Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 20:53     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Anonymous wrote:Confidence can make an unattractive guy sexy! Too many men think arrogance is confidence but arrogance is the biggest turnoff.
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Interesting! Cocky is a major turn off with me and my friends. Know it alls tend to know nothing.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 20:52     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Anonymous wrote:Pete Davidson dates above his level. He is funny which is a plus. I suspect he has the guts to ask beautiful women out (many men don't) I suspect he has had his share of rejections even though that never hits the media.


He likely hung like a donkey.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 20:41     Subject: The men who get the attractive women

They need to be intelligent and have interesting things to say. They do not bore their wives.

Data compiled from all the married men I know who are not classically handsome, tall or with external signs of wealth; yet who married seemingly above their station. Including my husband. They have outsize personalities and very distinct character traits. They couldn't blend in if they tried.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 20:31     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Anonymous wrote:What do the men who get the attractive women do differently from us regular guys? Some of these men are not attractive themselves, but they seem to have “it” when it comes to attracting very good looking and/or sexy women.

Granted I am an introvert, I know my limits as far as the type of women who will pay attention to me. But I would love to up my game and would love to hear from men and women what these men do right that others don’t.


1. Carrying yourself with confidence.
2. Dressing well. Casual but professional.
3. Well groomed.
4. Being financial stable and/or wealthy greatly helps.
5. Being a overall good shape. Don't need six pack but no beer gut. Just workout a little and be mindful of eating.
6. Be funny.
7. Be above average looking.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 20:27     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Anonymous wrote:Pete Davidson dates above his level. He is funny which is a plus. I suspect he has the guts to ask beautiful women out (many men don't) I suspect he has had his share of rejections even though that never hits the media.


He doesn't date above his level, they are his level because he's so funny. And successful, and competent, etc.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 20:20     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Confidence can make an unattractive guy sexy! Too many men think arrogance is confidence but arrogance is the biggest turnoff.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 20:17     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Pete Davidson dates above his level. He is funny which is a plus. I suspect he has the guts to ask beautiful women out (many men don't) I suspect he has had his share of rejections even though that never hits the media.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 19:41     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
I see average men with beautiful women. Some men seem to look past serious flaws to be with a beautiful. Most men want hot and a host of other things. If you want a beautiful woman, find one of the many that are broken, crazy, indebted, loud, or lazy.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 19:18     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Well, there is no doubt about inequities people face because of looks they inherit.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 19:01     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Anonymous wrote:My DH doesn't have money, and he's less educated than I am. But he is tall and handsome. The thing that first attracted me to him was that he was so much more confident than all the other guys around him -- but not arrogant. Just self-assured, and friendly.


Height helps and it’s not always fair. It gives you a starting point compared to other guys I guess.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 18:58     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
My DH doesn't have money, and he's less educated than I am. But he is tall and handsome. The thing that first attracted me to him was that he was so much more confident than all the other guys around him -- but not arrogant. Just self-assured, and friendly.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 18:57     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Anonymous wrote:Some men just have it. One of my African friend is married to one the most beautiful white chick i have ever seen. And they have been married for 15 years and still going strong. He is not the most good looking guy, he is 6’0 kind of skinny and has a thick accent. However he is the nicest man I have ever met. His mannerism, kindness and positive energy brings a kind of liveliness to any crowd he wake into. Despite his heavy accent and being skinny he is incredibly confident and charismatic. When women are around him they can’t stop laughing and everyone likes him. So confidence and charisma as others have said are 2 key attributes.


African….hmm he is a 10 incher….that certainly helps
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 18:57     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Anonymous wrote:Attractive. Tall. Strong earner. Pick 2 out of 3. Because usually you can’t have them all.

I’m dating an attractive guy who is 5’9” and a very medium earner but love his heart. He’s a good man and that goes a loooong way.



Tall is the second thing you mention. Then you describe your pick. Your pick does not fit your top three qualities. It’s odd to read. What’s up?
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 18:55     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Anonymous wrote:Some men just have it. One of my African friend is married to one the most beautiful white chick i have ever seen. And they have been married for 15 years and still going strong. He is not the most good looking guy, he is 6’0 kind of skinny and has a thick accent. However he is the nicest man I have ever met. His mannerism, kindness and positive energy brings a kind of liveliness to any crowd he wake into. Despite his heavy accent and being skinny he is incredibly confident and charismatic. When women are around him they can’t stop laughing and everyone likes him. So confidence and charisma as others have said are 2 key attributes.


What's a white chick?
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2024 18:48     Subject: The men who get the attractive women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don’t care much about your face as long as you have a kind smile, you are funny and you work out.

A handful of muscle can go a long way.

Anyone can build muscle with effort.


I don’t think women care about muscles else I wouldn’t be single. Sadly I kind fit into the meathead stereotype but working on it lol


It depends. I was married to a cutie with no muscles. He is incredibly charismatic and smart. Now I want the muscular type. It’s really nice! Once you’ve tried it…