Anonymous
Post 01/08/2026 11:18     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Just know that you’ll find him with a naked stripper whenever they dock 🤷‍♀️
“Thats what shore leave is for” is kind of the mentality. And if his boss is already there, welp, good luck.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2026 11:11     Subject: Re:Husband went to a strip club.
It wouldn't bother me but I know (and trust) my husband.

I think your comment about signing up for pole dancing classes is super immature.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2026 11:07     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:Eh, my expectation would be my H checks in with me before doing that to make sure it’s ok. My current BF sometimes goes to Hooters with the guys from work, and he always calls me to make sure it’s ok first. Then you can discuss boundaries, say no, decide what is/isn’t ok, etc.


Girl no.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2026 09:32     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:Eh, my expectation would be my H checks in with me before doing that to make sure it’s ok. My current BF sometimes goes to Hooters with the guys from work, and he always calls me to make sure it’s ok first. Then you can discuss boundaries, say no, decide what is/isn’t ok, etc.
Hooters, they’re still around? But good job, keep that leash tight on the BF. I’m sure that will work out.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2026 08:57     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Eh, my expectation would be my H checks in with me before doing that to make sure it’s ok. My current BF sometimes goes to Hooters with the guys from work, and he always calls me to make sure it’s ok first. Then you can discuss boundaries, say no, decide what is/isn’t ok, etc.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2026 08:16     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
I’d feel betrayed. He should have had the spine to say no, I’ll meet you somewhere else. But he didn’t. Consider yourself warned.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2026 08:15     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:All those Alaskan strippers have crabs from what I hear.

Anonymous
Post 01/08/2026 08:12     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:No, I wouldn't even be annoyed, let alone mad. I'd ask for details. lol


+1

I’d ask to come with, next time.
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2026 00:40     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
All those Alaskan strippers have crabs from what I hear.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2026 23:29     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
I'd let it go.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2026 23:07     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I go to strip club with my husband, so no I would not be mad.

Gross. Big "We check out hot girls together!" energy. 😬


It’s not like that at all.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2026 11:15     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:Hey, OP, you ever gonna elaborate on whether your DH and his boss went to the girl strip club or the femboy one?


She already did awhile ago. The girl one.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2026 10:54     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Hey, OP, you ever gonna elaborate on whether your DH and his boss went to the girl strip club or the femboy one?
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2026 08:43     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I can pretty much guarantee the strippers in Alaska are nasty

You know, I read this and was like, Idk, University of Alaska is in Anchorage, I'm sure there are some cute girls working at the strip club to pay sorority dues. So out of curiosity I looked up the University of Alaska sororities and the average girl who goes there is, uh...well...


A lot of strippers travel for work, both because the demand can be seasonal and because it attracts a somewhat flighty kind of woman. I'd guess there are a lot that come to town to dance periodically, but aren't locals. I wouldn't expect that to be in the winter in Alaska, but I also don't know what the commercial fishing season there is like at all. If this is a normal time for boats to be leaving, I'm sure there are traveling dancers there like the one in South Dakota that only opens during pheasant season.

Yeah, I read an article a few years ago about the women who come to town during high season in Alaska. Sex work is a booming biz. I'll try and find it.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2026 08:42     Subject: Husband went to a strip club.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I can pretty much guarantee the strippers in Alaska are nasty

You know, I read this and was like, Idk, University of Alaska is in Anchorage, I'm sure there are some cute girls working at the strip club to pay sorority dues. So out of curiosity I looked up the University of Alaska sororities and the average girl who goes there is, uh...well...


A lot of strippers travel for work, both because the demand can be seasonal and because it attracts a somewhat flighty kind of woman. I'd guess there are a lot that come to town to dance periodically, but aren't locals. I wouldn't expect that to be in the winter in Alaska, but I also don't know what the commercial fishing season there is like at all. If this is a normal time for boats to be leaving, I'm sure there are traveling dancers there like the one in South Dakota that only opens during pheasant season.