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Anonymous wrote:For an upscale Tuscan wedding, I think going to NYC to shop for a fomal dress that compliments the wedding party attire would be a good idea.

Here i pulled this for you. It's going to be too hard to do online. Remember the bride/family probably will care very much about attractive photos.

Key Considerations for the Mother of the Groom Dress:
Coordinate, Don't Match: Rather than matching the bridesmaids directly, choose a color that complements the overall theme or a deeper/lighter shade of the wedding colors.
Consult the Couple: Ask the bride and groom if they have specific preferences or colors they prefer you to avoid (usually white, ivory, or red).
Complement the Mother of the Bride: Traditionally, the mother of the bride selects her dress first, and the mother of the groom chooses a different, complementary color.
Popular & Safe Colors: Navy, champagne, blush, silver, charcoal, plum, or emerald green are excellent choices that are elegant and photograph well.
Consider Venue and Time: The formality and time of day should dictate the dress style and color, with darker, more formal tones for evening weddings.
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Ultimately, the goal is for the mother of the groom to look elegant, comfortable, and coordinated with the bridal party without wearing the exact same attire.
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What does “going to NYC to shop” actually mean in this context?

She could go somewhere like Bergdorfs, Saks, or Bloomingdales and see and try on dresses in person. They all have large selections of formal dresses (Nordstrom, too, but on a smaller scale). It's more efficient than ordering a dress off of the internet and hoping it works.

How would alterations generally work if you shop in NY? You just go back and get your stuff? They ship to you or a closer location? (If Saks Bloomies or Nordstrom, for example)

Anonymous wrote:It would be nice if the OP came back to report what she wore for the benefit of the poster who bumped the request!

Anonymous wrote:Too casual maybe?

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/prescott-floral-mermaid-dress/8759975?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=300

Anonymous wrote:Wear comfy shoes for walking on gravel or grass at the villa!

Congrats to you and your family. And ENJOY!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For an upscale Tuscan wedding, I think going to NYC to shop for a fomal dress that compliments the wedding party attire would be a good idea.

Here i pulled this for you. It's going to be too hard to do online. Remember the bride/family probably will care very much about attractive photos.

Key Considerations for the Mother of the Groom Dress:
Coordinate, Don't Match: Rather than matching the bridesmaids directly, choose a color that complements the overall theme or a deeper/lighter shade of the wedding colors.
Consult the Couple: Ask the bride and groom if they have specific preferences or colors they prefer you to avoid (usually white, ivory, or red).
Complement the Mother of the Bride: Traditionally, the mother of the bride selects her dress first, and the mother of the groom chooses a different, complementary color.
Popular & Safe Colors: Navy, champagne, blush, silver, charcoal, plum, or emerald green are excellent choices that are elegant and photograph well.
Consider Venue and Time: The formality and time of day should dictate the dress style and color, with darker, more formal tones for evening weddings.
Reddit
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+6
Ultimately, the goal is for the mother of the groom to look elegant, comfortable, and coordinated with the bridal party without wearing the exact same attire.
Reddit
Reddit
+1

What does “going to NYC to shop” actually mean in this context?

She could go somewhere like Bergdorfs, Saks, or Bloomingdales and see and try on dresses in person. They all have large selections of formal dresses (Nordstrom, too, but on a smaller scale). It's more efficient than ordering a dress off of the internet and hoping it works.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For an upscale Tuscan wedding, I think going to NYC to shop for a fomal dress that compliments the wedding party attire would be a good idea.

Here i pulled this for you. It's going to be too hard to do online. Remember the bride/family probably will care very much about attractive photos.

Key Considerations for the Mother of the Groom Dress:
Coordinate, Don't Match: Rather than matching the bridesmaids directly, choose a color that complements the overall theme or a deeper/lighter shade of the wedding colors.
Consult the Couple: Ask the bride and groom if they have specific preferences or colors they prefer you to avoid (usually white, ivory, or red).
Complement the Mother of the Bride: Traditionally, the mother of the bride selects her dress first, and the mother of the groom chooses a different, complementary color.
Popular & Safe Colors: Navy, champagne, blush, silver, charcoal, plum, or emerald green are excellent choices that are elegant and photograph well.
Consider Venue and Time: The formality and time of day should dictate the dress style and color, with darker, more formal tones for evening weddings.
Reddit
Reddit
+6
Ultimately, the goal is for the mother of the groom to look elegant, comfortable, and coordinated with the bridal party without wearing the exact same attire.
Reddit
Reddit
+1

What does “going to NYC to shop” actually mean in this context?

She could go somewhere like Bergdorfs, Saks, or Bloomingdales and see and try on dresses in person. They all have large selections of formal dresses (Nordstrom, too, but on a smaller scale). It's more efficient than ordering a dress off of the internet and hoping it works.

She could although I understand Saks is closing. The other stores don't carry cloting for an upscale Tuscan wedding. Just sayin, it sounds like the majority of the suggestions won't fit in with the bride's side. I don't usually care about what other people think but weddings can be so fraught. It sounds like it will be a very testeful wedding.

Anonymous wrote:I have a personal seamstress here in DC. She does tailoring for off the rack items I purchase and does custom dresses/suits/coats when I require them.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For an upscale Tuscan wedding, I think going to NYC to shop for a fomal dress that compliments the wedding party attire would be a good idea.

Here i pulled this for you. It's going to be too hard to do online. Remember the bride/family probably will care very much about attractive photos.

Key Considerations for the Mother of the Groom Dress:
Coordinate, Don't Match: Rather than matching the bridesmaids directly, choose a color that complements the overall theme or a deeper/lighter shade of the wedding colors.
Consult the Couple: Ask the bride and groom if they have specific preferences or colors they prefer you to avoid (usually white, ivory, or red).
Complement the Mother of the Bride: Traditionally, the mother of the bride selects her dress first, and the mother of the groom chooses a different, complementary color.
Popular & Safe Colors: Navy, champagne, blush, silver, charcoal, plum, or emerald green are excellent choices that are elegant and photograph well.
Consider Venue and Time: The formality and time of day should dictate the dress style and color, with darker, more formal tones for evening weddings.
Reddit
Reddit
+6
Ultimately, the goal is for the mother of the groom to look elegant, comfortable, and coordinated with the bridal party without wearing the exact same attire.
Reddit
Reddit
+1

What does “going to NYC to shop” actually mean in this context?

She could go somewhere like Bergdorfs, Saks, or Bloomingdales and see and try on dresses in person. They all have large selections of formal dresses (Nordstrom, too, but on a smaller scale). It's more efficient than ordering a dress off of the internet and hoping it works.