Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Basically what I think it comes down to is whether abortion is murder or not. Let’s say the mother may die if she doesn’t abort. If she chooses not to abort, there is a small chance that both the mother and baby will live. But if she does choose to abort, there is a 0% chance that they both will live, every time. I do care about women’s health. My anti-abortion stance doesn’t mean I don’t care about women’s health or the suffering that they go through. I totally empathize with them. But I can’t ignore the unborn’s life. 600 million babies have been aborted in the US. I just feel like that’s too many. Abortion should be a last-case scenario, but I feel like it’s turned into a convenience for many people. So that’s what I struggle with.
What you feel is simply incorrect though. There is nothing about abortion and how it's done and available in this country nowadays that is convenient at all. Sure there may be some women who do it casually and have had multiple abortions due to carelessness, but the idea there are "many" women like this is ludicrous and insulting.
Anonymous wrote:
Basically what I think it comes down to is whether abortion is murder or not. Let’s say the mother may die if she doesn’t abort. If she chooses not to abort, there is a small chance that both the mother and baby will live. But if she does choose to abort, there is a 0% chance that they both will live, every time. I do care about women’s health. My anti-abortion stance doesn’t mean I don’t care about women’s health or the suffering that they go through. I totally empathize with them. But I can’t ignore the unborn’s life. 600 million babies have been aborted in the US. I just feel like that’s too many. Abortion should be a last-case scenario, but I feel like it’s turned into a convenience for many people. So that’s what I struggle with.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Trump takes away your “you can give the babies up for adoption” line:
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-adoption-same-sex-couples-jews-miracle-mill.html
Adoption should always be encouraged. It’s a good outcome.
Not from what I’ve heard from adoptees.
Well I’d rather be adopted than the alternative...
Live a short, painful life?
Kill your mother in the process?
I wouldn’t be so sure.
Physicians are saying it's not possible for mother to be better off to abort while she's already in labor, than to allow the baby to be born alive.
How many mothers decide to abort after they’ve already started labor?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Trump takes away your “you can give the babies up for adoption” line:
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-adoption-same-sex-couples-jews-miracle-mill.html
Adoption should always be encouraged. It’s a good outcome.
Not from what I’ve heard from adoptees.
Well I’d rather be adopted than the alternative...
Live a short, painful life?
Kill your mother in the process?
I wouldn’t be so sure.
Physicians are saying it's not possible for mother to be better off to abort while she's already in labor, than to allow the baby to be born alive.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Trump takes away your “you can give the babies up for adoption” line:
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-adoption-same-sex-couples-jews-miracle-mill.html
Adoption should always be encouraged. It’s a good outcome.
In 2006, at 21 weeks pregnant I went in to my ob/gyn for a routine ultrasound. My doctor told me they suspected my daughter had Trisomy 13. They said they needed to do an amnio to be sure. Then they asked if I wanted to terminate the pregnancy. I said, I wanted to wait until the results came back. I wasn't able to make that desicion without knowing for sure. They told me that the results would be back in 7-10 days and by that time I would be past 22 weeks and would not be allowed to have a medical abortion in my state. I had 45 minutes to make that choice. 45 minutes! I decided to wait for the results. That decision is the biggest regret of my life and I have played that conversation in my head over and over for the past 13 years? The results came back positive. Molly had a genetic chromosome disorder. Over the following weeks, I learned she had 2 holes in her heart, her brain was not formed properly, she didn't have eyes, she had a cleft palate, extra fingers and toes and barely functioning lungs. The only thing keeping her alive was me. They told me I probably wouldn't carry full term and if I did, her survival was unlikely. The truth was, Molly would suffer immensely if she lived past birth.
I carried Molly full term to 40 weeks, I gave birth with a team of doctors by my side and I held her in my arms for 31 minutes and watched my daughter suffocate to death.
Every single day after I found out the results were torture, delivery was torture, telling my children that after I had the baby, she would die was torture. Telling my family was torture. People would congratulate me on my pregnancy and I would smile and say Thank you because retelling my story over and over was torture.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Trump takes away your “you can give the babies up for adoption” line:
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-adoption-same-sex-couples-jews-miracle-mill.html
Adoption should always be encouraged. It’s a good outcome.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Trump takes away your “you can give the babies up for adoption” line:
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-adoption-same-sex-couples-jews-miracle-mill.html
Adoption should always be encouraged. It’s a good outcome.
Not from what I’ve heard from adoptees.
Well I’d rather be adopted than the alternative...
Live a short, painful life?
Kill your mother in the process?
I wouldn’t be so sure.
o isAnonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Trump takes away your “you can give the babies up for adoption” line:
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-adoption-same-sex-couples-jews-miracle-mill.html
Adoption should always be encouraged. It’s a good outcome.
Then why is Trump taking it away from some people?
He’s just saying that adoption agencies can do what they want. He isn’t telling then that they HAVE to deny certain adoptions. Small government.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Trump takes away your “you can give the babies up for adoption” line:
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-adoption-same-sex-couples-jews-miracle-mill.html
Adoption should always be encouraged. It’s a good outcome.
Then why is Trump taking it away from some people?
He’s just saying that adoption agencies can do what they want. He isn’t telling then that they HAVE to deny certain adoptions. Small government.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Trump takes away your “you can give the babies up for adoption” line:
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-adoption-same-sex-couples-jews-miracle-mill.html
Adoption should always be encouraged. It’s a good outcome.
Not from what I’ve heard from adoptees.
Well I’d rather be adopted than the alternative...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Trump takes away your “you can give the babies up for adoption” line:
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-adoption-same-sex-couples-jews-miracle-mill.html
Adoption should always be encouraged. It’s a good outcome.
Not from what I’ve heard from adoptees.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Trump takes away your “you can give the babies up for adoption” line:
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/trump-adoption-same-sex-couples-jews-miracle-mill.html
Adoption should always be encouraged. It’s a good outcome.
Then why is Trump taking it away from some people?