Anonymous wrote:Well she posted on YT and of course, would never admit if there were challenges. She has to win at everything
https://youtu.be/_xdWdT8MmiU

I had to scroll back to find what video yall were talking about and wow…remy never signed up to be news that Jen has to “share with the world” as she says. Nobody was asking. If they wanted updates on the girl’s time in Spain, Remy is old enough to control her own social media posts (or lack of) and their audience…

Anonymous wrote:Read your first paragraph and then read the second. You think Brandon is somehow more “authentic” than Jen. He’s also a shill. He’s also pretended to heal and rushed into a new relationship and lied about the engagement date. He’s also posted photos of the kids. Brandon, the addict, the guy who tore his family apart, would be more stable than Jen?! Stop putting him on a pedestal.

I don’t have him on a pedestal at all, but the kids don’t have a parental option that’s totally out of the public eye, and both parental options went through a really rough season so either house comes with pain. Former ANC member, so I somewhat knew their personalities off the socials and saw them regularly in action with kids and people and was just suggesting that he and Tina might have a safer landing pad for her immediate return. They have an online presence, yea, but it’s not their money maker. And they have repeatedly chosen silence about their life stuff and family stuff in lieu of having to report on it all constantly like Jen, but with her usual spin and theatrics. I haven’t met Tina yet, but some mutual friends have and said they’re genuinely great together. I don’t know anyone who’s said that about Tyler and Jen except Jen. The point was, obviously Remy is coming home under stressful circumstances and her whole life has been stressful circumstances especially the last few years. Jen has certainly done her part with her posts about Remy. Maybe don’t “welcome” her home with a video on YouTube about how much she needs her mom. 🙄

Anonymous wrote:Kids are off limits. They seem like great, normal kids with all the usual growing pains ours have.

This is all about Big Sis (and Big Sass). And their grifty, calculating, predatory ridiculousness.

They are perhaps even more impressive than usual normal great kids because they’ve managed it while having Jen’s circus around them their whole life.

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Anonymous wrote:Pretty sure you’re spreading online gossip about a child, maliciously. Pretty sure that’s really weird.

Agree with this, and the stand down soldier too. Will at least give pp benefit of the doubt that intent was less about attacking whatever Remy might have done to have her school year abroad cut short, and more about the frustration with how Jen tries to hide it and spin it. She suggests her brand is all about her authenticity, but it’s very inconsistent. Most of her “material” is quite manipulated.

Another reason Remy should probably live primarily with Brandon/Tina. She could use some stability and they wouldn’t be trying to use glimpses of Remy (in photos or stories) as a part of their socials-shows-and-shilling.

Read your first paragraph and then read the second. You think Brandon is somehow more “authentic” than Jen. He’s also a shill. He’s also pretended to heal and rushed into a new relationship and lied about the engagement date. He’s also posted photos of the kids. Brandon, the addict, the guy who tore his family apart, would be more stable than Jen?! Stop putting him on a pedestal.

Kids are off limits. They seem like great, normal kids with all the usual growing pains ours have.

This is all about Big Sis (and Big Sass). And their grifty, calculating, predatory ridiculousness.

Anonymous wrote:Pretty sure you’re spreading online gossip about a child, maliciously. Pretty sure that’s really weird.

Agree with this, and the stand down soldier too. Will at least give pp benefit of the doubt that intent was less about attacking whatever Remy might have done to have her school year abroad cut short, and more about the frustration with how Jen tries to hide it and spin it. She suggests her brand is all about her authenticity, but it’s very inconsistent. Most of her “material” is quite manipulated.

Another reason Remy should probably live primarily with Brandon/Tina. She could use some stability and they wouldn’t be trying to use glimpses of Remy (in photos or stories) as a part of their socials-shows-and-shilling.

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Anonymous wrote:Remy will probably be the latest hatmaker to not give a f*** about things she should absolutely give a f*** about and Jen will call her selfishness/carelessness “amazing” 🙄

💯 And not sure how much most of you know about foreign exchange programs but I know if you leave early to come home it’s not just because “you were ready to come home”. Something had to happen, she was asked to leave. And the family does not get any money back. I know this because I returned from Italy early and my parents were furious. She is just another Hatmaker that probably felt entitled and did not want to follow the rules, what’s new. None of their children have boundaries. Great parenting. I’ve got 3 children of my own and I’m certain I have not been the greatest parent at times but I can say I never praised my children for immature behavior, fits and dang sure taught them independence.

Pretty sure she was booted from the program, of course Jen will never tell the public the actual truth.

I can’t stand Jen hatmaker but she doesn’t owe the public any “truth” about her child’s life or choices. Stand down soldier.

It’s not that she owes us any truth, but that she’ll deliberately decide to spin it (lie) into something that is absolutely not truth. Whatever makes her look good or that she can use as fodder content. I don’t expect an explanation. But she’ll give one anyway. But it won’t be truth.

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Anonymous wrote:Remy will probably be the latest hatmaker to not give a f*** about things she should absolutely give a f*** about and Jen will call her selfishness/carelessness “amazing” 🙄

💯 And not sure how much most of you know about foreign exchange programs but I know if you leave early to come home it’s not just because “you were ready to come home”. Something had to happen, she was asked to leave. And the family does not get any money back. I know this because I returned from Italy early and my parents were furious. She is just another Hatmaker that probably felt entitled and did not want to follow the rules, what’s new. None of their children have boundaries. Great parenting. I’ve got 3 children of my own and I’m certain I have not been the greatest parent at times but I can say I never praised my children for immature behavior, fits and dang sure taught them independence.

Pretty sure she was booted from the program, of course Jen will never tell the public the actual truth.

Pretty sure you’re spreading online gossip about a child, maliciously. Pretty sure that’s really weird.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Remy will probably be the latest hatmaker to not give a f*** about things she should absolutely give a f*** about and Jen will call her selfishness/carelessness “amazing” 🙄

💯 And not sure how much most of you know about foreign exchange programs but I know if you leave early to come home it’s not just because “you were ready to come home”. Something had to happen, she was asked to leave. And the family does not get any money back. I know this because I returned from Italy early and my parents were furious. She is just another Hatmaker that probably felt entitled and did not want to follow the rules, what’s new. None of their children have boundaries. Great parenting. I’ve got 3 children of my own and I’m certain I have not been the greatest parent at times but I can say I never praised my children for immature behavior, fits and dang sure taught them independence.

Pretty sure she was booted from the program, of course Jen will never tell the public the actual truth.

I can’t stand Jen hatmaker but she doesn’t owe the public any “truth” about her child’s life or choices. Stand down soldier.

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Anonymous wrote:Ex-ANCer checking in.

Brandon gave this message nearly verbatim when he was leading ANC back in the olden days.
Do with that what you will.

She probably wrote it for him to deliver. Part of her control over all the things.

More like, part of Brandon’s patriarchal grifting. Did he give her credit? If not, that’s him using her and not her controlling him.

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Anonymous wrote:Remy will probably be the latest hatmaker to not give a f*** about things she should absolutely give a f*** about and Jen will call her selfishness/carelessness “amazing” 🙄

💯 And not sure how much most of you know about foreign exchange programs but I know if you leave early to come home it’s not just because “you were ready to come home”. Something had to happen, she was asked to leave. And the family does not get any money back. I know this because I returned from Italy early and my parents were furious. She is just another Hatmaker that probably felt entitled and did not want to follow the rules, what’s new. None of their children have boundaries. Great parenting. I’ve got 3 children of my own and I’m certain I have not been the greatest parent at times but I can say I never praised my children for immature behavior, fits and dang sure taught them independence.

Pretty sure she was booted from the program, of course Jen will never tell the public the actual truth.

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Anonymous wrote:Ex-ANCer checking in.

Brandon gave this message nearly verbatim when he was leading ANC back in the olden days.
Do with that what you will.

She probably wrote it for him to deliver. Part of her control over all the things.

Also-old ANCer here…. Don’t let Jen fool ya with her Co-founder language about ANC, in the beginning her only involvement was that she was married to the lead pastor and church founder, sat in the front row on Sunday morning and lead an occasional women’s bible study during the week.

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Anonymous wrote:Remy will probably be the latest hatmaker to not give a f*** about things she should absolutely give a f*** about and Jen will call her selfishness/carelessness “amazing” 🙄

💯 And not sure how much most of you know about foreign exchange programs but I know if you leave early to come home it’s not just because “you were ready to come home”. Something had to happen, she was asked to leave. And the family does not get any money back. I know this because I returned from Italy early and my parents were furious. She is just another Hatmaker that probably felt entitled and did not want to follow the rules, what’s new. None of their children have boundaries. Great parenting. I’ve got 3 children of my own and I’m certain I have not been the greatest parent at times but I can say I never praised my children for immature behavior, fits and dang sure taught them independence.

75% of everything Jen posts or says everywhere is dramatized fluffed up BS. Said to banter personal support, push her brand, or sell her followers something. Don’t be fooled people. I wish people would just stop believing and stop following this BS. For the life of me I don’t understand why people can’t see through the fake of it all. It seems so obvious.