I'm no longer attracted to my husband, so don't have sex with him anymore. No clue if he's cheated yet. However, no plan to divorce because it would absolutely kill me to not see my child every day. Also, I want to stop working soon, so need husband's money in order to do that.

I think this is more common than people think

Anonymous wrote:Between my kids, parents, friend, job and hobbies, I redirected my energy completely away from my husband. It was like flipping a switch and I just don’t care about him in the slightest. I haven’t divorced simply because I don’t feel like it. I haven’t an attorney, am ready to file at any time, but going through it right now isn’t what’s best for me.

This is my best friend, who is a strong person who can control her emotions better than most of us. She and her husband have an elementary-aged child, and she's not leaving anytime soon because her husband is an addict and will demand 50% custody, but is a danger to their child if left alone. She confronted him about the cheating (the tip-off was a love letter from his AP in a card he left lying around their house), and he denied it all and claimed he was framed. So, he knows she knows, but I think he assumes they now have an understanding. She has seen an attorney and has a plan, and she now closely monitors all their finances. In the event he files, she's ready. However, she has essentially decided not to file for divorce anytime soon proactively. He's a high earner, they have a nice house, and he's never around anyway, so she finds fulfillment in being a parent, friend, sibling, and through her job and hobbies. She's got a good therapist. She spends money "pampering" herself now more than ever. She's also considered "dating" on the side, but decided against it for now as it's not a complication she needs. I'm sure they'll divorce when her son leaves for college, but until then, she's just focused on herself like PP>

Well what about those STDs?

Hey APs get tested too. Who knows what he's getting into besides you. Cheaters cheat. And yes he does it with the Mrs too.

These responses.. ugh.

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This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.

I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.

Seriously. Why else would you be so irate that another woman stayed in her marriage? I find these threads so weird. The vitriol directed at betrayed women. It comes from the poster and whatever weird sh@t they having going on in their own lives.

There are a lot of triggered APs here misplacing their ire at not getting the ring.

The Holidays are coming. Tough time of year for the APs. Get ready…it’s going to get worse until the new year.

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This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.

I laffed so loud at this OMG

Laffed??? OMG.

The women that are secretly rolling around it and trying everything to get him to leave the wife. They have every advantage while the wife doesn’t even know they exist or that she’s even in a competition. The AP is at her “best” whenever she gets those 45 min in a hotel and still can’t win. Ha.

Ma’am no one wants your miserable spouse FT.

Great. He certainly doesn’t want you more than 30 minutes a month.

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Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.

I laffed so loud at this OMG

Laffed??? OMG.

The women that are secretly rolling around it and trying everything to get him to leave the wife. They have every advantage while the wife doesn’t even know they exist or that she’s even in a competition. The AP is at her “best” whenever she gets those 45 min in a hotel and still can’t win. Ha.

Ma’am no one wants your miserable spouse FT.

Yeah, another post where an OP invents a fake scenario and then gets upset about it

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Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.

I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.

Seriously. Why else would you be so irate that another woman stayed in her marriage? I find these threads so weird. The vitriol directed at betrayed women. It comes from the poster and whatever weird sh@t they having going on in their own lives.

There are a lot of triggered APs here misplacing their ire at not getting the ring.

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Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.

I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.

Seriously. Why else would you be so irate that another woman stayed in her marriage? I find these threads so weird. The vitriol directed at betrayed women. It comes from the poster and whatever weird sh@t they having going on in their own lives.

Lol it's an old meme. Sorry you think everyone else married trash. Enjoy yours!

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Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.

I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.

Seriously. Why else would you be so irate that another woman stayed in her marriage? I find these threads so weird. The vitriol directed at betrayed women. It comes from the poster and whatever weird sh@t they having going on in their own lives.

It is strange.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.

I laffed so loud at this OMG

Laffed??? OMG.

The women that are secretly rolling around it and trying everything to get him to leave the wife. They have every advantage while the wife doesn’t even know they exist or that she’s even in a competition. The AP is at her “best” whenever she gets those 45 min in a hotel and still can’t win. Ha.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.

I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.

Seriously. Why else would you be so irate that another woman stayed in her marriage? I find these threads so weird. The vitriol directed at betrayed women. It comes from the poster and whatever weird sh@t they having going on in their own lives.

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This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.

I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.