Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 07:32     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Today I learned that people don't clean/wipe off new jewelry before wearing it. I am wondering if the people concerned about oils and sweat wash all their clothes before wearing them? I sure hope so!!


And today I learned that some people worry about this stuff. It never in a million years would have dawned on myle to clean jewelry before wearing NOR to worry if someone else has worn a necklace before me. Weird.


Do you wash your clothes without wearing them? Do you really put earrings in your ears without wiping them with rubbing alcohol?? Ewwwww.
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 07:29     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Today I learned that people don't clean/wipe off new jewelry before wearing it. I am wondering if the people concerned about oils and sweat wash all their clothes before wearing them? I sure hope so!!


And today I learned that some people worry about this stuff. It never in a million years would have dawned on myle to clean jewelry before wearing NOR to worry if someone else has worn a necklace before me. Weird.


DCUM skews extremely neurotic.


And nonethical
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 06:49     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
I vote for a return if you still have the tag and you’re still within the return window. People try on necklaces at stores. Say you tried it and it didn’t lay right. It’s been touched by many. It’s fine to return.
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 06:36     Subject: Re:Moral dilemma over a necklace?
I would likely eat the co$t of the necklace then either gift it to someone I know or donate it.

Because I wouldn’t feel right lying about not wearing it since technically it had lost some value because of that.

Sorry OP.
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 06:29     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Today I learned that people don't clean/wipe off new jewelry before wearing it. I am wondering if the people concerned about oils and sweat wash all their clothes before wearing them? I sure hope so!!


And today I learned that some people worry about this stuff. It never in a million years would have dawned on myle to clean jewelry before wearing NOR to worry if someone else has worn a necklace before me. Weird.


DCUM skews extremely neurotic.


I am not licking it! Our skin is a barrier against all sorts of things. Not sure if I would return because they will throw it out. Depends on how important the $45:is to you. I might return it or donate it depending on the day.
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 06:03     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Today I learned that people don't clean/wipe off new jewelry before wearing it. I am wondering if the people concerned about oils and sweat wash all their clothes before wearing them? I sure hope so!!


And today I learned that some people worry about this stuff. It never in a million years would have dawned on myle to clean jewelry before wearing NOR to worry if someone else has worn a necklace before me. Weird.


DCUM skews extremely neurotic.
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 05:49     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:J Crew, I bet?

Feel free to return.

I do wonder how the people concerned about body oils function in life. Do they touch doorknobs?


+100
Or try on bras - that obviously other women have tried on? Absurd. OP, definitely return. It’s not underwear or a swimsuit, for crying out loud.


+1
Exactly.
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 05:49     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
Anonymous wrote:Today I learned that people don't clean/wipe off new jewelry before wearing it. I am wondering if the people concerned about oils and sweat wash all their clothes before wearing them? I sure hope so!!


And today I learned that some people worry about this stuff. It never in a million years would have dawned on myle to clean jewelry before wearing NOR to worry if someone else has worn a necklace before me. Weird.
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 04:38     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
Return to a different location.
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 01:10     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
Anonymous wrote:J Crew, I bet?

Feel free to return.

I do wonder how the people concerned about body oils function in life. Do they touch doorknobs?


+100
Or try on bras - that obviously other women have tried on? Absurd. OP, definitely return. It’s not underwear or a swimsuit, for crying out loud.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2026 23:01     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
I think OP was also beyond the return by date and just doesn’t want to include that fact in the opening
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2026 21:44     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
Anonymous wrote:Be real you used it. Its yours now.

Not a chance I'd be trying to scam the cashier like that.


+1000
And those people who like, "just lie" are the problem too.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2026 21:39     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
Be real you used it. Its yours now.

Not a chance I'd be trying to scam the cashier like that.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2026 21:33     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
You went to an event in it. You wore it. Don't be that person who then returns a worn item.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2026 21:08     Subject: Moral dilemma over a necklace?
OP were you beyond the return date?