Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 14:01     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.


An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.

So she can't put it on her profile, can't discuss it on a date. Almost sounds like you don't even care about the woman you're trying to get to know You're one of those "don't talk about your accomplishments, men dont like that" huh.


Men like smart women. Smart women don’t need to put it in their bio, though, to prove their worth. Striver women may, and men typically don’t want strivers.

I am a highly educated woman. I met my husband when he was in grad school. He knew my credentials and was upfront when we got serious that his career would always come first. I said fine and we’ve been happily married for over 15 years. He was clear he would not have married me if I wanted a career more than a family. I think most men are like him.

Also, he had lots of options back then so I knew if I didn’t snap him up, someone would soon thereafter. For years, I didn’t understand why he picked me, but over time I’ve come to understand my husband valued that I wanted to have a family more than a career. Most women in his orbit back then did not have my priorities.

My choice isn’t for everyone but it was perfect for me.


Sounds like an incel wet dream, not a real woman lol.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 13:35     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.


An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.

So she can't put it on her profile, can't discuss it on a date. Almost sounds like you don't even care about the woman you're trying to get to know You're one of those "don't talk about your accomplishments, men dont like that" huh.


Men like smart women. Smart women don’t need to put it in their bio, though, to prove their worth. Striver women may, and men typically don’t want strivers.

I am a highly educated woman. I met my husband when he was in grad school. He knew my credentials and was upfront when we got serious that his career would always come first. I said fine and we’ve been happily married for over 15 years. He was clear he would not have married me if I wanted a career more than a family. I think most men are like him.

Also, he had lots of options back then so [/b]I knew if I didn’t snap him up, someone would soon thereafter[b]. For years, I didn’t understand why he picked me, but over time I’ve come to understand my husband valued that I wanted to have a family more than a career. Most women in his orbit back then did not have my priorities.

My choice isn’t for everyone but it was perfect for me.


Real pick meisha vibes here 🤢
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 13:33     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.


An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.

So she can't put it on her profile, can't discuss it on a date. Almost sounds like you don't even care about the woman you're trying to get to know You're one of those "don't talk about your accomplishments, men dont like that" huh.


Men like smart women. Smart women don’t need to put it in their bio, though, to prove their worth. Striver women may, and men typically don’t want strivers.

I am a highly educated woman. I met my husband when he was in grad school. He knew my credentials and was upfront when we got serious that his career would always come first. I said fine and we’ve been happily married for over 15 years. He was clear he would not have married me if I wanted a career more than a family. I think most men are like him.

Also, he had lots of options back then so I knew if I didn’t snap him up, someone would soon thereafter. For years, I didn’t understand why he picked me, but over time I’ve come to understand my husband valued that I wanted to have a family more than a career. Most women in his orbit back then did not have my priorities.

My choice isn’t for everyone but it was perfect for me.


Good for you brood mare! Some of us want to be valued for more than our uterus.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 13:31     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.


An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.

So she can't put it on her profile, can't discuss it on a date. Almost sounds like you don't even care about the woman you're trying to get to know You're one of those "don't talk about your accomplishments, men dont like that" huh.


Men like smart women. Smart women don’t need to put it in their bio, though, to prove their worth. Striver women may, and men typically don’t want strivers.

I am a highly educated woman. I met my husband when he was in grad school. He knew my credentials and was upfront when we got serious that his career would always come first. I said fine and we’ve been happily married for over 15 years. He was clear he would not have married me if I wanted a career more than a family. I think most men are like him.

Also, he had lots of options back then so I knew if I didn’t snap him up, someone would soon thereafter. For years, I didn’t understand why he picked me, but over time I’ve come to understand my husband valued that I wanted to have a family more than a career. Most women in his orbit back then did not have my priorities.

My choice isn’t for everyone but it was perfect for me.

Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 13:23     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As I saw it put today, for dating:

- Women treat it as shopping

- Men look at it as a job interview

What man wants to deal with this with some urban professional woman who is very impressed with herself?


They are a bore.

I love it when women list their profession (VP, executive, etc.) or the college they attended in their profile on tinder. It's always a top 20 school like Michigan or Harvard LMAO. They are really impressed with themselves!


Any man this threatened by a woman with an education should stay off dating apps and go to therapy instead. How insecure do you have to be to get petty about a woman who is proud of her accomplishments? The only people who react that way are ain't shit people who haven't done a damned thing with their lives so they're nasty toward those who have.

Green isn't anybody's color.

Agreed, but you know those men can’t have a woman who’s smarter than them - who will they talk down to?!
Men do not mind a smart woman but they do mind an insufferable smart-ass who thinks because she has a Masters degree in Hand-clapping she knows it all.

No man wants to be with a woman constantly snipping with her fingers and cutting with her mouth dictating like a Jezebel how everything has to be her way because she is “educated”.

Men are not afraid any more than somebody’s clogged toilet: let somebody else put up with it.


Methinks the "man" here doth protest too much...

Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 13:21     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A woman should NEVER settle.

Anonymous wrote:Women don't notice the poor men ... blue collar men and technology nerds.

Anonymous wrote:Then ... Do something different with your life. Or wait till you get out of that problem to date.


So men should solve all their financial and career problems to date and be worthy of love?

By contrast, women demand more selection of men instead of improving themselves. They often get easy "prestigious" degrees with heavy student loans while overlooking blue collar men and mere state university graduates.

Men: I want a submissive wife who does all the house work and childcare
Also men: You want ME to pay for EVERYTHING?! Gold digger!



Not men, Republicans.


No "man" is a Democrat. It's unnatural and a huge red flag.


I wouldn't say unnatural but it is very effeminate


There is some evidence that Democratic men have lower levels of testosterone and are more likely to demonstrate emotional lability in response to difficulties.

The happiest women I know are more likely to be married to conservative men. The unhappiest women I know are more likely to be progressives. I think the data on modern mental health backs up both these points.

If you want to start vaguely referencing stats like that, then let's talk about how conservatives are generally lower IQ and higher anxiety.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 13:10     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Nonsense.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 12:57     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A woman should NEVER settle.

Anonymous wrote:Women don't notice the poor men ... blue collar men and technology nerds.

Anonymous wrote:Then ... Do something different with your life. Or wait till you get out of that problem to date.


So men should solve all their financial and career problems to date and be worthy of love?

By contrast, women demand more selection of men instead of improving themselves. They often get easy "prestigious" degrees with heavy student loans while overlooking blue collar men and mere state university graduates.

Men: I want a submissive wife who does all the house work and childcare
Also men: You want ME to pay for EVERYTHING?! Gold digger!



Not men, Republicans.


No "man" is a Democrat. It's unnatural and a huge red flag.


I wouldn't say unnatural but it is very effeminate


There is some evidence that Democratic men have lower levels of testosterone and are more likely to demonstrate emotional lability in response to difficulties.

The happiest women I know are more likely to be married to conservative men. The unhappiest women I know are more likely to be progressives. I think the data on modern mental health backs up both these points.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 12:50     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
I mean, these are the same men who say they would date teens, so clearly they prefer them uneducated LOL
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 12:30     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
It's funny when men ask women "what do you bring to the table" because anything a woman responds with (intelligence, independence, a good job, etc), men will reject: "We don't care about those things!"

Then why ask? We already knew you mostly care about looks and youth.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 12:24     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.


An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.

So she can't put it on her profile, can't discuss it on a date. Almost sounds like you don't even care about the woman you're trying to get to know You're one of those "don't talk about your accomplishments, men dont like that" huh.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 12:08     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.


An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 11:37     Subject: Re:NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
+1.

No one cares about the football captain. No one did even in high school. In my high school, the smart boys who had any ounce of social skills got the beautiful girls.


No, sweetie, he did not care about you.

And it shows.

PS - Any smart boy with an ounce of social skills would have avoided you as well.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 11:30     Subject: Re:NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
You never dated after high school.


You got triggered by the story because life took a massive dump on you in high school, and you have never been able to get the smell off.
Anonymous
Post 07/10/2025 11:24     Subject: NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.
Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.