Anonymous
07/20/2025 15:37
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m mid 50s, tall, small waist, small chest, big hips, good butt, but overall 20-25 pounds overweight.
It took me years to get out of the frumpy mom-tankini that I lived in at our community pool when my kids were little, and a few years ago, I made the switch to one piece suits and I feel better.
But now I’m like, seeing stuff on Instagram about what the hell, just wear a bikini, and I wondered if there really are flattering two piece suits for my body type. Long waisted, if that matters. Or should I stick to the one piece suits.
No woman past about 25 should wear a bikini.
I don't understand this. I am 39 and weigh the same as I did in high school. The only real change is loose skin on my stomach. But men can walk around with their beer guts and man boobs proudly on display their whole lives?
Not sure why you turned this on men? The same men doing that have an equal and opposite women who probably should not be wearing certain items according to your standards. It's all stupid - wear what you want and be confident and not give AF what other people think.
Anonymous
07/20/2025 15:35
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m mid 50s, tall, small waist, small chest, big hips, good butt, but overall 20-25 pounds overweight.
It took me years to get out of the frumpy mom-tankini that I lived in at our community pool when my kids were little, and a few years ago, I made the switch to one piece suits and I feel better.
But now I’m like, seeing stuff on Instagram about what the hell, just wear a bikini, and I wondered if there really are flattering two piece suits for my body type. Long waisted, if that matters. Or should I stick to the one piece suits.
No woman past about 25 should wear a bikini.
I don't understand this. I am 39 and weigh the same as I did in high school. The only real change is loose skin on my stomach. But men can walk around with their beer guts and man boobs proudly on display their whole lives?
Anonymous
07/20/2025 08:54
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
Anonymous wrote:Can someone share some brands of bikinis that work well for mid-40 year olds. Not too skimpy, supportive, flattering.
Plus if you can share some styles that work with shorter (5’4”), curvy, short waist.
I am 5"4" with large boobs and short waist. I wear a lot of Vix, their DD cup options actually support large cups. But Monday has by far the best selection and variety to hit a specific size.
Anonymous
07/19/2025 23:38
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
https://www.fantasie.com/
The high waisted bikinis have good coverage and you can shop by bra size, which I like.
The high waisted bikinis have good coverage and you can shop by bra size, which I like.
Anonymous
07/19/2025 23:14
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
Anonymous wrote:Can someone share some brands of bikinis that work well for mid-40 year olds. Not too skimpy, supportive, flattering.
Plus if you can share some styles that work with shorter (5’4”), curvy, short waist.
They are pricey but I’ve gotten some nice ones from Melissa Odabash. Good boob and butt coverage and still look stylish.
Anonymous
07/19/2025 17:45
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
Can someone share some brands of bikinis that work well for mid-40 year olds. Not too skimpy, supportive, flattering.
Plus if you can share some styles that work with shorter (5’4”), curvy, short waist.
Plus if you can share some styles that work with shorter (5’4”), curvy, short waist.
Anonymous
07/19/2025 17:43
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m mid 50s, tall, small waist, small chest, big hips, good butt, but overall 20-25 pounds overweight.
It took me years to get out of the frumpy mom-tankini that I lived in at our community pool when my kids were little, and a few years ago, I made the switch to one piece suits and I feel better.
But now I’m like, seeing stuff on Instagram about what the hell, just wear a bikini, and I wondered if there really are flattering two piece suits for my body type. Long waisted, if that matters. Or should I stick to the one piece suits.
No woman past about 25 should wear a bikini.
My 40 year old self will be rocking one til further notice. Die mad about it.
Anonymous
07/19/2025 17:25
Subject: Re:Should I just wear a bikini?
Wear want you want. I’m 40 with four young children and I still wear a bikini because through sheer luck and exercise I still look good in it. I don’t have the body of a 20 year old and I know that the day will come when I move on.
Anonymous
07/18/2025 17:51
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
Anonymous wrote:I’m mid 50s, tall, small waist, small chest, big hips, good butt, but overall 20-25 pounds overweight.
It took me years to get out of the frumpy mom-tankini that I lived in at our community pool when my kids were little, and a few years ago, I made the switch to one piece suits and I feel better.
But now I’m like, seeing stuff on Instagram about what the hell, just wear a bikini, and I wondered if there really are flattering two piece suits for my body type. Long waisted, if that matters. Or should I stick to the one piece suits.
With that body style, try a bikini with a tank top.
Anonymous
07/18/2025 07:59
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just not a thong please! I was at a public pool with my kids and a very overweight woman was wearing the tiniest thong bathing suit you have ever seen and it was like she was naked from behind. I have never had an opinion on bathing suits before but it was indecent. Just so much uncovered butt around a crowd of mostly children. So odd.
Or maybe just stop checking out womens asses you perv. Women are allowed to wear swim suits, even if you dont like them and even if they are overweight.
Listen people can wear what they want. But they are going to see all the flesh you show. It doesn’t make someone “pervy.” It means you have eyes.
DP please no more thongs at the pool or beach even if you have the sexiest ass imaginable. I do not want to see it and I have eyes so I will see it.
You can close your eyes.
That’s not a reasonable position in public. I can’t believe “don’t shown 90% of your butt in public” is now a controversial position.
Anonymous
07/18/2025 07:56
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just not a thong please! I was at a public pool with my kids and a very overweight woman was wearing the tiniest thong bathing suit you have ever seen and it was like she was naked from behind. I have never had an opinion on bathing suits before but it was indecent. Just so much uncovered butt around a crowd of mostly children. So odd.
Or maybe just stop checking out womens asses you perv. Women are allowed to wear swim suits, even if you dont like them and even if they are overweight.
Listen people can wear what they want. But they are going to see all the flesh you show. It doesn’t make someone “pervy.” It means you have eyes.
DP please no more thongs at the pool or beach even if you have the sexiest ass imaginable. I do not want to see it and I have eyes so I will see it.
You can close your eyes.
Anonymous
07/18/2025 07:43
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just not a thong please! I was at a public pool with my kids and a very overweight woman was wearing the tiniest thong bathing suit you have ever seen and it was like she was naked from behind. I have never had an opinion on bathing suits before but it was indecent. Just so much uncovered butt around a crowd of mostly children. So odd.
Or maybe just stop checking out womens asses you perv. Women are allowed to wear swim suits, even if you dont like them and even if they are overweight.
Listen people can wear what they want. But they are going to see all the flesh you show. It doesn’t make someone “pervy.” It means you have eyes.
DP please no more thongs at the pool or beach even if you have the sexiest ass imaginable. I do not want to see it and I have eyes so I will see it.
Anonymous
07/18/2025 07:15
Subject: Should I just wear a bikini?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just not a thong please! I was at a public pool with my kids and a very overweight woman was wearing the tiniest thong bathing suit you have ever seen and it was like she was naked from behind. I have never had an opinion on bathing suits before but it was indecent. Just so much uncovered butt around a crowd of mostly children. So odd.
Or maybe just stop checking out womens asses you perv. Women are allowed to wear swim suits, even if you dont like them and even if they are overweight.
Listen people can wear what they want. But they are going to see all the flesh you show. It doesn’t make someone “pervy.” It means you have eyes.