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Anonymous wrote:Can any Arlington posters tell me about their family's experience in the ASA U9 boys travel program? I'm trying to get a sense of the environment for the U9 boys. Also interested in what a typical week looks like (how many practices? How many games? How much actual travel?). I've read the ASA commitment letter, but I don't know how that abstract "commitment" translates in a real life basis.

My first grader DS particulated in the ASA U9 tryouts, and he's been offered a roster spot. We've got 48 hours (less now) to accept or decline. We're completely new to the travel soccer scene, and it seems like a big commitment. I'm just trying to figure out if it's worth it for DS (who is a good player, but not gifted, and really enjoys soccer - and competition, generally- but also has other activities and interests). I'm open to the idea of travel soccer, but I do have significant reservations. I'm considering ADP (if DS gets through the tryout) as an alternative.

DS is really excited to have "made the travel team" but he has no idea what he's signing up for. I've asked him to consider what he'd be willing to give up tone on the travel team (other sporting activities? Birthday parties for friends? Hanging out with neighborhood kids after school some nights?).

Any input from more experienced parents would be much appreciated!

you really have to try it for at least a season to know whether it's worth it for your family.

Agree. Out of our friends it's 50-50 on what kids want to do it again at u10. Two former soccer-loving kid's friends are quitting after first year. The other 2 are going back.

It's a lot for a 2nd grader. Everyone used to start in 3rd, but birth year change has pushed it into even younger grades. You can always try it, bit if you see it is too much--just sit them out one of the 3 practices and drop to ADP following year.

Don't let others scare you into thinking doors close if you don't accept. By U12-there are a ton of free roster spots again.

Thanks to you - and the others who responded - for your advice. I really appreciate it. We decided to decline the Arlington U9 roster spot, and will pursue ADP instead for next year. The travel commitment seemed a lot for DS, who is still interested in other activities (martial arts, baseball, basketball) and also enjoys unstructured time with his friends. I was worried that he might burn out, and be soured on soccer (which would be a shame). It would also be a lot for us, as two working parents. We were all - DS included - just a bit too ambivalent to make such a big commitment of time when DS is still only 7. I hope that DS will enjoy ADP (assuming he makes it), play plenty of soccer, and after a year, or more, can decide whether he wants to try out for travel again. Maybe he can get into travel at U12 when plenty of kids are getting out. We understand that there is no guarantee that he'll ever make a traval team again, but if playing ADP as a second grader closes the doors to travel soccer for good, then so be it.

I will say that I was impressed with the way that ASA ran the tryouts (and later, the sorting session for the accepted U9 players). That was a lot of soccer and a lot of boys, and everything ran really well. DS thoroughly enjoyed it, and we'll have no qualms about putting DS through the tryout process again when he is a little older.

Good luck to all on travel teams for the coming year!

With both our DCs in the travel scene, wanted to chime in here that we were following your experience and sounds like a great decision. I doubt you'll regret it. Travel is starting too young now. Too many teams too. Depending on what team you were offered, you should expect to make ADP. ...although sometimes you get really good players at ADP who have no interest playing travel with all the costs.

A lot of boys from our rec team that made travel last year opted to do ADP instead. The parents didn't want all of that structure and travel so soon. They loved it.

Thanks to both PPs for the encouragement. While I'm still a little torn, I do thibk we've made the right decision for DS and our family. I expect that DS will make ADP and thrive. I'll report back in the Fall.

I bet there will be lots of good players in ADP, some who made the travel team (and declined) and others who didn't even both with tryouts. I'm sure that the costs are a significant barrier to many. The most talented player - by far - I've seen in my two years as a parent in ASA rec soccer wasn't at the travel tryouts. He was on DS's K rec team, and he was startlingly talented, albeit not particularly athletic. After every game, parents from other teams would come over to my DH (team coach) and comment on this player. DS is on a different first grade team, but I hope the other player is still playing and his family is aware of the travel and ADP opportunities.

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Anonymous wrote:Did anyone attend the BRYC tryouts last night? Was turnout low for the younger years?

- Can someone from BRYC please explain what is going on with the girls side tryouts?

- For next year, I thought it was ECNL only for 13U and above, and then I thought it was just internal scrimmages /training/tourneys for 12U and below?

- For example, what is going on with the 2006 12Us? I see all these NCSL and ODSL black teams now for various ages:
http://www.brycsoccer.com/girls-tryouts-fall-2017

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Anonymous wrote:Can any Arlington posters tell me about their family's experience in the ASA U9 boys travel program? I'm trying to get a sense of the environment for the U9 boys. Also interested in what a typical week looks like (how many practices? How many games? How much actual travel?). I've read the ASA commitment letter, but I don't know how that abstract "commitment" translates in a real life basis.

My first grader DS particulated in the ASA U9 tryouts, and he's been offered a roster spot. We've got 48 hours (less now) to accept or decline. We're completely new to the travel soccer scene, and it seems like a big commitment. I'm just trying to figure out if it's worth it for DS (who is a good player, but not gifted, and really enjoys soccer - and competition, generally- but also has other activities and interests). I'm open to the idea of travel soccer, but I do have significant reservations. I'm considering ADP (if DS gets through the tryout) as an alternative.

DS is really excited to have "made the travel team" but he has no idea what he's signing up for. I've asked him to consider what he'd be willing to give up tone on the travel team (other sporting activities? Birthday parties for friends? Hanging out with neighborhood kids after school some nights?).

Any input from more experienced parents would be much appreciated!

you really have to try it for at least a season to know whether it's worth it for your family.

Agree. Out of our friends it's 50-50 on what kids want to do it again at u10. Two former soccer-loving kid's friends are quitting after first year. The other 2 are going back.

It's a lot for a 2nd grader. Everyone used to start in 3rd, but birth year change has pushed it into even younger grades. You can always try it, bit if you see it is too much--just sit them out one of the 3 practices and drop to ADP following year.

Don't let others scare you into thinking doors close if you don't accept. By U12-there are a ton of free roster spots again.

Thanks to you - and the others who responded - for your advice. I really appreciate it. We decided to decline the Arlington U9 roster spot, and will pursue ADP instead for next year. The travel commitment seemed a lot for DS, who is still interested in other activities (martial arts, baseball, basketball) and also enjoys unstructured time with his friends. I was worried that he might burn out, and be soured on soccer (which would be a shame). It would also be a lot for us, as two working parents. We were all - DS included - just a bit too ambivalent to make such a big commitment of time when DS is still only 7. I hope that DS will enjoy ADP (assuming he makes it), play plenty of soccer, and after a year, or more, can decide whether he wants to try out for travel again. Maybe he can get into travel at U12 when plenty of kids are getting out. We understand that there is no guarantee that he'll ever make a traval team again, but if playing ADP as a second grader closes the doors to travel soccer for good, then so be it.

I will say that I was impressed with the way that ASA ran the tryouts (and later, the sorting session for the accepted U9 players). That was a lot of soccer and a lot of boys, and everything ran really well. DS thoroughly enjoyed it, and we'll have no qualms about putting DS through the tryout process again when he is a little older.

Good luck to all on travel teams for the coming year!

With both our DCs in the travel scene, wanted to chime in here that we were following your experience and sounds like a great decision. I doubt you'll regret it. Travel is starting too young now. Too many teams too. Depending on what team you were offered, you should expect to make ADP. ...although sometimes you get really good players at ADP who have no interest playing travel with all the costs.

A lot of boys from our rec team that made travel last year opted to do ADP instead. The parents didn't want all of that structure and travel so soon. They loved it.

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Anonymous wrote:One thing to add as your kids go through the proces sof tryouts and cuts.

Be committed to the team and sport if they make it. Too many kids think that just because they are on the team all is good. It isn't. Coaches need the kids to be committed as do the other players.

Is your kid club soccer ready? Ask them this, if Johnie or Suzy have a birthday party and you have a game scheduled, which would you pick?

I think you understand where I am going with this.

Year after year players get on teams saying they are committed but soon start to fade.

YES. We have kids whose parents were so gung-ho at the beginning and now can barely be bothered to bring their kid five minutes before a game starts. And they don't apologize; they act like they don't know or don't give a crap how it affects the team.

At what age does interest start to fade? My kid is all gungho about it now but I could see how as they get older interests change.

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Anonymous wrote:None of the ones close to Arl on that list.

+1

Made up story.

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same here. If it was true they would have named the small local club with the dates of the tryout. Why make something up like this though, for what purpose

Maybe, just maybe, your idea of close-in to Arlington is different than their idea of close-in to Arlington.

McLean is the only club even remotely close in any direction that has finished tryouts already. Many (5-6 semi-close) were just starting this week and hold 3-4, not rolling announcements so wouldn't get an offer for awhile.

I don't consider McLean small though, but that is the only one it could be for the sheer fact of timing of tryouts.

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Anonymous wrote:None of the ones close to Arl on that list.

+1

Made up story.

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same here. If it was true they would have named the small local club with the dates of the tryout. Why make something up like this though, for what purpose

Maybe, just maybe, your idea of close-in to Arlington is different than their idea of close-in to Arlington.

Anonymous wrote:Did anyone attend the BRYC tryouts last night? Was turnout low for the younger years?

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Anonymous wrote:None of the ones close to Arl on that list.

+1

Made up story.

+2

same here. If it was true they would have named the small local club with the dates of the tryout. Why make something up like this though, for what purpose

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Anonymous wrote:None of the ones close to Arl on that list.

+1

Made up story.

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same here. If it was true they would have named the small local club with the dates of the tryout. Why make something up like this though, for what purpose

Even worse, they said it was two other Clubs they tried out for.

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Anonymous wrote:Can any Arlington posters tell me about their family's experience in the ASA U9 boys travel program? I'm trying to get a sense of the environment for the U9 boys. Also interested in what a typical week looks like (how many practices? How many games? How much actual travel?). I've read the ASA commitment letter, but I don't know how that abstract "commitment" translates in a real life basis.

My first grader DS particulated in the ASA U9 tryouts, and he's been offered a roster spot. We've got 48 hours (less now) to accept or decline. We're completely new to the travel soccer scene, and it seems like a big commitment. I'm just trying to figure out if it's worth it for DS (who is a good player, but not gifted, and really enjoys soccer - and competition, generally- but also has other activities and interests). I'm open to the idea of travel soccer, but I do have significant reservations. I'm considering ADP (if DS gets through the tryout) as an alternative.

DS is really excited to have "made the travel team" but he has no idea what he's signing up for. I've asked him to consider what he'd be willing to give up tone on the travel team (other sporting activities? Birthday parties for friends? Hanging out with neighborhood kids after school some nights?).

Any input from more experienced parents would be much appreciated!

you really have to try it for at least a season to know whether it's worth it for your family.

Agree. Out of our friends it's 50-50 on what kids want to do it again at u10. Two former soccer-loving kid's friends are quitting after first year. The other 2 are going back.

It's a lot for a 2nd grader. Everyone used to start in 3rd, but birth year change has pushed it into even younger grades. You can always try it, bit if you see it is too much--just sit them out one of the 3 practices and drop to ADP following year.

Don't let others scare you into thinking doors close if you don't accept. By U12-there are a ton of free roster spots again.

Thanks to you - and the others who responded - for your advice. I really appreciate it. We decided to decline the Arlington U9 roster spot, and will pursue ADP instead for next year. The travel commitment seemed a lot for DS, who is still interested in other activities (martial arts, baseball, basketball) and also enjoys unstructured time with his friends. I was worried that he might burn out, and be soured on soccer (which would be a shame). It would also be a lot for us, as two working parents. We were all - DS included - just a bit too ambivalent to make such a big commitment of time when DS is still only 7. I hope that DS will enjoy ADP (assuming he makes it), play plenty of soccer, and after a year, or more, can decide whether he wants to try out for travel again. Maybe he can get into travel at U12 when plenty of kids are getting out. We understand that there is no guarantee that he'll ever make a traval team again, but if playing ADP as a second grader closes the doors to travel soccer for good, then so be it.

I will say that I was impressed with the way that ASA ran the tryouts (and later, the sorting session for the accepted U9 players). That was a lot of soccer and a lot of boys, and everything ran really well. DS thoroughly enjoyed it, and we'll have no qualms about putting DS through the tryout process again when he is a little older.

Good luck to all on travel teams for the coming year!

With both our DCs in the travel scene, wanted to chime in here that we were following your experience and sounds like a great decision. I doubt you'll regret it. Travel is starting too young now. Too many teams too. Depending on what team you were offered, you should expect to make ADP. ...although sometimes you get really good players at ADP who have no interest playing travel with all the costs.

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Anonymous wrote:Can any Arlington posters tell me about their family's experience in the ASA U9 boys travel program? I'm trying to get a sense of the environment for the U9 boys. Also interested in what a typical week looks like (how many practices? How many games? How much actual travel?). I've read the ASA commitment letter, but I don't know how that abstract "commitment" translates in a real life basis.

My first grader DS particulated in the ASA U9 tryouts, and he's been offered a roster spot. We've got 48 hours (less now) to accept or decline. We're completely new to the travel soccer scene, and it seems like a big commitment. I'm just trying to figure out if it's worth it for DS (who is a good player, but not gifted, and really enjoys soccer - and competition, generally- but also has other activities and interests). I'm open to the idea of travel soccer, but I do have significant reservations. I'm considering ADP (if DS gets through the tryout) as an alternative.

DS is really excited to have "made the travel team" but he has no idea what he's signing up for. I've asked him to consider what he'd be willing to give up tone on the travel team (other sporting activities? Birthday parties for friends? Hanging out with neighborhood kids after school some nights?).

Any input from more experienced parents would be much appreciated!

you really have to try it for at least a season to know whether it's worth it for your family.

Agree. Out of our friends it's 50-50 on what kids want to do it again at u10. Two former soccer-loving kid's friends are quitting after first year. The other 2 are going back.

It's a lot for a 2nd grader. Everyone used to start in 3rd, but birth year change has pushed it into even younger grades. You can always try it, bit if you see it is too much--just sit them out one of the 3 practices and drop to ADP following year.

Don't let others scare you into thinking doors close if you don't accept. By U12-there are a ton of free roster spots again.

Thanks to you - and the others who responded - for your advice. I really appreciate it. We decided to decline the Arlington U9 roster spot, and will pursue ADP instead for next year. The travel commitment seemed a lot for DS, who is still interested in other activities (martial arts, baseball, basketball) and also enjoys unstructured time with his friends. I was worried that he might burn out, and be soured on soccer (which would be a shame). It would also be a lot for us, as two working parents. We were all - DS included - just a bit too ambivalent to make such a big commitment of time when DS is still only 7. I hope that DS will enjoy ADP (assuming he makes it), play plenty of soccer, and after a year, or more, can decide whether he wants to try out for travel again. Maybe he can get into travel at U12 when plenty of kids are getting out. We understand that there is no guarantee that he'll ever make a traval team again, but if playing ADP as a second grader closes the doors to travel soccer for good, then so be it.

I will say that I was impressed with the way that ASA ran the tryouts (and later, the sorting session for the accepted U9 players). That was a lot of soccer and a lot of boys, and everything ran really well. DS thoroughly enjoyed it, and we'll have no qualms about putting DS through the tryout process again when he is a little older.

Good luck to all on travel teams for the coming year!

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Anonymous wrote:None of the ones close to Arl on that list.

+1

Made up story.

+2

same here. If it was true they would have named the small local club with the dates of the tryout. Why make something up like this though, for what purpose

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Anonymous wrote:None of the ones close to Arl on that list.

+1

Made up story.

Anonymous wrote:None of the ones close to Arl on that list.