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Anonymous wrote:Good God.

Just reading the comments here makes me nauseous.
The reality is that Erika Kirk would give you idiots more grace than you even consider giving to her.
She did not ask for this role. She did not wish her husband would be murdered in front of millions so she could assume the role he once held.

How bold of you to know exactly how a widow with two young children should grieve.
I think the majority of you are just plain jealous women who have never known true love.

Although she did not ask for this role, she's not exactly running away from it either.

She stepped into the role because this is what Charlie would have wanted. She has made that very clear.
And, her appearances are to promote the book that Charlie finished just before he was murdered.
It amazes me that the people here, who have likely never suffered a loss so significant as Erika has suffered, seem to know what she should say, how she should act, and how she should grieve. You people just have no idea.

Not true. CK believed women should not work and stay in the background. I doubt his succession plan included a woman.

That's a distortion of his beliefs. Ideally, kids benefit from one parent being at home to nurture kids. Of course, many families can't afford to do that, mine included.

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Anonymous wrote:To me, Erika Kirk comes off as a woman whose husband was a real a.s.shole. She's struggling in the role of grieving widow because she doesn't miss him. I know that if my husband ever dies, I'll be in for the struggle of my life to pretend I care. It's pretty stupid how spouses, especially women, are expected to be almost suicidal with grief and no one asks what the marriage was like.

Why do you stay married?

My husband is a violent nutjob who hurts the kids and I, and has promised in all seriousness to exploit the shared custody that is now the default nationwide to punish the kids if I leave.

Hey, you asked.

I asked, and I am sorry for both you and your children. I understand and thank you for your response. I reread my initial response and I realize it came across as snarky, not my intent, but I was honestly curious. Peace and I hope you find a way out safely.

Thank you. I mean that. I'm working on it.

No one ever talks about the women trapped by the equivalent of a 200lb wild animal when they lament the decline of marriage or bash women who aren't adequately doting. Many husbands are just horrible people, and that's leave aside how they sabotage women in nonviolent ways.

I say leave Erika Kirk alone. There's a reason she's not broken up about his death. It's not just that their marriage was a business deal (if it was). She's behaving like someone who has been held back and was just champing at the bit to be her dynamic, executive self finally. That marriage trapped her in some way.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good God.

Just reading the comments here makes me nauseous.
The reality is that Erika Kirk would give you idiots more grace than you even consider giving to her.
She did not ask for this role. She did not wish her husband would be murdered in front of millions so she could assume the role he once held.

How bold of you to know exactly how a widow with two young children should grieve.
I think the majority of you are just plain jealous women who have never known true love.

Although she did not ask for this role, she's not exactly running away from it either.

She stepped into the role because this is what Charlie would have wanted. She has made that very clear.
And, her appearances are to promote the book that Charlie finished just before he was murdered.
It amazes me that the people here, who have likely never suffered a loss so significant as Erika has suffered, seem to know what she should say, how she should act, and how she should grieve. You people just have no idea.

Not true. CK believed women should not work and stay in the background. I doubt his succession plan included a woman.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To me, Erika Kirk comes off as a woman whose husband was a real a.s.shole. She's struggling in the role of grieving widow because she doesn't miss him. I know that if my husband ever dies, I'll be in for the struggle of my life to pretend I care. It's pretty stupid how spouses, especially women, are expected to be almost suicidal with grief and no one asks what the marriage was like.

Why do you stay married?

My husband is a violent nutjob who hurts the kids and I, and has promised in all seriousness to exploit the shared custody that is now the default nationwide to punish the kids if I leave.

Hey, you asked.

I asked, and I am sorry for both you and your children. I understand and thank you for your response. I reread my initial response and I realize it came across as snarky, not my intent, but I was honestly curious. Peace and I hope you find a way out safely.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good God.

Just reading the comments here makes me nauseous.
The reality is that Erika Kirk would give you idiots more grace than you even consider giving to her.
She did not ask for this role. She did not wish her husband would be murdered in front of millions so she could assume the role he once held.

How bold of you to know exactly how a widow with two young children should grieve.
I think the majority of you are just plain jealous women who have never known true love.

You really think she’d give any of us grace?

I think you are a delusional fool who doesn’t realize they are getting played.

I think you're a cynic who's projecting the way you would behave onto Ms. Kirk.

she planned the whole thing.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good God.

Just reading the comments here makes me nauseous.
The reality is that Erika Kirk would give you idiots more grace than you even consider giving to her.
She did not ask for this role. She did not wish her husband would be murdered in front of millions so she could assume the role he once held.

How bold of you to know exactly how a widow with two young children should grieve.
I think the majority of you are just plain jealous women who have never known true love.

Although she did not ask for this role, she's not exactly running away from it either.

She stepped into the role because this is what Charlie would have wanted. She has made that very clear.
And, her appearances are to promote the book that Charlie finished just before he was murdered.
It amazes me that the people here, who have likely never suffered a loss so significant as Erika has suffered, seem to know what she should say, how she should act, and how she should grieve. You people just have no idea.

Anonymous wrote:To me, Erika Kirk comes off as a woman whose husband was a real a.s.shole. She's struggling in the role of grieving widow because she doesn't miss him. I know that if my husband ever dies, I'll be in for the struggle of my life to pretend I care. It's pretty stupid how spouses, especially women, are expected to be almost suicidal with grief and no one asks what the marriage was like.

Let alone people I know I don’t wish for people I dislike to get shot in the head.
I think most people feel this way.

Anonymous wrote:Good God.

Just reading the comments here makes me nauseous.
The reality is that Erika Kirk would give you idiots more grace than you even consider giving to her.
She did not ask for this role. She did not wish her husband would be murdered in front of millions so she could assume the role he once held.

How bold of you to know exactly how a widow with two young children should grieve.
I think the majority of you are just plain jealous women who have never known true love.

You really think she’d give any of us grace?

I think you are a delusional fool who doesn’t realize they are getting played.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good God.

Just reading the comments here makes me nauseous.
The reality is that Erika Kirk would give you idiots more grace than you even consider giving to her.
She did not ask for this role. She did not wish her husband would be murdered in front of millions so she could assume the role he once held.

How bold of you to know exactly how a widow with two young children should grieve.
I think the majority of you are just plain jealous women who have never known true love.

Lol. Are you kidding? She is living her best life right now. She never wanted to live a quiet life as a submissive wife. She’s a pageant queen, and pageant queens live for the spotlight.

She got into Scammy Faye mode before her husband’s blood even dried. She had taken over the entire operation and had multiple fundraisers sent before his body was in the ground. If you told me she arranged the whole thing, I’d believe it 100%.

Your last sentence speaks volumes about YOU. Normal people don't think like that, but you did. Hope you're in therapy..

Anonymous wrote:Good God.

Just reading the comments here makes me nauseous.
The reality is that Erika Kirk would give you idiots more grace than you even consider giving to her.
She did not ask for this role. She did not wish her husband would be murdered in front of millions so she could assume the role he once held.

How bold of you to know exactly how a widow with two young children should grieve.
I think the majority of you are just plain jealous women who have never known true love.

Although she did not ask for this role, she's not exactly running away from it either.

Anonymous wrote:Good God.

Just reading the comments here makes me nauseous.
The reality is that Erika Kirk would give you idiots more grace than you even consider giving to her.
She did not ask for this role. She did not wish her husband would be murdered in front of millions so she could assume the role he once held.

How bold of you to know exactly how a widow with two young children should grieve.
I think the majority of you are just plain jealous women who have never known true love.

Lol. Are you kidding? She is living her best life right now. She never wanted to live a quiet life as a submissive wife. She’s a pageant queen, and pageant queens live for the spotlight.

She got into Scammy Faye mode before her husband’s blood even dried. She had taken over the entire operation and had multiple fundraisers sent before his body was in the ground. If you told me she arranged the whole thing, I’d believe it 100%.

Make Erika Irrelevant Again

Anonymous wrote:I think she finally gets to girl boss to the highest degree and she secretly loves it. She has the ear of the president and can leverage herself even higher than turning point. I don’t think she had him killed, that’s absurd, but she is having a hard time pretending she isn’t benefiting. I also think that marriage was arranged.

I’m with you on every point you just made.

If it’s the right story I’m thinking of, there was some kind of lunch where Charlie told her “I don’t want to hire you, I want to date you” … that certainly implies some sort of pre-date vetting on his part as opposed to an organic beginning. It sounded like he was telling her he’d decided she was a good candidate to ultimately be his wife. That’s just weird.

And she certainly seems to have agreed to play a certain public part in the aftermath of whatever happened.

The trial of this young shooter guy is going to be interesting. He doesn’t come off as any kind of serious mastermind.