Anonymous wrote:Try well written romance that is high on the spice meter. I can give you author names if you want. I'm in menopause and the romance novels work better than the other treatments I've tried. I'm on estrogen and progesterone and I tried testosterone, which is supposed to really help and it did nothing for me. It does help others.

This works for me too but I’d love some authors names. I read Punjabi Widows on our last vacation and that worked quite well. Also, taking care of myself increases my desire for intimacy with DH.

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Anonymous wrote:Wife losing weight

How much does she need to loose?

She’s about 5’1 and about 30lbs overweight. What’s worse is she thinks she’s good looking.

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Anonymous wrote:Less stress, and erotica. I also fantasize while with DH. I have never ever cheated on him. No desire to breakup our marriage, but I need to fantasize to get off.

This is a great idea. What do you fantasize about when you’re with your DH?

Sex images from erotic stories with me as the main character. It's not like I have a certain man in mind. It's more like a dream or fantasy than really imagining myself in those situations.

Like I can never actually see myself in a 3some, but imagining me in it can be erotic.

get a younger woman

“ T shots also shrink the testicles.”

Idk about others. The prescribed T shots are low dose. In general it would take a much higher dose for shrinkage , as in the amount body builders take , which is one reason it’s a controlled substance. If you’re under the care of an MD it’s no problem. After 18 yrs my nuts are the same not that any woman cares. My drive is huge though as an 18 yo.
In a few months T shots will make a man sterile during the time on the shots. It’ll quickly return in about 6 months after off the medication. In my case it’s been a perfect contraceptive.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m not into porn. Female here. But I could make myself fantasize about sex. That would make me horny. It helped. 🤷‍♀️

Are you saying p*rn was naturally helpful?

DP here. 99.99 % of porn is disgusting and disturbing.

Romance novels with some explicit and well written sex scenes are natural libido booster for women.

DH here - it’s really fun to roleplay her favorite scenes. I can tell you that your wife doesn’t f you the same way she f’s The Highlander. Or whoever the main character from her book is. Lol.

Anonymous wrote:Less stress, and erotica. I also fantasize while with DH. I have never ever cheated on him. No desire to breakup our marriage, but I need to fantasize to get off.

This is a great idea. What do you fantasize about when you’re with your DH?

Anonymous wrote:Be careful encouraging your hubby to get T shots.
I honestly feel women determine a man’s T level to an extent. If she’s not sexy and willing to engage sexually on a regular basis , then a man’s T level will eventually fall. It’s part biology that allows a man to live in a low sex relationship. Then the woman complains about ED. Be careful.
Getting T shots without changing that low sex environment could lead to disaster. The T is a strong driving force to engage in affairs.

T shots also shrink the testicles.

Be careful encouraging your hubby to get T shots.
I honestly feel women determine a man’s T level to an extent. If she’s not sexy and willing to engage sexually on a regular basis , then a man’s T level will eventually fall. It’s part biology that allows a man to live in a low sex relationship. Then the woman complains about ED. Be careful.
Getting T shots without changing that low sex environment could lead to disaster. The T is a strong driving force to engage in affairs.

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Someone new usually helps.