Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Seriously, unless this was sexual harassment or abuse in workplace, I really don't care. Who TJ is banging, who Amy is banging etc is no ones concern.
I think though that there is a tinge of racism in the reaction of people. The Black man who was banging the married White woman.
- I am Asian so I don't have a dog in this fight.
Not at all. I feel the same way about all cheaters (regardless if race) that act this brazenly with disregard for spouses and children. I care because they are low character with no empathy and if they I here they are both such big liars (both are serial cheaters), I don’t trust them at all, particularly when delivering the news. I know the trauma that comes from being blindsided in a marriage. These people are sh@t.
Anonymous wrote:Aside from the actual cheating issue, is anyone else wondering, with the busy jobs, kids, spouses to at least pretend to cater to, etc., how did they have time to engage in this nonsense?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Seriously, unless this was sexual harassment or abuse in workplace, I really don't care. Who TJ is banging, who Amy is banging etc is no ones concern.
I think though that there is a tinge of racism in the reaction of people. The Black man who was banging the married White woman.
- I am Asian so I don't have a dog in this fight.
Believe it or not, some people act badly regardless of race. It's such a tired excuse.
Anonymous wrote:Aside from the actual cheating issue, is anyone else wondering, with the busy jobs, kids, spouses to at least pretend to cater to, etc., how did they have time to engage in this nonsense?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People who thinks this is fine are in Jennifer Aniston’s words, “missing a sensitivity chip”. This isn’t just about two “consenting adults” who started a relationship after they were each separated & that is being very generous giving the benefit of the doubt since that seems highly unlikely. These two families were close. It is a betrayal on many levels—their spouses, their kids, their co-workers. Imagine how difficult it must be for their children alone—the true innocent parties in this—seeing their parents galavanting in public & embarrassing their other parent in the press with someone they know well. It seems very cavalier & completely classless.
Well said. So mortifying for their exes and the children. They didn’t treat their current spouses with any respect, regardless of where the marriages were headed. I hope they are done on tv.
This is how I feel too. Their spouses must be sad and mortified. Just blatant disregard for anyone but themselves.
It’s traumatizing enough when nobody else knows. I can’t imagine the whole world knowing your personal business and having to see the videos and pap photos, and then worry about your children and others gossiping about it in front of them and have other kids at school talking.
Anonymous wrote:Seriously, unless this was sexual harassment or abuse in workplace, I really don't care. Who TJ is banging, who Amy is banging etc is no ones concern.
I think though that there is a tinge of racism in the reaction of people. The Black man who was banging the married White woman.
- I am Asian so I don't have a dog in this fight.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People who thinks this is fine are in Jennifer Aniston’s words, “missing a sensitivity chip”. This isn’t just about two “consenting adults” who started a relationship after they were each separated & that is being very generous giving the benefit of the doubt since that seems highly unlikely. These two families were close. It is a betrayal on many levels—their spouses, their kids, their co-workers. Imagine how difficult it must be for their children alone—the true innocent parties in this—seeing their parents galavanting in public & embarrassing their other parent in the press with someone they know well. It seems very cavalier & completely classless.
Well said. So mortifying for their exes and the children. They didn’t treat their current spouses with any respect, regardless of where the marriages were headed. I hope they are done on tv.
This is how I feel too. Their spouses must be sad and mortified. Just blatant disregard for anyone but themselves.
Anonymous wrote:Seriously, unless this was sexual harassment or abuse in workplace, I really don't care. Who TJ is banging, who Amy is banging etc is no ones concern.
I think though that there is a tinge of racism in the reaction of people. The Black man who was banging the married White woman.
- I am Asian so I don't have a dog in this fight.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People who thinks this is fine are in Jennifer Aniston’s words, “missing a sensitivity chip”. This isn’t just about two “consenting adults” who started a relationship after they were each separated & that is being very generous giving the benefit of the doubt since that seems highly unlikely. These two families were close. It is a betrayal on many levels—their spouses, their kids, their co-workers. Imagine how difficult it must be for their children alone—the true innocent parties in this—seeing their parents galavanting in public & embarrassing their other parent in the press with someone they know well. It seems very cavalier & completely classless.
Well said. So mortifying for their exes and the children. They didn’t treat their current spouses with any respect, regardless of where the marriages were headed. I hope they are done on tv.
Anonymous wrote:I think they both were cheating on their respective spouses by having an affair.
They both wanted it to appear that they “coincidentally” separated from their spouses at around the same time - then after they were both single they somehow magically discovered love between them.
What a joke!
I am sure they both started their affair first, then each left their marriage yet pretended they did nothing at all wrong.
ABC made the right call by keeping them off the air.
This change should be permanent.
And Amy should consider the type of man she is with now.
Why does she want to date a man who previously cheated on his wife?
How does she not know that he will cheat on her too??!
She will lose her professional career + reputation all on this man.
😠
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think they both were cheating on their respective spouses by having an affair.
They both wanted it to appear that they “coincidentally” separated from their spouses at around the same time - then after they were both single they somehow magically discovered love between them.
What a joke!
I am sure they both started their affair first, then each left their marriage yet pretended they did nothing at all wrong.
ABC made the right call by keeping them off the air.
This change should be permanent.
And Amy should consider the type of man she is with now.
Why does she want to date a man who previously cheated on his wife?
How does she not know that he will cheat on her too??!
She will lose her professional career + reputation all on this man.
😠
Everyone at work knew they had been banging for over a year + and have said as much. The wife caught him. It’s why she started separation/divorce in August and since they were all great friends, Andrew found out. She was having him followed because they were attempting to reconcile but she had her suspicions. She thought it was the woman he had a prior affair with, but shocked that it turned out to be her “friend”.
TJ had 3 different affairs with ABC staffers. The third has remained anonymous for now and he had several “inappropriate moments” with other staffers.
These two are narcissists that thought they were untouchable. What is really sick is TJ and the other staffer came to Amy to discuss their affair and she was advising them!! And then took up with TJ herself a few years later. Unbelievable. They all rode him. Very incestuous. It’s like they were competing TJ be his favorite. Amy won a real prize![]()
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