Anonymous
Post 06/14/2021 14:22     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
And of course “sources” had to leak to People
https://people.com/movies/ben-affleck-jennifer-lopez-kids-family-dinner-nobu-malibu-affection-exclusive/
Like clockwork
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2021 14:14     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
I think she’s head over heels in love with him - so much so she’d forgo the lavish wedding and just elope. Not that she’d need to.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2021 14:12     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:JLo is already bringing her new man around the kids and even making out in front of them.

https://pagesix.com/2021/06/14/ben-affleck-jennifer-lopez-kiss-at-dinner-in-pda-packed-photos/


Wow I don’t remember seeing her kiss ARod like that.

Anonymous
Post 06/14/2021 14:08     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
JLo is already bringing her new man around the kids and even making out in front of them.

https://pagesix.com/2021/06/14/ben-affleck-jennifer-lopez-kiss-at-dinner-in-pda-packed-photos/
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2021 10:57     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
I think she has thinking patterns similar to a scientoogist; Grandiosity and omnipotence (my thoughts control events), magical thinking, egocentric thinking, and a black and white "you are for me or against me and therefore I must leave you if we don't agree completely" mentality. Maybe she's identified with her father.
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2021 10:52     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wow I didn’t see this pairing coming!

https://pagesix.com/2021/06/10/ben-affleck-films-at-vegas-casino-with-jennifer-lopezs-mom/


Lol, nice damage control. He was still gambling alone at 3am yesterday. I guess jlo sent her mom there to keep an eye on him.


I am pretty sure her mom might have an issue with it too. She is in Vegas a LOT. Or was back in the day.


That's interesting...and her father was/is a scientologist no?
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2021 07:39     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wow I didn’t see this pairing coming!

https://pagesix.com/2021/06/10/ben-affleck-films-at-vegas-casino-with-jennifer-lopezs-mom/


Lol, nice damage control. He was still gambling alone at 3am yesterday. I guess jlo sent her mom there to keep an eye on him.


I am pretty sure her mom might have an issue with it too. She is in Vegas a LOT. Or was back in the day.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2021 18:51     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wow I didn’t see this pairing coming!

https://pagesix.com/2021/06/10/ben-affleck-films-at-vegas-casino-with-jennifer-lopezs-mom/


Lol, nice damage control. He was still gambling alone at 3am yesterday. I guess jlo sent her mom there to keep an eye on him.



Bet she's getting a cameo in the film.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2021 18:06     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
The kids were def in La Pre ARod - had a friend who’s kids were at same private
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2021 18:04     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Wow I didn’t see this pairing coming!

https://pagesix.com/2021/06/10/ben-affleck-films-at-vegas-casino-with-jennifer-lopezs-mom/


Lol, nice damage control. He was still gambling alone at 3am yesterday. I guess jlo sent her mom there to keep an eye on him.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2021 18:04     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
I still think this is all publicity. The last thing Jennifer Garner needs to worry about with an alcoholic ex is JLo. Literally the least of her problems. I'm also sure with the cadre of nannies and houses and private planes and such there is plenty of time to date away from the kids.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2021 17:51     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Wow I didn’t see this pairing coming!

https://pagesix.com/2021/06/10/ben-affleck-films-at-vegas-casino-with-jennifer-lopezs-mom/
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2021 13:02     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ben gambling in Vegas. Doesn’t bode well.

https://www.tmz.com/2021/06/09/ben-affleck-gambling-las-vegas-wynn-filming-jennifer-lopez/



He is too undisciplined (even sober) and she is too much of a control freak for this to ever work.


Yea, I also question whether she can bear his his vices and choices long term as he does generally seem undisciplined which as many of us know, is fun in the beginning, enormously frustrating over time. She may have a masochistic streak...he is possibly going to be a painful choice.



I foresee the hot sex will wear off, sooner rather than later, and she'll come to be just as much of a "nag" in his eyes as Jen G ever was. This is a foolish, foolish choice on her part.


Yes he creates a nag/control freak and she creates a big disappointing man/child. They both have the seeds in them to start but they also influence each other to assume those worste parts more intensely like we all do. It would take two very self aware, highly emotionally skilled non reactive people to make these different values work. Neither strikes me as having an abundance of those abilities but I could be wrong


Well said.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2021 12:59     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ben gambling in Vegas. Doesn’t bode well.

https://www.tmz.com/2021/06/09/ben-affleck-gambling-las-vegas-wynn-filming-jennifer-lopez/



He is too undisciplined (even sober) and she is too much of a control freak for this to ever work.


Yea, I also question whether she can bear his his vices and choices long term as he does generally seem undisciplined which as many of us know, is fun in the beginning, enormously frustrating over time. She may have a masochistic streak...he is possibly going to be a painful choice.



I foresee the hot sex will wear off, sooner rather than later, and she'll come to be just as much of a "nag" in his eyes as Jen G ever was. This is a foolish, foolish choice on her part.


Yes he creates a nag/control freak and she creates a big disappointing man/child. They both have the seeds in them to start but they also influence each other to assume those worste parts more intensely like we all do. It would take two very self aware, highly emotionally skilled non reactive people to make these different values work. Neither strikes me as having an abundance of those abilities but I could be wrong
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2021 12:52     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Does Marc Anthony have a home in LA?



No news on what his plans are after just selling his gargantuan Miami mansion, but he'll be on tour through the end of the year. He did live in LA at one point not long ago (five or six years ago), but I'm pretty sure he sold that place too.