Anonymous
Post 07/06/2025 15:56     Subject: Re:Ending of an Era
OP, I am truly very sorry to hear about your diagnosis. ❤️‍🩹

However try not to dwell on the demise of your marriage & instead think of your children.
Your time was not wasted since you now have children.
Trust me on this >> what comes around definitely goes around & karma is a very real thing.

In the meantime try to focus on your health right now vs. seeking revenge.
Seeking revenge will only interfere w/getting treatment and will only make your life worse.

Focus on only ONE thing right now & let the other chips fall where they will.

Wishing you all the best!
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2025 18:25     Subject: Ending of an Era
Being hurt in this manner can change how you see people.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2025 03:18     Subject: Ending of an Era
Anonymous wrote:Wow, some of you really do only care about yourselves and justifying abhorrent actions that show how worthless you really are beneath the surface.

Why should OP be the only one who cares about doing what’s right? I didn’t see any threats of violence here, revenge doesn’t have to be violence. Praying for you OP.


The violence threats were by someone else, they have been reported and taken down.

OP talked about his ex in very ugly terms leading some of us to have doubts about his character.

She’s no longer his problem anyway, unfortunately.

I wish OP healing. Many new treatments are now accessible and I truly hope his disease can be managed for decades to come.

Anonymous
Post 07/05/2025 01:39     Subject: Ending of an Era
Wow, some of you really do only care about yourselves and justifying abhorrent actions that show how worthless you really are beneath the surface.

Why should OP be the only one who cares about doing what’s right? I didn’t see any threats of violence here, revenge doesn’t have to be violence. Praying for you OP.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2025 15:34     Subject: Ending of an Era
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I really wanted to get revenge on him, just to give me something satisfaction on my way out. I know a lot of people who honestly deserve my fate, but never put myself in that category. Guess I will have to rethink who I am, because God obviously feels I deserved this life and this ending. It won’t make anything better for me or my kids to get a win.


Op, I am very sorry for what you are going through. What you wrote is good, get it out there!!!

I would immediately change any policy from DW to kids like right this second...esp if you have TSP!
Then, I would seek ways to improve your odds in fighting this cancer~
Most cancer are not curable but doesn't mean this is the end of your story.

Remember, the good/bad karma(s) may not be in this lifetime. When bad things happens sometime I think, oh, maybe I am paying the last life.
This life I will do better by me and by my children!
Sending good vibes and energy to you. Be kind to yourself.


If you have young children, and she takes good care of them, don't do this. Leaving her penniless to prove a point screws your kids and wrecks their positive image of you. Don't be that guy. Do better because you are better; don't stoop to playing petty games with people you don't even care about.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2025 15:31     Subject: Ending of an Era
Anonymous wrote:I really wanted to get revenge on him, just to give me something satisfaction on my way out. I know a lot of people who honestly deserve my fate, but never put myself in that category. Guess I will have to rethink who I am, because God obviously feels I deserved this life and this ending. It won’t make anything better for me or my kids to get a win.


Op, I am very sorry for what you are going through. What you wrote is good, get it out there!!!

I would immediately change any policy from DW to kids like right this second...esp if you have TSP!
Then, I would seek ways to improve your odds in fighting this cancer~
Most cancer are not curable but doesn't mean this is the end of your story.

Remember, the good/bad karma(s) may not be in this lifetime. When bad things happens sometime I think, oh, maybe I am paying the last life.
This life I will do better by me and by my children!
Sending good vibes and energy to you. Be kind to yourself.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2025 15:18     Subject: Ending of an Era
"cancer of the troll" - LOL
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2025 11:38     Subject: Ending of an Era
Anonymous wrote:There have been a couple posts that seem to indicate violence. I know it’s the internet but I do hope it’s not sock puppeting from the OP about what he intends to do.


IPs are trackable here, so... you know... Choose your own adventure, but choose wisely.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2025 10:35     Subject: Ending of an Era
There have been a couple posts that seem to indicate violence. I know it’s the internet but I do hope it’s not sock puppeting from the OP about what he intends to do.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2025 09:44     Subject: Ending of an Era
Travel. Go buy a ticket to somewhere you haven't been and always wanted to visit.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2025 09:41     Subject: Ending of an Era
^ excuses
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2025 09:41     Subject: Ending of an Era
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I ended up having a number of kids with an insecure cheating female dog. I was stuck due to the kids, but he pursued her slutty a$$ for years while coaching our sons. I can’t decide who is worse, me for believing in people, her for destroying me or him for destroying the family of kids he coached for my sloppy seconds with a thoroughly stretched V. I guess it’s like finding the center of a tootsie pop, the world may never know; but I got to experience all the pain of punishment with none of the benefits of the crime (as usual).

Posting because I found out I have cancer yesterday and am in awe of the magnitude of the regret I feel at having wasted my life raising a family with her. Since it’s untreatable, I don’t have the time or energy to rebuild a life that I can look back on with a smile. I am debating on getting revenge or riding my depression from a failed life into death. What would you do?


I blame both. One reason these $luty women do what they do is because other women give them the benefit of the doubt in a twisted way


None of "these $luty women" are being given the benefit of the doubt by decent women, and their fellow "$luty women" would be all too happy to $lut themselves up on her man... if he were worth it, so I'm guessing he's a bitter ass who got what he deserved. Sorry not sorry.


NP. DCUMad loves, loves, loves making exciting for women’s bad behavior.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2025 06:07     Subject: Re:Ending of an Era
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The world will be a better place without this whiny troll's trolling.




This from a guy that definitely hasn’t lost his wife, family and then found out he was losing his opportunity to build a new life. The world is better knowing you are only a dousche bag tough guy on anonymous boards. I bet there isn’t a person in your life who thinks of you as a role model.


Please learn to spell before you leave us. Douche, not "dousche".
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2025 03:24     Subject: Ending of an Era
Discussing her “stretched V” and all the other things you wrote make me really wonder why she found someone else… Shocker, truly.