Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The people saying ED3 are trying to make themselves seem knowledgeable. I’m going to guess the they have never actually worked in an admissions office and aren’t familiar with this very common practice of calling before making an offer. This has been the norm at many schools for decades.
If a counselor using that term actually had experience in or relationships with people in admissions offices, they’d be better at their job. Their job is to dial down the pressure, not contribute to it.
You can verbally say you’d love an officer and decline it later. They’re trying to move fast and get to the kids who are still interested, though.
This exactly. It's not binding. It is a bullying tactic. My kid was prepared to say yes, and then take the time to enroll (visit school etc.). Hasn't been offered, but that is our plan if she does get that kind of call.
That isn't the way the waitlist works. It isn't the school's fault you didn't do your due diligence earlier.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The people saying ED3 are trying to make themselves seem knowledgeable. I’m going to guess the they have never actually worked in an admissions office and aren’t familiar with this very common practice of calling before making an offer. This has been the norm at many schools for decades.
If a counselor using that term actually had experience in or relationships with people in admissions offices, they’d be better at their job. Their job is to dial down the pressure, not contribute to it.
You can verbally say you’d love an officer and decline it later. They’re trying to move fast and get to the kids who are still interested, though.
This exactly. It's not binding. It is a bullying tactic. My kid was prepared to say yes, and then take the time to enroll (visit school etc.). Hasn't been offered, but that is our plan if she does get that kind of call.
That isn't the way the waitlist works. It isn't the school's fault you didn't do your due diligence earlier.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The people saying ED3 are trying to make themselves seem knowledgeable. I’m going to guess the they have never actually worked in an admissions office and aren’t familiar with this very common practice of calling before making an offer. This has been the norm at many schools for decades.
If a counselor using that term actually had experience in or relationships with people in admissions offices, they’d be better at their job. Their job is to dial down the pressure, not contribute to it.
You can verbally say you’d love an officer and decline it later. They’re trying to move fast and get to the kids who are still interested, though.
This exactly. It's not binding. It is a bullying tactic. My kid was prepared to say yes, and then take the time to enroll (visit school etc.). Hasn't been offered, but that is our plan if she does get that kind of call.
Anonymous wrote:Getting off waitlist is as random as you can get. I always think of the student at Marjory Stoneham who was rejected/waitlisted from Harvard but then was admitted after the shooting because of his unique experience.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The people saying ED3 are trying to make themselves seem knowledgeable. I’m going to guess the they have never actually worked in an admissions office and aren’t familiar with this very common practice of calling before making an offer. This has been the norm at many schools for decades.
If a counselor using that term actually had experience in or relationships with people in admissions offices, they’d be better at their job. Their job is to dial down the pressure, not contribute to it.
You can verbally say you’d love an officer and decline it later. They’re trying to move fast and get to the kids who are still interested, though.
This exactly. It's not binding. It is a bullying tactic. My kid was prepared to say yes, and then take the time to enroll (visit school etc.). Hasn't been offered, but that is our plan if she does get that kind of call.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The people saying ED3 are trying to make themselves seem knowledgeable. I’m going to guess the they have never actually worked in an admissions office and aren’t familiar with this very common practice of calling before making an offer. This has been the norm at many schools for decades.
If a counselor using that term actually had experience in or relationships with people in admissions offices, they’d be better at their job. Their job is to dial down the pressure, not contribute to it.
You can verbally say you’d love an officer and decline it later. They’re trying to move fast and get to the kids who are still interested, though.
This exactly. It's not binding. It is a bullying tactic. My kid was prepared to say yes, and then take the time to enroll (visit school etc.). Hasn't been offered, but that is our plan if she does get that kind of call.
Anonymous wrote:The people saying ED3 are trying to make themselves seem knowledgeable. I’m going to guess the they have never actually worked in an admissions office and aren’t familiar with this very common practice of calling before making an offer. This has been the norm at many schools for decades.
If a counselor using that term actually had experience in or relationships with people in admissions offices, they’d be better at their job. Their job is to dial down the pressure, not contribute to it.
You can verbally say you’d love an officer and decline it later. They’re trying to move fast and get to the kids who are still interested, though.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:STOP SAYING ED3.
It’s normal for schools to call to check if the kid wants the offer. Some don’t. Many do. Calm down.
Our school-based college counselor calls it ED3 so that's why I'm using that term. It seems like a term college admissions insiders are using.
Anonymous wrote:STOP SAYING ED3.
It’s normal for schools to call to check if the kid wants the offer. Some don’t. Many do. Calm down.