Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What happened to her was horrific. Period.
That doesn’t change the fact that she is responsible for her mom’s murder. It’s the same as any abused spouse who murders her (his) abuser but not while the abuse is happening. Meaning, self defense doesn’t apply.
She’d walked to the online paroled boyfriend's house. She’d left her mom before. She told the murdering boyf she could really walk. She had access to phones and computers. Many abused spouses never leave - they feel that trapped. That wasn’t completely G because she did leave a few times.
She needs intensive therapy and will have massive problems throughout life:
- felony record for murder
- health issues
- psychological issues
- addiction issues
- no solid and healthy relationships around her as she grew to emulate
- hasn’t learned boundaries as she grew
- not educated
- used to lying and manipulating
- immediate fame and placed on a pedestal
- jumps into a marriage
- has never lived independently
- no work history
- no known employment skills
- no common sense that we know of
- can’t do simple things that nearly everyone her age can (drive, budget, etc )
- sexual abuse
- surrounded by adults who failed her
It WAS terrible what happened to her - but she needs significant and lifelong help. Jumping on tv shows and getting married is the worse thing she can do right now. She should be quietly living with her step mom who seems like the most caring adult in her life.
She earned her HS degree in prison, and probably received some kind of job training or other. The marriage is unfortunate, but fingers crossed her turns out to be a nice guy.
There is absolutely no chance that a guy who reached out to her out of the blue in prison and jumped into a relationship and marriage is going to turn out to be a nice, normal guy.
Anonymous wrote:To me, the bigger question is whether her boyfriend who killed her mother should be serving life. He is on the spectrum, has a low IQ and other mental health issues. He still believes he loves her. She manipulated him (and fully admits to it) into killing her mother. While I wouldn't want him in public, I would hope he is also getting treatment (although doubtful).
Anonymous wrote:To me, the bigger question is whether her boyfriend who killed her mother should be serving life. He is on the spectrum, has a low IQ and other mental health issues. He still believes he loves her. She manipulated him (and fully admits to it) into killing her mother. While I wouldn't want him in public, I would hope he is also getting treatment (although doubtful).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What happened to her was horrific. Period.
That doesn’t change the fact that she is responsible for her mom’s murder. It’s the same as any abused spouse who murders her (his) abuser but not while the abuse is happening. Meaning, self defense doesn’t apply.
She’d walked to the online paroled boyfriend's house. She’d left her mom before. She told the murdering boyf she could really walk. She had access to phones and computers. Many abused spouses never leave - they feel that trapped. That wasn’t completely G because she did leave a few times.
She needs intensive therapy and will have massive problems throughout life:
- felony record for murder
- health issues
- psychological issues
- addiction issues
- no solid and healthy relationships around her as she grew to emulate
- hasn’t learned boundaries as she grew
- not educated
- used to lying and manipulating
- immediate fame and placed on a pedestal
- jumps into a marriage
- has never lived independently
- no work history
- no known employment skills
- no common sense that we know of
- can’t do simple things that nearly everyone her age can (drive, budget, etc )
- sexual abuse
- surrounded by adults who failed her
It WAS terrible what happened to her - but she needs significant and lifelong help. Jumping on tv shows and getting married is the worse thing she can do right now. She should be quietly living with her step mom who seems like the most caring adult in her life.
She earned her HS degree in prison, and probably received some kind of job training or other. The marriage is unfortunate, but fingers crossed her turns out to be a nice guy.
Anonymous wrote:What happened to her was horrific. Period.
That doesn’t change the fact that she is responsible for her mom’s murder. It’s the same as any abused spouse who murders her (his) abuser but not while the abuse is happening. Meaning, self defense doesn’t apply.
She’d walked to the online paroled boyfriend's house. She’d left her mom before. She told the murdering boyf she could really walk. She had access to phones and computers. Many abused spouses never leave - they feel that trapped. That wasn’t completely G because she did leave a few times.
She needs intensive therapy and will have massive problems throughout life:
- felony record for murder
- health issues
- psychological issues
- addiction issues
- no solid and healthy relationships around her as she grew to emulate
- hasn’t learned boundaries as she grew
- not educated
- used to lying and manipulating
- immediate fame and placed on a pedestal
- jumps into a marriage
- has never lived independently
- no work history
- no known employment skills
- no common sense that we know of
- can’t do simple things that nearly everyone her age can (drive, budget, etc )
- sexual abuse
- surrounded by adults who failed her
It WAS terrible what happened to her - but she needs significant and lifelong help. Jumping on tv shows and getting married is the worse thing she can do right now. She should be quietly living with her step mom who seems like the most caring adult in her life.
Anonymous wrote:She could have just gone to the police with her boyfriend. She abetted in her mother’s planned murder then easily lied about it when caught.
Anonymous wrote:She could have just gone to the police with her boyfriend. She abetted in her mother’s planned murder then easily lied about it when caught.
Anonymous wrote:I hope she and her new husband don't rush to have children.