Anonymous
Post 07/21/2018 22:16     Subject: Re:RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:B isn't mentally healthy enough to be on a reality tv show. Her custody and related issues really make it a terrible choice to shot a reality show. Like why would you add that stress to your daughters life??? Now is not the time in her life to be in front of the cameras. She can't keep it together and she doesn't need the money so wtf is she doing. Also when ppl can't share their life (aka her kid) on the show it makes it awkward.


It's always about the money. B's brand is worthless without the tv notoriety. If she loses that, her brand is empty with 2 or 3 years. To most of us, she should be able to bank enough now to last forever. Her level of spending probably won't allow it. She doesn't ever want to be a regular person again. For all of her fake fronting, she hates and is crappy to anyone who isn't a celebrity. She and Ramona are the same in this regard.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2018 15:24     Subject: Re:RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:B isn't mentally healthy enough to be on a reality tv show. Her custody and related issues really make it a terrible choice to shot a reality show. Like why would you add that stress to your daughters life??? Now is not the time in her life to be in front of the cameras. She can't keep it together and she doesn't need the money so wtf is she doing. Also when ppl can't share their life (aka her kid) on the show it makes it awkward.


Because she needs the attention. Warren Beatty had a quote about Madonna in her Truth or Dare documentary that, to me, somewhat applies to Bethenny:

"She doesn't want to live off-camera, much less talk. There's nothing to say off-camera. Why would you say something if it's off-camera? What point is there existing?"


Ding, ding, ding!

I feel bad for Betheny, but there's a pattern here. She feels rejected by Carole, and so she's going to take every opportunity to try to make her feel bad. Obviously Carole was tickled to get some male attention after her break up, but Betheny had to go and s*** on it, to take her down a peg, not because she was really trying to warn her off Mr. Red Scarf. It is like High School, but Betheny is the one playing childish games. Carole is over it. I would be, too. I don't have space in my life for "friends" who see me as competition.


I agree with a lot of this but...coming off of TOM in the mix, for God's sake, how does Carole not see this guy coming a million miles away? Bethenny's already frustrated at Carole for being rather blind about Adam, probably. It IS frustrating that coming off of Adam and with the spectre of Tom lurking about, that a grown-ass woman as worldly as Carole portrays herself to be doesn't see Red Scarf for the operator that he is.


Carole said she didn't get to talk to red scarf because the other 2 women were all over him, yet she believes he was interested in her? How? He never even spoke to her or seemed to attempt to do so.
Also B saying she and red scarf weren't friends, yet she warmly welcomes him to the speed dating and also said they went out once. Fine, so how do you characterize that? She just HAS to have the last word. So nasty that she told Carole she won a 'consolation prize' though.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 21:04     Subject: RHONY Season 10
Oh and Tinsley, adorable, harmless, fun and good hearted
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 21:03     Subject: RHONY Season 10
Here is my lowdown of this cast of characters-
Bethanny intense, wounded but bright and has a good heart

Carole the biggest joke of them all, looks 60 and haggrered trying to look 20 and has the most clown like outfits thinking she is "high fashion" my sister was behind her in line at a coffee shop in NY and said she looks even worse in person

Dorinda used to like her now she is a total pot stirrer and an ugly drunk

Ramona, what can you say...she is Ramona. To know her is to love (and accept her) and her quirks, etc...

Sonja, love her, think she has a huge heart, very giving and kind

Luann fingers crossed for her as she navigates what is obviously a diffulct time, will leave it at that

My takeaway, this is a toxic bunch and I have somewhat lost interest but when I need to be reminded of why it's nice to have grounded friends, I tune in haha
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 15:50     Subject: RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:
I thought she did ask and Ramona told her it was chicken?

Carole looks kind of sad and desperate for male attention with this speed dating guy, which she never did before, even with Adam. But she's spending a lot of time with Tinsley, and you become what you surround yourself with ...


I thought she asked Ramona about the main dish.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 15:31     Subject: RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was confused about the fish allergy situation with Bethenny. It's not funny or something to jack with- it can be life or death- even if previous reactions were arrested with Benadryl, that can change in an instant. So why DIDN'T she ask about all food to be sure there was no fish? And why haven't we ever heard her check food safety before around this issue- all these years, you would think it had been mentioned in passing as they ordered at multiple venues.

Anyway, having an immune response like this can bring on the emotional lability and explain some of the over the top emotions/panic attack etc in addition to all the restraining order/custody drama.

I do feel it was beyond rude to mention the dirtiness of the home- even if it was true- why say it, especially on camera, especially to a sh!t stirrer like Dorinda. Not nice to Tinsley.

Carole just looks like a high school girl not hearing or wanting to believe that that red scarf guy was into anyone who was interested. Bet she feels like a dumbass now that the episode aired.

I was over Ramona's whole wheelchair thing and miraculous recovery.


It came up during her first Berkshires trip, when Dorinda had a sushi chef. That's what started her fight with Heather; Heather was trying to "tend to her" too much/offer her a meatball/find her something else to eat. Bethenny probably thought they should have remembered that.

Well, anyway, Bethenny, if you have a serious allergy, don't go eating soup in a foreign country without at least asking what's in it.


I thought she did ask and Ramona told her it was chicken?

Carole looks kind of sad and desperate for male attention with this speed dating guy, which she never did before, even with Adam. But she's spending a lot of time with Tinsley, and you become what you surround yourself with ...
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 15:27     Subject: RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:I was confused about the fish allergy situation with Bethenny. It's not funny or something to jack with- it can be life or death- even if previous reactions were arrested with Benadryl, that can change in an instant. So why DIDN'T she ask about all food to be sure there was no fish? And why haven't we ever heard her check food safety before around this issue- all these years, you would think it had been mentioned in passing as they ordered at multiple venues.


Her fish allergy came up at a dinner party at the Berkshires and caused an argument between Heather and Bethenny, who ended up in tears (hmm, I'm sensing a theme here).
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 15:26     Subject: Re:RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:B isn't mentally healthy enough to be on a reality tv show. Her custody and related issues really make it a terrible choice to shot a reality show. Like why would you add that stress to your daughters life??? Now is not the time in her life to be in front of the cameras. She can't keep it together and she doesn't need the money so wtf is she doing. Also when ppl can't share their life (aka her kid) on the show it makes it awkward.


Because she needs the attention. Warren Beatty had a quote about Madonna in her Truth or Dare documentary that, to me, somewhat applies to Bethenny:

"She doesn't want to live off-camera, much less talk. There's nothing to say off-camera. Why would you say something if it's off-camera? What point is there existing?"


Ding, ding, ding!

I feel bad for Betheny, but there's a pattern here. She feels rejected by Carole, and so she's going to take every opportunity to try to make her feel bad. Obviously Carole was tickled to get some male attention after her break up, but Betheny had to go and s*** on it, to take her down a peg, not because she was really trying to warn her off Mr. Red Scarf. It is like High School, but Betheny is the one playing childish games. Carole is over it. I would be, too. I don't have space in my life for "friends" who see me as competition.


I agree with a lot of this but...coming off of TOM in the mix, for God's sake, how does Carole not see this guy coming a million miles away? Bethenny's already frustrated at Carole for being rather blind about Adam, probably. It IS frustrating that coming off of Adam and with the spectre of Tom lurking about, that a grown-ass woman as worldly as Carole portrays herself to be doesn't see Red Scarf for the operator that he is.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 15:24     Subject: Re:RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:B isn't mentally healthy enough to be on a reality tv show. Her custody and related issues really make it a terrible choice to shot a reality show. Like why would you add that stress to your daughters life??? Now is not the time in her life to be in front of the cameras. She can't keep it together and she doesn't need the money so wtf is she doing. Also when ppl can't share their life (aka her kid) on the show it makes it awkward.


Because she needs the attention. Warren Beatty had a quote about Madonna in her Truth or Dare documentary that, to me, somewhat applies to Bethenny:

"She doesn't want to live off-camera, much less talk. There's nothing to say off-camera. Why would you say something if it's off-camera? What point is there existing?"


Ding, ding, ding!

I feel bad for Betheny, but there's a pattern here. She feels rejected by Carole, and so she's going to take every opportunity to try to make her feel bad. Obviously Carole was tickled to get some male attention after her break up, but Betheny had to go and s*** on it, to take her down a peg, not because she was really trying to warn her off Mr. Red Scarf. It is like High School, but Betheny is the one playing childish games. Carole is over it. I would be, too. I don't have space in my life for "friends" who see me as competition.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 15:23     Subject: RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:I was confused about the fish allergy situation with Bethenny. It's not funny or something to jack with- it can be life or death- even if previous reactions were arrested with Benadryl, that can change in an instant. So why DIDN'T she ask about all food to be sure there was no fish? And why haven't we ever heard her check food safety before around this issue- all these years, you would think it had been mentioned in passing as they ordered at multiple venues.

Anyway, having an immune response like this can bring on the emotional lability and explain some of the over the top emotions/panic attack etc in addition to all the restraining order/custody drama.

I do feel it was beyond rude to mention the dirtiness of the home- even if it was true- why say it, especially on camera, especially to a sh!t stirrer like Dorinda. Not nice to Tinsley.

Carole just looks like a high school girl not hearing or wanting to believe that that red scarf guy was into anyone who was interested. Bet she feels like a dumbass now that the episode aired.

I was over Ramona's whole wheelchair thing and miraculous recovery.


It came up during her first Berkshires trip, when Dorinda had a sushi chef. That's what started her fight with Heather; Heather was trying to "tend to her" too much/offer her a meatball/find her something else to eat. Bethenny probably thought they should have remembered that.

Well, anyway, Bethenny, if you have a serious allergy, don't go eating soup in a foreign country without at least asking what's in it.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 15:03     Subject: RHONY Season 10
I was confused about the fish allergy situation with Bethenny. It's not funny or something to jack with- it can be life or death- even if previous reactions were arrested with Benadryl, that can change in an instant. So why DIDN'T she ask about all food to be sure there was no fish? And why haven't we ever heard her check food safety before around this issue- all these years, you would think it had been mentioned in passing as they ordered at multiple venues.

Anyway, having an immune response like this can bring on the emotional lability and explain some of the over the top emotions/panic attack etc in addition to all the restraining order/custody drama.

I do feel it was beyond rude to mention the dirtiness of the home- even if it was true- why say it, especially on camera, especially to a sh!t stirrer like Dorinda. Not nice to Tinsley.

Carole just looks like a high school girl not hearing or wanting to believe that that red scarf guy was into anyone who was interested. Bet she feels like a dumbass now that the episode aired.

I was over Ramona's whole wheelchair thing and miraculous recovery.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 14:12     Subject: Re:RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:B isn't mentally healthy enough to be on a reality tv show. Her custody and related issues really make it a terrible choice to shot a reality show. Like why would you add that stress to your daughters life??? Now is not the time in her life to be in front of the cameras. She can't keep it together and she doesn't need the money so wtf is she doing. Also when ppl can't share their life (aka her kid) on the show it makes it awkward.


Because she needs the attention. Warren Beatty had a quote about Madonna in her Truth or Dare documentary that, to me, somewhat applies to Bethenny:

"She doesn't want to live off-camera, much less talk. There's nothing to say off-camera. Why would you say something if it's off-camera? What point is there existing?"


I wonder if B does the show for the free advertising for Skinny Girl.


I think skinnygirl is over. She sold the only successful part of the brand right off the bat (good decision) and was never able to elevate any of her other branded products to any comparable level of success. The only time I see skinnygirl stuff is at the clearance isle at marshels.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 14:10     Subject: Re:RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:B isn't mentally healthy enough to be on a reality tv show. Her custody and related issues really make it a terrible choice to shot a reality show. Like why would you add that stress to your daughters life??? Now is not the time in her life to be in front of the cameras. She can't keep it together and she doesn't need the money so wtf is she doing. Also when ppl can't share their life (aka her kid) on the show it makes it awkward.


Because she needs the attention. Warren Beatty had a quote about Madonna in her Truth or Dare documentary that, to me, somewhat applies to Bethenny:

"She doesn't want to live off-camera, much less talk. There's nothing to say off-camera. Why would you say something if it's off-camera? What point is there existing?"


I wonder if B does the show for the free advertising for Skinny Girl.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 14:01     Subject: Re:RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What really turned me off of Carole is when she made the comment about it being difficult to be around B when she is crying all the time. I can understand that perspective if you are on vacation with someone you don't really know. I cannot understand ever saying that about a close or formerly close friend who I know is going through very serious personal stuff, even if I don't know the details of what is currently occurring. Seems like Carole has just decided to cut off the friendship with B because it requires too much of her. Instead, she'll focus on a friendship Tinsley that is all cotton candy and roses. In my view the friendship with B, and now the tension B, is the only thing keeping her on the show because there is nothing interesting about her. (I found her relationship with Adam sad and somewhat disturbing.)


What turned me off about Carole was that hideous Victorian era bordello outfit she wore.


Carole is obnoxious, and I find her clothing choices beyond ridiculous, but when it comes to this carole/bethany bullshit, I am #teamCarole all the way. Bethany cannot stand to live without conflict. She created this conflict all on her own. She's stressed out about the restraining order expiring? DON'T GO ON THE TRIP!!!!! Isn't she still an exec. producer and Andy Cohen's bae? She goes so she can be a bitch, create conflict, and then cry and self-induce a panic attack to get more attention. There's a reason Carole is turned off by her crying, and it's because even though she used to be her close friend, she probably hates her toxicity and wants nothing to do with her or her crocodile tears anymore. Same, carole. Same.
Anonymous
Post 07/19/2018 12:56     Subject: RHONY Season 10
Anonymous wrote:Carole and Dorinda are just over it; Tinsley was never under it. Ramona doesn't actually give a shit about any of these women.


Spot on.