Anonymous wrote:In 2005 Michele Pollard Patrick and Kristine Miller McGehee assumed sponsorship and have expanded the program and its offerings. The philosophy of Capital Cotillion is that every child should have the opportunity to learn the social skills that will enable them to become responsible and considerate adults. Therefore; there is no application or screening process. We are open to all.
As far as not getting an invite the next year, I don't think there is any black listing, they may not think to send you an invite again ( postage is expensive) but I can't imagine them saying no to your enrolling your child if you contact them and there is a space. Because it is so open minded and the kids actually enjoy Capital Cotillion the classes do get filled so it is important to sign up quickly. As far as the family that couldn't afford it I think at one point they offered aid to those that couldn't afford it but i just looke don the web site and did not see it mentioned. I may have seenit in the invitation.
My son and all his buddies go and they really enjoy it, who would have thought the boys would like it so much!
Three things from an old Washingtonian, and old family. The dance classes that used to be offered at Beauvoir had nothing to do with Ms. Shippens. Ms. Shippens was racist and my uncle was kicked out for inviting an AA girl to a dance (and tipping off the Washington Post). Suffice it to say, the next generation of my family was not invited.
I went to deb balls in the early nineties but was never a deb. Please remember that the Capital Cotillion will accept anyone who applies and Ms. Simmons won't.
My oldest did the Cotillion until 5th when she said the girls got mean. We were invited from a public school.
Spring Valley did not used to sell houses to Jews or AA's. The Chevy Chase club did not used to admit Jewish people. I can easily believe that some of this is still going on at Ms. Simmons. I also believe that it is no longer relevant to most sensible people's lives.
Two questions: are there still debs in DC?
How are the Cotillion classes on table manners and what does one do if you only want to start this non-exclusive nonsense in high school?