Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

A friend of mine uses the “put hands on” term. It’s urban slang (FWIW she grew up in a MD working class suburb). Honestly I think it makes “beat me up” or “hit me” sound less violent — sort of like ‘passed away’ softens ‘died.’ So I really don’t like the phrase.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im surprised Cassie didn't fight him back or cover her head when he was beating her. And she didn't try to get up.

As PP already said, she'd already been beaten in the hotel room and was trying to escape. But did you see the force that he used when he threw her on the ground? She probably had the wind knocked out of her or was stunned, or both. You don't just knocked to the ground like that, and then kicked, and are ready to fight. You're hurt. You're stunned. You're scared. What is the matter with you?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Just about every housewife on Bravo has said this lol

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Only when Will Smith said it at the Oscars or else online. Not among people I know.

I've been hearing these phrases IRL pretty much my whole life.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Only when Will Smith said it at the Oscars or else online. Not among people I know.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Only when Will Smith said it at the Oscars or else online. Not among people I know.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Will Smith said that at the Oscars. “Keep my wife’s name out your mouth” after he slapped Chris Rock.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Have you really never heard someone say, "Keep my name out of your mouth?" I don't remember a time when these terms weren't used IRL.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Diddy ever put hands on JLo.

Is this some kind of slang for being physically abusive?

“Putting hands on” and keeping someone’s name “out your mouth” are two expressions I’ve only seen on Lipstick Alley.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im surprised Cassie didn't fight him back or cover her head when he was beating her. And she didn't try to get up.

As PP already said, she'd already been beaten in the hotel room and was trying to escape. But did you see the force that he used when he threw her on the ground? She probably had the wind knocked out of her or was stunned, or both. You don't just knocked to the ground like that, and then kicked, and are ready to fight. You're hurt. You're stunned. You're scared. What is the matter with you?

What is the matter with me?

I'm a survivor of severe physical domestic abuse. Natural reaction is to cover your head.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im surprised Cassie didn't fight him back or cover her head when he was beating her. And she didn't try to get up.

That’s what’s more heartbreaking-she didn’t fight back - she curled into a ball to make herself as small as possible and protect her softer areas. A clear sign that she’s been abused many many times by him.

I was beaten , broken nose as a child by my father. I am 66 and still curl up to protect myself when I am scared.

I am sorry, you deserved to be loved and protected by your father.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im surprised Cassie didn't fight him back or cover her head when he was beating her. And she didn't try to get up.

That’s what’s more heartbreaking-she didn’t fight back - she curled into a ball to make herself as small as possible and protect her softer areas. A clear sign that she’s been abused many many times by him.

I was beaten , broken nose as a child by my father. I am 66 and still curl up to protect myself when I am scared.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im surprised Cassie didn't fight him back or cover her head when he was beating her. And she didn't try to get up.

That’s what’s more heartbreaking-she didn’t fight back - she curled into a ball to make herself as small as possible and protect her softer areas. A clear sign that she’s been abused many many times by him.