Anonymous wrote:Just a friendly nudge here: families and players are all about picking schools that match their own goals, finances, and academic chops—definitely not yours. Trust me, they aren’t losing sleep over your thoughts on their decisions. So, let’s channel our inner cheerleader instead of turning green with envy or over analyzing. After all, these are just 16-year-old girls trying their best and picking their favorite/best fit.
https://www.facebook.com/...tid=K35XfP
I copied this from the above link. It is a very healtht perspective to recruiting.
“You have to remember that everyone is coming from a different spot. Some folks will use the recruiting process to get into the best academic school possible, regardless of the money involved. For others, the main focus is lowering the cost of college as much as possible. Some families are focused on playing for the "best" lacrosse program they can play for. All these decisions are fine as long as they meet the family's needs.
Trying to put your priorities onto other families' choices just doesn't make sense since everyone is coming from a slightly different place.”