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Anonymous wrote:No. I worked hard after that. But I know many people that "blossomed" after adolescence. And I know a lot of people that burned out after HS. I will bet that the people that prep for the cogat will result many (not all) kids burning out, and losing interest.
I say let 7 yo's be yo's. AAP and TJ will not define success. Quality of life matters.
This. Much sense here but some people will just never get it. They cannot conceive of "success" that doesn't follow a lockstep pattern from one point to the next. It's the only way that makes sense to them and imagining anything outside that pattern is just. too. difficult.