Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:All of this stuff is the reason my kid didn't even apply to SJC because I feel that their methods are suspect for a Catholic school.
We made the same decision not to apply there. Their response (doubling down) was worse than the original action of the coach. Glad to hear it worked out for one of the kids. I hope the rest of them are doing well too.
This happens at other Catholic high schools too. You get the dad cutting an entire class of kids to make room for his son and his son's team. If you get rid of all the upperclassman you can pave the way for your 'retirement' and for your kid and all his buddies to play 4 years of varsity when they show up next year. The 'grand plan'.
I have seen so much favoritism and nepotism through the years that I could write a novel. I have seen coaches outright lie, 'cover-up', fudge data and trash students. They pit students against one another.
It becomes really sad when actual merit is not involved in any way shape or form an concrete stats are completely ignored.
If parents are paying $30-40k for schools billing themselves as athletic and academic powerhouses, wouldn't you think their coaching staff would reflect that? Not complete bush-leaguers.
It comes down to values. Do you want your child to attend a school that plays games and values laziness, mediocracy and nepotism? It really is a cancer in the student body when that starts oozing out and the program becomes a joke. A laughingstock. But, the players know. The kids know. It takes a weak person to gloat and prance around when they know they don't deserve to be there.
I also have kids and kids' friends have their sport tainted by Man-babies with egos that can't be contained. Coaches that throw man baby fits on the sidelines kicking things over and getting thrown out of games. "Great role models" for impressionable teen boys.
We were lucky in a way that my kids sport doesn't even care about high school play and actually advocates against playing high school. Then these losers take the players that didn't even play in their program and flash their commits across their team's social media page. Kids that were developed at outside Clubs and experienced nothing but a brick wall at their own school.
So, yeah, it isn't just SJC. And, trust me, your kid won't care when he's doing what he loves in his D1 program. Let the others live out their 'glory days'. For some, it is all over after high school. For others, it is just the beginning.
I just wish they wouldn't ruin it for the kids over their own egos. You keep them around too long and that is exactly what happens. You teach your kid to rise above it. Cream has a tendency to do just that. Every great sports hero has a story like this in their past. It's fuel, baby.