Anonymous wrote:Over 37 pages of a murder and attempted suicide in the heart of White Privilege land with lots of nazi and antifa rhetoric. Meanwhile a few weeks back in PG County, barely a mention of this murder suicide as it doesn't fit the narrative.
https://wtop.com/prince-georges-county/2017/11/homicide-suicide-suspected-prince-georges-co-deaths/
Anonymous wrote:1601, you are missing the same point as the other genius. Just because someone is a Trump supporter doesn't mean they are a Nazi. What would you say if someone came up and asked you about Lenin or Stalin or communism, all of which have strong relationships with the left side of our democracy?
Anonymous wrote:Emotionally stunted people -- which includes most teens -- have a hard time accepting rejection.
Here you have a teen who probably doesn't have many emotional connections other than the girlfriend. Girl's parents have good reason for wanting her to end it. She does. Boy is in distress and doesn't know how to deal with rejection. Probably plays to girl's emotions that he loves her/she understands him/he might do something to hurt himself. She lets him in to either calm him down or at least be a friend.... parents discover him.
He sees girl's parents as the cause of his anguish and because he is impulsive (and has been feeding himself violence for sometime), he reacts by taking out those who are (in his mind) inflicting the pain on him. He realizes the severity of his impulses in a matter of seconds and attempts to end his pain permanently.
These types of post-break-up shootings happen all over -- for teens in schools where they kill the ex girl friend and her new boyfriend, or with grown men and their ex-wives/girlfriends.
The Nazi stuff is relevant to the extent that (a) the parents precipitated the break up and (b) the shooter was primed for violence. But, ultimately, I think this will be a story of immature teen not dealing with rejection and loss.
I wonder if the school counselors in this area (who already have their hands full with issues to teach) ever deal with the emotional health issues of what to do when a relationship ends. We have all been there and at least for girls -- we cry and whine to our friends until they can't stand it anymore.... but the desperation we feel --- especially when young -- is very real. I'm not sure boys have as many outlets for their emotions other than drinking, drugs, or in a few cases, ... getting violent.
I'd say the danger of post-break-up violence has to be more urgent than terrorists coming into our schools. Kids need to learn how to manage these very big and threatening emotions that come from rejection.
Feeling very sad and heartbroken for the deceased parents, the surviving children/family in this scenario. Tragic.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Emotionally stunted people -- which includes most teens -- have a hard time accepting rejection.
Here you have a teen who probably doesn't have many emotional connections other than the girlfriend. Girl's parents have good reason for wanting her to end it. She does. Boy is in distress and doesn't know how to deal with rejection. Probably plays to girl's emotions that he loves her/she understands him/he might do something to hurt himself. She lets him in to either calm him down or at least be a friend.... parents discover him.
He sees girl's parents as the cause of his anguish and because he is impulsive (and has been feeding himself violence for sometime), he reacts by taking out those who are (in his mind) inflicting the pain on him. He realizes the severity of his impulses in a matter of seconds and attempts to end his pain permanently.
These types of post-break-up shootings happen all over -- for teens in schools where they kill the ex girl friend and her new boyfriend, or with grown men and their ex-wives/girlfriends.
The Nazi stuff is relevant to the extent that (a) the parents precipitated the break up and (b) the shooter was primed for violence. But, ultimately, I think this will be a story of immature teen not dealing with rejection and loss.
I wonder if the school counselors in this area (who already have their hands full with issues to teach) ever deal with the emotional health issues of what to do when a relationship ends. We have all been there and at least for girls -- we cry and whine to our friends until they can't stand it anymore.... but the desperation we feel --- especially when young -- is very real. I'm not sure boys have as many outlets for their emotions other than drinking, drugs, or in a few cases, ... getting violent.
I'd say the danger of post-break-up violence has to be more urgent than terrorists coming into our schools. Kids need to learn how to manage these very big and threatening emotions that come from rejection.
Feeling very sad and heartbroken for the deceased parents, the surviving children/family in this scenario. Tragic.
Hate to say it, but too many kids are not able to accept and understand this. Such is life for the snowflake "everyone gets a trophy" "take me to my safe space" generation.
Anonymous wrote:1601, you are missing the same point as the other genius. Just because someone is a Trump supporter doesn't mean they are a Nazi. What would you say if someone came up and asked you about Lenin or Stalin or communism, all of which have strong relationships with the left side of our democracy?
Anonymous wrote:Emotionally stunted people -- which includes most teens -- have a hard time accepting rejection.
Here you have a teen who probably doesn't have many emotional connections other than the girlfriend. Girl's parents have good reason for wanting her to end it. She does. Boy is in distress and doesn't know how to deal with rejection. Probably plays to girl's emotions that he loves her/she understands him/he might do something to hurt himself. She lets him in to either calm him down or at least be a friend.... parents discover him.
He sees girl's parents as the cause of his anguish and because he is impulsive (and has been feeding himself violence for sometime), he reacts by taking out those who are (in his mind) inflicting the pain on him. He realizes the severity of his impulses in a matter of seconds and attempts to end his pain permanently.
These types of post-break-up shootings happen all over -- for teens in schools where they kill the ex girl friend and her new boyfriend, or with grown men and their ex-wives/girlfriends.
The Nazi stuff is relevant to the extent that (a) the parents precipitated the break up and (b) the shooter was primed for violence. But, ultimately, I think this will be a story of immature teen not dealing with rejection and loss.
I wonder if the school counselors in this area (who already have their hands full with issues to teach) ever deal with the emotional health issues of what to do when a relationship ends. We have all been there and at least for girls -- we cry and whine to our friends until they can't stand it anymore.... but the desperation we feel --- especially when young -- is very real. I'm not sure boys have as many outlets for their emotions other than drinking, drugs, or in a few cases, ... getting violent.
I'd say the danger of post-break-up violence has to be more urgent than terrorists coming into our schools. Kids need to learn how to manage these very big and threatening emotions that come from rejection.
Feeling very sad and heartbroken for the deceased parents, the surviving children/family in this scenario. Tragic.
Anonymous wrote:Emotionally stunted people -- which includes most teens -- have a hard time accepting rejection.
Here you have a teen who probably doesn't have many emotional connections other than the girlfriend. Girl's parents have good reason for wanting her to end it. She does. Boy is in distress and doesn't know how to deal with rejection. Probably plays to girl's emotions that he loves her/she understands him/he might do something to hurt himself. She lets him in to either calm him down or at least be a friend.... parents discover him.
He sees girl's parents as the cause of his anguish and because he is impulsive (and has been feeding himself violence for sometime), he reacts by taking out those who are (in his mind) inflicting the pain on him. He realizes the severity of his impulses in a matter of seconds and attempts to end his pain permanently.
These types of post-break-up shootings happen all over -- for teens in schools where they kill the ex girl friend and her new boyfriend, or with grown men and their ex-wives/girlfriends.
The Nazi stuff is relevant to the extent that (a) the parents precipitated the break up and (b) the shooter was primed for violence. But, ultimately, I think this will be a story of immature teen not dealing with rejection and loss.
I wonder if the school counselors in this area (who already have their hands full with issues to teach) ever deal with the emotional health issues of what to do when a relationship ends. We have all been there and at least for girls -- we cry and whine to our friends until they can't stand it anymore.... but the desperation we feel --- especially when young -- is very real. I'm not sure boys have as many outlets for their emotions other than drinking, drugs, or in a few cases, ... getting violent.
I'd say the danger of post-break-up violence has to be more urgent than terrorists coming into our schools. Kids need to learn how to manage these very big and threatening emotions that come from rejection.
Feeling very sad and heartbroken for the deceased parents, the surviving children/family in this scenario. Tragic.
Anonymous wrote:Emotionally stunted people -- which includes most teens -- have a hard time accepting rejection.
Here you have a teen who probably doesn't have many emotional connections other than the girlfriend. Girl's parents have good reason for wanting her to end it. She does. Boy is in distress and doesn't know how to deal with rejection. Probably plays to girl's emotions that he loves her/she understands him/he might do something to hurt himself. She lets him in to either calm him down or at least be a friend.... parents discover him.
He sees girl's parents as the cause of his anguish and because he is impulsive (and has been feeding himself violence for sometime), he reacts by taking out those who are (in his mind) inflicting the pain on him. He realizes the severity of his impulses in a matter of seconds and attempts to end his pain permanently.
These types of post-break-up shootings happen all over -- for teens in schools where they kill the ex girl friend and her new boyfriend, or with grown men and their ex-wives/girlfriends.
The Nazi stuff is relevant to the extent that (a) the parents precipitated the break up and (b) the shooter was primed for violence. But, ultimately, I think this will be a story of immature teen not dealing with rejection and loss.
I wonder if the school counselors in this area (who already have their hands full with issues to teach) ever deal with the emotional health issues of what to do when a relationship ends. We have all been there and at least for girls -- we cry and whine to our friends until they can't stand it anymore.... but the desperation we feel --- especially when young -- is very real. I'm not sure boys have as many outlets for their emotions other than drinking, drugs, or in a few cases, ... getting violent.
I'd say the danger of post-break-up violence has to be more urgent than terrorists coming into our schools. Kids need to learn how to manage these very big and threatening emotions that come from rejection.
Feeling very sad and heartbroken for the deceased parents, the surviving children/family in this scenario. Tragic.
Anonymous wrote:15:44. The shooter was a neo Nazi. It's on his twitter and he mowed a swastika. His relationship to neo Nazism is very clear. You look stupider by the minute.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So the mom approached it wrong and derserved to be murdered?!?
Certainly no one deserves to be murdered. However, based on what we've read in the paper about her actions, it is safe to say that as time goes on we will all see that the mom made some significant errors in the way she handled the situation and that, in turn, caused the children to make their own bad choices.
Oh my goodness. So the mom made the boy kill her. Wow.
Consider how desperate the kid felt, given he turned the gun on himself. That is the point all you social justice warriors are missing.
Being suicidal does not mean someone is not a terrorist. Again, lots of islamic suicide bombers are desperate, suicidal, etc.
Not sure why someone needs to be an SJW to think that being a neoNazi just MIGHT have played a role in this (apart from the motive for the girls mom to not want them dating)
Because the girls parents weren't Jewish, and there does not seem to be any racial or political motivation behind this? He was pissed off at his girlfriend's parents for trying to force them to breakup.
+1
+2 - This in a nutshell.