I am 52 years old male and I had good wife and she left
me and found another man when I been diagnosed with cancer. I lost everything and I don't want to live anymore

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Anonymous wrote:Does it matter, honestly? Do 45 year old moms really want 45 year old dads thinking about them while they jerk it?

I assumed once women hit 40-45 they are done with sex.

How old are you? I'm 41 and I have a huge sex drive. Boyfriend is 46 and we go once or twice a night!

An in shape woman (takes real effort, some weight lifting) with a sex drive is well in demand at any age. I’m mid 50s, in great shape and definitely sexually active w my woman who is close to my age.

The thing about working out/ being in shape… only YOU , can do it. Can’t blame anyone else, pass the buck, it’s up to you and a major character indicator.

"major character indicator"

Puhlease. It's simply a sign of ego and vanity. It has nothing to do with character. If you had any, you'd know.

As a woman, I am with the OP that said staying in shape in our 50s is all about discipline. Why wouldn’t you want to feel good about yourself, and healthy! Plus, hard workouts boost endorphins, which means increased horniness.

Well I'm 55 and my boyfriend is 48. We're both in great shape and we can talk and laugh for hours. We rarely think about our age difference.

This is a really dumb post.

Of men find women of similar age attractive.

My mom used to work in a nursing home. Nurses and staff would coooooooonstantly throw cold water on old were super horny buggers and who’d constantly have sex with each other all over the place in the facility with zero shame. 80 year old men still getting hard for old grannies and them shagging like rabbits everyday.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does it matter, honestly? Do 45 year old moms really want 45 year old dads thinking about them while they jerk it?

I assumed once women hit 40-45 they are done with sex.

How old are you? I'm 41 and I have a huge sex drive. Boyfriend is 46 and we go once or twice a night!

An in shape woman (takes real effort, some weight lifting) with a sex drive is well in demand at any age. I’m mid 50s, in great shape and definitely sexually active w my woman who is close to my age.

The thing about working out/ being in shape… only YOU , can do it. Can’t blame anyone else, pass the buck, it’s up to you and a major character indicator.

"major character indicator"

Puhlease. It's simply a sign of ego and vanity. It has nothing to do with character. If you had any, you'd know.

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Anonymous wrote:Does it matter, honestly? Do 45 year old moms really want 45 year old dads thinking about them while they jerk it?

I assumed once women hit 40-45 they are done with sex.

How old are you? I'm 41 and I have a huge sex drive. Boyfriend is 46 and we go once or twice a night!

An in shape woman (takes real effort, some weight lifting) with a sex drive is well in demand at any age. I’m mid 50s, in great shape and definitely sexually active w my woman who is close to my age.

The thing about working out/ being in shape… only YOU , can do it. Can’t blame anyone else, pass the buck, it’s up to you and a major character indicator.

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Anonymous wrote:Mid-50s male here, 6’1” and in good physical shape with a full head of hair. I find women my age, who are fit, interesting and take care of themselves, to be attractive. They tend to be sexually confident and know what they want in bed. That said, I’m not looking to be step-dad to her kids when parents are still hashing out grievances over their divorce. Thanks, but a hard no. I’m not interested in hearing what a shitty parent he was or still is. That is baggage that will drive men away quickly.

But women tell us that once they are divorced they are supper happy, free, and thriving again. They tell us that their Exes are in the rear view mirrors and they do not talk about them at all....

You must not know many women. . . which sort of tracks with the Dbag tenor of your post.

Anonymous wrote:Mid-50s male here, 6’1” and in good physical shape with a full head of hair. I find women my age, who are fit, interesting and take care of themselves, to be attractive. They tend to be sexually confident and know what they want in bed. That said, I’m not looking to be step-dad to her kids when parents are still hashing out grievances over their divorce. Thanks, but a hard no. I’m not interested in hearing what a shitty parent he was or still is. That is baggage that will drive men away quickly.

But women tell us that once they are divorced they are supper happy, free, and thriving again. They tell us that their Exes are in the rear view mirrors and they do not talk about them at all....

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Anonymous wrote:Mid-50s male here, 6’1” and in good physical shape with a full head of hair. I find women my age, who are fit, interesting and take care of themselves, to be attractive. They tend to be sexually confident and know what they want in bed. That said, I’m not looking to be step-dad to her kids when parents are still hashing out grievances over their divorce. Thanks, but a hard no. I’m not interested in hearing what a shitty parent he was or still is. That is baggage that will drive men away quickly.

Do you talk about your own kids?

Absolutely. My kids have already graduated from college and self-sufficient. I’m extremely proud of them. I would not expect someone to step in to be their step-mother. My kids have a mother already. We get along and communicate regularly. We simply are not married any longer.

You're making a lot of ridiculous assumptions about divorced women and what they expect of you. Number 2, you think an awful lot of yourself and that's ok. But don't pretend that is an attractive quality to everyone.

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Anonymous wrote:Does it matter, honestly? Do 45 year old moms really want 45 year old dads thinking about them while they jerk it?

I assumed once women hit 40-45 they are done with sex.

How old are you? I'm 41 and I have a huge sex drive. Boyfriend is 46 and we go once or twice a night!

Congrats for being the exception

Anonymous wrote:Does it matter, honestly? Do 45 year old moms really want 45 year old dads thinking about them while they jerk it?

I assumed once women hit 40-45 they are done with sex.

How old are you? I'm 41 and I have a huge sex drive. Boyfriend is 46 and we go once or twice a night!

I find attractive women in their 50s attractive but I do prefer younger women. They are much harder to get with for sure so I put in the work to find them.

Anonymous wrote:Someone asks if men in their 50s find women in their 50s attractive, and we get 35 pages of women bashing men.

Welcome to DCUM! 😂

Someone asks if men in their 50s find women in their 50s attractive, and we get 35 pages of women bashing men.

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Anonymous wrote:Mid-50s male here, 6’1” and in good physical shape with a full head of hair. I find women my age, who are fit, interesting and take care of themselves, to be attractive. They tend to be sexually confident and know what they want in bed. That said, I’m not looking to be step-dad to her kids when parents are still hashing out grievances over their divorce. Thanks, but a hard no. I’m not interested in hearing what a shitty parent he was or still is. That is baggage that will drive men away quickly.

Do you talk about your own kids?

Absolutely. My kids have already graduated from college and self-sufficient. I’m extremely proud of them. I would not expect someone to step in to be their step-mother. My kids have a mother already. We get along and communicate regularly. We simply are not married any longer.

I’m mid 40s, female. Fit, size 2. My kids are grown and in college. I don’t need a dad figure for them, they have a dad. I had a husband, don’t need another. We get along well and still do lunches with our kids together sometimes.

I find men my age and older to mostly have serious character flaws. A lot of ‘god-complex’ types. Others lack communication skills. There’s a good reason they’re divorced and don’t want to hear about shitty husbands or lousy parenting. It hits too close to home for them.