Anonymous
07/08/2025 17:46
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for the input. I really don't think I need to worry about them sleeping together. I mean of course we've talked about sex and everything. But she tells me everything and she was so excited about holding hands and a kiss. And drawing on my own experience with my first bf we didn't have sex right away we dated for a full 2 years before that happened, but maybe I'm being naive
They are also never alone.
If he’s here from Australia, he’s not looking for a relationship or feeling obligated by social norms that he might at home. He’s looking to score before he goes.
Bet she is looking to score! Oh wait what am I saying. Girls never think that way.
Well that may be true as well, but he’s just trying to hit it, that we know.
The poor helpless girl! I guess she has no say it the matter.
Of course she has a say, but we’re talking about his goals for this relationship. Tracking a girl by saying you’re in love and then going home is a classic HS boy studying abroad trick.
Anonymous
07/08/2025 17:10
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for the input. I really don't think I need to worry about them sleeping together. I mean of course we've talked about sex and everything. But she tells me everything and she was so excited about holding hands and a kiss. And drawing on my own experience with my first bf we didn't have sex right away we dated for a full 2 years before that happened, but maybe I'm being naive
They are also never alone.
If he’s here from Australia, he’s not looking for a relationship or feeling obligated by social norms that he might at home. He’s looking to score before he goes.
Bet she is looking to score! Oh wait what am I saying. Girls never think that way.
Well that may be true as well, but he’s just trying to hit it, that we know.
The poor helpless girl! I guess she has no say it the matter.
Anonymous
07/08/2025 16:56
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?
Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.
If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.
Were you never 16?
ALL 16 years old have sex on their mind. Girls too. It’s the average most lose their virginity.
Whether they act on it or not, they are ALL horny as heck. I would have 100% given up my virginity to a summer fling from Australia.
Anonymous
07/08/2025 16:48
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?
Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.
If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.
Anonymous
07/08/2025 15:17
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for the input. I really don't think I need to worry about them sleeping together. I mean of course we've talked about sex and everything. But she tells me everything and she was so excited about holding hands and a kiss. And drawing on my own experience with my first bf we didn't have sex right away we dated for a full 2 years before that happened, but maybe I'm being naive
They are also never alone.
If he’s here from Australia, he’s not looking for a relationship or feeling obligated by social norms that he might at home. He’s looking to score before he goes.
Bet she is looking to score! Oh wait what am I saying. Girls never think that way.
Well that may be true as well, but he’s just trying to hit it, that we know.
Anonymous
07/08/2025 12:46
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for the input. I really don't think I need to worry about them sleeping together. I mean of course we've talked about sex and everything. But she tells me everything and she was so excited about holding hands and a kiss. And drawing on my own experience with my first bf we didn't have sex right away we dated for a full 2 years before that happened, but maybe I'm being naive
They are also never alone.
If he’s here from Australia, he’s not looking for a relationship or feeling obligated by social norms that he might at home. He’s looking to score before he goes.
Bet she is looking to score! Oh wait what am I saying. Girls never think that way.
Anonymous
07/08/2025 12:44
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Watch him like a hawk in your house OP. He WILL steal from you!
Yes Australians was a penal colony. They come from a stock of criminals. Much like Georgia.
Anonymous
07/08/2025 12:38
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for the input. I really don't think I need to worry about them sleeping together. I mean of course we've talked about sex and everything. But she tells me everything and she was so excited about holding hands and a kiss. And drawing on my own experience with my first bf we didn't have sex right away we dated for a full 2 years before that happened, but maybe I'm being naive
They are also never alone.
If he’s here from Australia, he’s not looking for a relationship or feeling obligated by social norms that he might at home. He’s looking to score before he goes.
Anonymous
07/08/2025 05:40
Subject: Re:DD 16 First Love
Cervical cancer is definitely a concern here. Has she had the Guardasil vaccination yet?
Anonymous
07/07/2025 17:36
Subject: Re:DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:She is going to get her heart broken when this does not last.
So? First heartbreak is a normal right of passage for most.
Anonymous
07/07/2025 17:17
Subject: Re:DD 16 First Love
She is going to get her heart broken when this does not last.
Anonymous
07/07/2025 08:06
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Watch him like a hawk in your house OP. He WILL steal from you!
It’s in his DNA!
Anonymous
07/07/2025 07:56
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Parents are so invested in making sure 16 yr old starts to get her orgasms. Maybe make sure that her Math grades are good so that she can have a career one day!
SMH.
What a bizarre reply! DCUM really is full of wackos lately.
No, not wackos.
Just moms who had arranged marriages and can’t understand normal American teenage sexuality, but are 100% obsessed with their kids getting a GPA of at least 4.5 or higher.
Anonymous
07/07/2025 07:23
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No she's not going to Australia to visit - she doesn't have the money. She's not financially independent!
Obviously, but that wasn't ops question and no don't bring anything up to her this will all fizzle out in a few weeks time and you trying to be realistic with her will just cause fights and bad behavior. Definitely talk to her about sex, consent and always using a condom even if she's on birth control and yes you need to get her on the pill stat!
She’s had the “basic” obligatory talk at school, but she needs someone she trusts to give her the details about condoms (you’re the person, mom).
Make sure she knows he has to wear the condom, no exceptions (not even one time). Even if she’s on another form of BC.
She might not know he has to put on a new one, every single time. Make sure he’s wearing a new, fresh condom, and not one that’s been in his wallet for the last six months. Maybe provide a box of new ones you bought for her? (And not just 3. Get a dozen).
Let her know he needs to wear one for oral too. Also, teenage boys are um, energetic? Breakage happens in the passion of the moment, so she needs to have lube available to avoid the condom breaking.
Anonymous
07/06/2025 15:00
Subject: DD 16 First Love
Anonymous wrote:Watch him like a hawk in your house OP. He WILL steal from you![/quote]
What?? What will he steal?