worked. That is just not a good look. It’s understandable that her husband of 32 years and the father of her children is the love of her life, but does she have any actual personality? IDK. I just feel pretty over Joan.

Like most pp, I think she will go with Chok and it will end badly.

Anonymous wrote:Also one thing I noticed: Joan is 61, and Trista is 51 but looks like she could be her daughter. It was a bit of a contrast considering how much work Joan has done to her face.

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Anonymous wrote:So depressing and true. These guys are all pretty good looking and in good shape and appear to be successful . They don’t want a 60 year old.

How would you know what they want?

The only widower of 60 I know finally settled on dating a 60 year old solan - after dating a bunch of women. Some men probably prefer to have someone at similar stage of life and health.

That said, I don’t think any of us can know what the men are looking for … I find the misogynistic ageism on this thread much more disturbing than Joan’s plastic surgery and false eye lashes - and I strongly dislike plastic surgery/ fake nails and lashes.

DP.

Hard disagree -- it is easy enough to generalize about what men want. Assume that most of them prefer a younger, more attractive woman and your assumption is usually going to be right. It isn't necessarily misogynistic ageism to recognize this. Perhaps the phenomenon itself is misogynistic ageism, or arises out of it, but here we are; it's a reality for whatever distasteful reason. And you can't ignore it while discussing a show like this.

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Anonymous wrote:The other thing is that the plastic surgery and the false eyelashes and hair extensions don’t seem to do anything to make her more attractive. They make her look like a caricature. Natural is better. The producers should’ve tried to find an older but more natural woman.

This ^^ is female gaze.

Male gaze, which matters on a show like this where you need a house full of men competing over a woman, is what is more important for the show. And male gaze wants the false eyelashes and hair extensions and a younger-looking face (even if it does look tight and weird from having had "work" done).

Anonymous wrote:I imagine that perhaps the producers, when casting for this show, vet the potential contestants to see how open they are to dating someone their own age and try to weed out the ones who seem like they would only go for a younger woman. I agree that there are many men who do want women their own age or close to it. But there are also many men who don’t.

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Anonymous wrote:She seems nice enough but a little boring and self conscious. It’s as if the only way she can prove she’s human is to talk about her grief for her husband and her love for her family. These things are a given with most people. What else is she passionate about. What gets her excited. What are her goals. She seems so one dimensional.

Exactly. The only thing she talks about are her Sunday dinners. I think that's about it for her.

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Anonymous wrote:So depressing and true. These guys are all pretty good looking and in good shape and appear to be successful . They don’t want a 60 year old.

How would you know what they want?

The only widower of 60 I know finally settled on dating a 60 year old solan - after dating a bunch of women. Some men probably prefer to have someone at similar stage of life and health.

That said, I don’t think any of us can know what the men are looking for … I find the misogynistic ageism on this thread much more disturbing than Joan’s plastic surgery and false eye lashes - and I strongly dislike plastic surgery/ fake nails and lashes.

Anonymous wrote:The other thing is that the plastic surgery and the false eyelashes and hair extensions don’t seem to do anything to make her more attractive. They make her look like a caricature. Natural is better. The producers should’ve tried to find an older but more natural woman.

Anonymous wrote:So depressing and true. These guys are all pretty good looking and in good shape and appear to be successful . They don’t want a 60 year old.

Anonymous wrote:She seems nice enough but a little boring and self conscious. It’s as if the only way she can prove she’s human is to talk about her grief for her husband and her love for her family. These things are a given with most people. What else is she passionate about. What gets her excited. What are her goals. She seems so one dimensional.